Why does everyone hate netorare?

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I don't mind NTR, as long as it's not rape/forced and/or paired with an old ugly guy.
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Noutakun wrote...
So I came in here not knowing what in the wild assfuck Netorare is, and google kindly pointed me in the following direction. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=netorare

Seems legit. Not my cup of tea though. Shit, I don't even drink tea.


Urbandictionary is not a good way of getting how the Japanese use netorare or NTR at all. Nothing in google actually leads to the proper meaning of netorare, NTR or even netori.


P.S. To whoever:
Also, -1 to reputation? Saying the truth or even an informed opinion deserves -1 to rep? Don't know who you are, but that's just low. I wouldn't mind low reps as long as they don't hide posts that informs others. Censorship lovers in a hentai community? How ironic, especially when a lot of "normal" people would censor everything and anything that we enjoy in this site. All dat irony.
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dudeman24 wrote...
Noutakun wrote...
So I came in here not knowing what in the wild assfuck Netorare is, and google kindly pointed me in the following direction. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=netorare

Seems legit. Not my cup of tea though. Shit, I don't even drink tea.


Urbandictionary is not a good way of getting how the Japanese use netorare or NTR at all. Nothing in google actually leads to the proper meaning of netorare, NTR or even netori.


P.S. To whoever:
Also, -1 to reputation? Saying the truth or even an informed opinion deserves -1 to rep? Don't know who you are, but that's just low. I wouldn't mind low reps as long as they don't hide posts that informs others. Censorship lovers in a hentai community? How ironic, especially when a lot of "normal" people would censor everything and anything that we enjoy in this site. All dat irony.


I gave you a counterrep not because I read that wall of text, but because I'm a god damn rebel, son. Also, I'm more than aware of Urbandictionary's commitment to biased and unrealistic opinions, I just thought it'd be interesting to see the replies I could get out of it. Though based on a simple description of NTR from an alternative source, I can easily say it's not something I could see myself enjoying in the slightest.
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Noutakun wrote...
I gave you a counterrep not because I read that wall of text, but because I'm a god damn rebel, son. Also, I'm more than aware of Urbandictionary's commitment to biased and unrealistic opinions, I just thought it'd be interesting to see the replies I could get out of it. Though based on a simple description of NTR from an alternative source, I can easily say it's not something I could see myself enjoying in the slightest.


Well, there are some NTRs, mostly netori, that are actually emotionally safer for the normal public.

One of the most often examples I've seen other people give is Hanzaki Jirou's Love Love Rumble, where the MC is the guy who goes out and sleeps with other people's wives. Peace Hame is the ultimate netori NTR manga, since the very goal of the story is for the MC to steal someone else's fiancee, while having sex with other people's girlfriends in the process. I could probably point you to more of them, but the search for good NTR hentai, whether netorare or netori, is part of the adventure.

P.S. for the +1:
Thank you, but you didn't need to do that. It served for me to tell people about ALL. DAT. IRON.
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dudeman24 wrote...
Thank you, but you didn't need to do that. It served for me to tell people about ALL. DAT. IRON.


GOD DAMMIT, I DIDN'T DO IT FOR YOU, I DID IT BECAUSE FUCK THE SYSTEM.
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Noutakun wrote...
dudeman24 wrote...
Thank you, but you didn't need to do that. It served for me to tell people about ALL. DAT. IRON.


GOD DAMMIT, I DIDN'T DO IT FOR YOU, I DID IT BECAUSE FUCK THE SYSTEM.


It's polite to do so, though, so don't fret, rebel-kun.
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dudeman24 wrote...
Noutakun wrote...
dudeman24 wrote...
Thank you, but you didn't need to do that. It served for me to tell people about ALL. DAT. IRON.


GOD DAMMIT, I DIDN'T DO IT FOR YOU, I DID IT BECAUSE FUCK THE SYSTEM.


It's polite to do so, though, so don't fret, rebel-kun.


I feel like this is going to develop into a really awkward yaoi pairing.
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People differentiating cheating from netorare are another form of denial: those refuse to accept that a vanilla artist could do some netorare.

