How did you figure out what you want to do in life

I think that you get two options.
1: You're born knowing what you want to do, you pursue that dream and you do it, or die trying.
2: You go with the flow and it just comes to you. It can come to you at any point.

I have always been nervous and anxious wherever I go and whatever I do throughout my life, and I still do. But, drinking a cup of coffee while listening to music with a good pair of headphones at a nice cafe has always helped me relax. Cafe is a special place for me, so I want to work and spend my life there. Hence, I am studying to become a barista. So, to answer your question, I found what I want to do in my life by figuring out what relaxes me the most.