Getting Rejected

If it's just me doing my 99 slaps,it's kinda a meh but when it's a girl I really want to date then it's kinda crushing you don't even get a chance to see how it could've been

To be entirely honest and open: I feel angry. It genuinely feels like a violation. Like a sort of bullying. 'No, you're not worth my time' kinda thing. I don't take it out on them though, instead I just vent online.

so far ive always expected because its the one thing that is predicable about women in my experience sadly and it when it comes to women my age as they tend to act like im the invisible man older women say that im supposedly attractive but older women to that degree 40+ is a no no(since my older sis is almost 40) but most recently i asked a girl to lunch and when she said no and i thanked her and that was it and no i really dont ask out women out because well as my friend would say "im a pushover whos afraid of women and for all i know maybe after the rejection i might of decided to watch some porn idk what happened after

usually I don't, since I like to move up relationships in steps rather than just jumping into the midst of things. Probably not going about it right, but I look for flags you'd see in visual novels, just hitting the right flags and right interactions. But that goes with making friends as well.


I'm really bad at meeting new people in general though, I'm a bit introverted, even if I do seem talkative, so I tend to put more effort than usual.

when I have been turned down, I do feel a little upset, but just do my best to forget about it. Just because they won't date me, doesn't mean they can't still be my friend. Treat everyone well, and hope to get some of that back at you.

oh you cold as fuck yo lmao

After being rejected by my first love, I haven't been able to fall in love ever since. So I only have that one experience of being rejected.

The rejection from my first love was weird and twisted and I think I never got to confess to him before he already knew from his friends. His friends would often toy with feelings or play pranks on me. Despite me being in love with him for 6 years I don't think we ever really got to know each other. After graduating I told him even though I have a feeling he still knew from his friends, so well yeah of course I felt sad but I think I had cried so much during those 6 years that I just let it go.

Felt like getting perpetually kicked in the chest and stomach. I felt queasy, insecure and frightened to ever open up to anyone again. Bit of a cliché but time heals all wounds, after a while I managed to move past it; it's a terrible feeling but it should never dominate you. More often than not you'll find someone else you love as much, if not even more. I managed to even after I spent months crying about it.

You know it honey

Whatever since it doesn't actually affect me. It's a stranger that I don't know just wanna bang.

For me, I'll probably feel depressed for a little while, but I'll get cheered up quickly and start with forevr romance stalking plan. *evil smile*

I never really been rejected when I asked someone out. I am 5/5 when asking out a guy and 2/2 when asking a girl. I think a few thought it was a joke at first cause I usually will laugh when asking, but they still say yes I suppose.

I been rejected in relationships as in been dumped, but I just destroy their car or leave a pin in their favorite shoes and off I go. (I handle being dumped very nicely lol)

I'm too beta to ask someone out o(╥﹏╥)o

It really depends on my relationship with the person. It stings if I've known that person per say years and they don't feel the same. If it's just an attraction (not super in depth analysis type of thing) then I don't really mind.

I've only been rejected once in my life and that was last year.

I'll tell you about a little dumb story here.


When I was younger I never confessed because there was nothing to confess about, I never actually loved someone, I'm somewhat emotionally deprived when it comes down to love, liking or caring for someone. Every single relationships I've gotten into either started by itself or the girl asked me out, and every single of those relationships I was the one to break up because I didn't feel anything, I never did, therefore it never lasted more than a week or two.

Last year there was this girl I met, I thought she looked really good and bla bla bla story goes on; turned out I thought I actually fell in love for the first time of my life, I confessed to her and she turned out saying she wasn't ready for a relationship although she was literally a man eater, she'd break up with a guy and go out with another one a few days later. I kinda felt pissed off and betrayed for a little bit.

Now he comes the funny part, I understood I didn't actually love her and that in the end I just wanted to fuck her. One week after that I found out she was a distant cousin because it was her birthday and I saw my cousin telling her on facebook "Happy birthday cousin!"

So, it turned out I was rejected by a distant cousin I wanted to fuck and I wasn't aware she was.

The resistance made me harder.

Meh, meant it was a waste of time. Imagine staying with someone who isn't a hundred percent? Better to not begin than be in a relationship with Slutty Mcwhorepussy.

I'd feel down in the dumps for a few days, then go around normally as if nothing happened. I would avoid that girl for a few weeks though.

I get really insecure about my self and start overthinking about my flaws.
But if I tell my friends about it, they just tell me "She isn't gonna get your bomb dick anyway."

I have a really nasty habit of not wanting to associate with her anymore and kinda being a dick though..

Hmmm ive never tried it, so ive never been rejected, but im sure that i will be rejected if i try =p