Eventually I think the reason why cheating and netorare almost became one and the same for many people is because what you see is more or less the same thing, with a different focus: still, a woman is fucking someone she is not supposed to. I mean, whether netoru means 'to sleep with and take' or whatever doesn't change the fact that we do have many and many netorare stories with a 'happy' ending where the 'cuckold' gets the girl back, don't we, wouldn't that turn the story from netorare to cheating? Apparently not. Does that make the story any less 'girl taken away'? Guess not, I dare anybody to not call Hakaba's Koukai Benjo netorare, he's much more mindbroken than she is and yet everyone considers it netorare by her side only because pretty much the whole school had sex with her. Whether the woman is willing or not, whether she never yields or she was looking for some sex because she was frustrated, in all situations girl is 'forever defiled', that's pretty much it. Cheating though doesn't focus on the guy being cheated on and the woman is very often willing, she doesn't even need to be seduced (frustrated housewives). Netorare (not netori) makes it perfectly clear who is the victim and tries its best to make him look like a pathetic loser and even when he's not the plot is against him so there's absolutely no way he can win, all he can do is pop a boner, masturbate in defeat or score a phyrric victory (getting the girl back after everyone already fucked her).

But anyway, I still am kinda convinced that what makes a story 'netorare' is mostly the writing. Even a vanilla story can feel kinda wrong because of a misplaced line. Ever heard of 'I got taught many things'? It's like sticking a 'USED GOODS' label on her shirt. There are some Higenamuchi translated stories about one-time cheating, guy fucking his friend's sister, couple swapping. I am more or less immune but I can tell if I wasn't my rage would be over the roof as they all read like 'in your face' netorare, the worst one. By definition they are not yet they read like it and I'm sure this is what the author wanted.

Scarlet Desire is unquestionably netori and yet you don't see it tagged anywhere, only incest as that's the main focus, that's why people look for it, if they wanted incest netorare they'd go straight to Hana Hook. Shunjou Shuusuke got some cheating wife stories and they are tagged accordingly whereas Yoshiura Kazuya gets often insta-netotagged because even a one-night-stand story of his like Sleepy Pussy feels wrong. On the other hand Little Problem got tagged as both 'vanilla' and 'netorare' and somewhere else people flat out refused to do it, the best it got was 'cheating' and 'reverse-ntr' as they associated netorare with the bad guy and seeing the good guy win felt weird. The Same School by Itaba Hiroshi follows more or less the same pattern with the bullied subordinate winning over a woman being cheated on by his boss. The same Coelacanth story is netorare by the author's own admission yet the writing is so bad all you can do is shift the eyes: more than a ntr story it feels like a tsundere story with a girl terribly in denial about her childhood friend and the bonus of an unlucky boyfriend caught in her denial. 'I-It's not like I'm agreeing to do this sex training course for you or anything'.

I don't know, tagging probably should be on a case-per-case basis but I don't think many people would be willing to sit down and do that every time in order to make a proper distinction.
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Because they're pussies.

Seriously though, some people just have different taste and either can't dissociate themselves from the person getting NTR'ed or they just don't like the feeling of betrayal NTR attempts to make you feel. For me, I enjoy NTR because I can do the first option. Others can't and some constantly bash it to as if we two shits that they don't like it. I'm cool with people not liking NTR but I wish people would stop reading it if they don't like it.
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LaowPing wrote...
Because they're pussies.


I dislike NTR. Does that make me a pussy ?

Probably many NTR-hater are men. Do they have any pussies ?

LaowPing wrote...
some constantly bash it to as if we two shits that they don't like it


Ah... I do not understand that sentence, can you explain it again ? No offence here, I really do not understand. May be my English are not good enough (still learning English).

LaowPing wrote...
Seriously though, some people just have different taste...


I know, but why ? Why do people like netorare ? Is the any reason for the establishment of that taste ? Which part of NTR is good for them, which benefit or positive value, physically and spiritually, that NTR works can bring to them ? Which needs of these people that the NTR works manage to satisfy ? Is there any good value and contribution of the NTR works and mangaka ? Especially the hardline NTR which break the dumped main character, and mind-break the remaining MC into sex-obssessed creatures which value sex over than anything.

I do not deny that I have vigorous discrimination against hardline NTR and NTR fans. But bashing them is not my motive in this post. I just want to understand clearly and comprehensively, why NTR is needed ? What is the reason for the existence of NTR taste ? Is NTR critical realism like Balzac or Dostoevsky ? Or people just watch porn and jerk off, do not care much about the storyline ? Or seeing someone being broken off deliver a sense of superior ?
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Misaki_Chi Fakku Nurse
yiwolyeon wrote...


Tip about the forums, look at the date of old posts before you start to quote people. Last comment is over 2 years old.

Also, I wouldn't give NTR that much philosophical thought. Basic thing about NTR is the man is usually dominant over a female and the female submits and gets aroused by it (some they don't, but to each their own). Just another flavor to try and experience. Some people also have the "rape fantasy" mentality, I know I just like it because it has a rough-housing element to it and it's a change of pace from sweet vanilla. The art and sex scenes when done right are pretty good as well.
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I'm as anti-vanilla as they come but even then I don't get the appeal of NTR. I'm not offended by it or anything, I just don't get it.
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I for one love ntr but i also dislike it if that makes sense.

My reason for disliking it is because there is never a ntr where the MC is a girl and her boyfriend is being taken away or becomes addictated to another female and the MC girl is broken hearted and helpless.

Even when a girl is ntr it always end up where she is still happy with the one she love normally by sharing the guy. Thats not ntr it would be ntr if it focused on how much pain she suffers and show how weak she is for not doing anything about it. But sadly ntr never have a woman go through it and that is why i dislike a genre that i truly love

also i dislike the fact that in every ntr the MC nevre gets to have sex with the love interest not even once
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I only new Netorare just fucking now the fucking heart broking shit that is called netorare fuck fuck fuck, if i had known this a couple of years before i wouldn't have read or watch those fuckers fuck fuck, im just gonna say this...i fucking cried even though i should fap.....i hate bad or sad story...and the art is fucking awesome as shit.....such a waste in my opinion.. now i cant sleep nor fap fuck fuck fuck
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Imari Little White Butterflies Staff
virginkid20 wrote...
I only new Netorare just fucking now the fucking heart broking shit that is called netorare fuck fuck fuck, if i had known this a couple of years before i wouldn't have read or watch those fuckers fuck fuck, im just gonna say this...i fucking cried even though i should fap.....i hate bad or sad story...and the art is fucking awesome as shit.....such a waste in my opinion.. now i cant sleep nor fap fuck fuck fuck


Most appropriate username ever.
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Hulmy Nep-Nep
I thought it was obvious why some people don't like NTR?
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FinalBoss #levelupyourgrind
Obviously because it makes you feel like shit. I grew to like it though.
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@FinalBoss then something is definitely broken in your mind and you should get therapy.
Taste is one thing and fantasy is another, but to feel sexual arousal from betrayal, hopelessness, jealousy and rage something is seriously wrong with that particular person.

For me I btw liked "The Same School" by Itaba Hiroshi, I know it is NTR, but the netori kind and the inability of the guy getting NTRd in this work is plausibly explained (from section supervisor - who cheats on his (imo absolutely HOT) wife to a demoted and shamed rookie with a deep impact in his entire worklife.
I also enjoyed a story where a wife is NTRd from a Home Tutor of the neighbor woman who her husband is cheating on her, she is also getting raped by a homeless man who - according to his own testimony didnt wash for 10 years - Urgh!! - and gangbanged inside a train of the whole train car, everything set up by the NTRer. During the rape from the Hobo she hears that her husband is cheating on her and also that he is disgusted by her bed habits (which is the reason for his affair), I think the name is something with "Wife Kyouko-san" or something.
B2T:
IF the plot is plausible, which are MOST Netori stories (Wife feels neglected, wants to feel sought-after again) then I enjoy the story. BUT IF the plot is not, like "Girlfriend wants sex from her boyfriend but doesnt want to look like a slut (who would think that anyway if the girlfriend would ask for sex) He doesnt want to be too pushy and give her time and the best friend or a good friend takes advantage of a moment of weakness of hers (she masturbates in the school or something) and uses it to blackmail her into having sex with him. Of course she isnt having sex with her actual boyfriend and without EVER having seen his dick its stated as fact that his dick is not only smaller than the other guy's but also because hes a virgin he wouldnt be able to make her feel good, then I rage so hard that some of my blood vessels even pop.
Make it a good story then its good if you dont its crap...
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Sanada-Kun wrote...
[color=red]oh look thread about NTR again
Answer for your question
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Because :
1. People that experienced being NTR-ed in real life? Maybe reading NTR will bring trauma to them. Well I rarely seen them around but probably there's few people in here.


This one for me, its not cool, considering I almost killed a guy over it, not something I wanna relive. Just glad I didn't become a murderer over the slut Fiancee.
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A topic that can cause a flame war depending on what you hit on the vanilla or NTR fan, it's like what favor of ice cream you like. For me I'm a harem fan. But NTR can go overover making people hate it
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