Is it bad if you're a nympho?

You have a very lucky husband. All the girls I know personally only care about money, religion, or other annoying things which drive them away from the bedroom.

Try looking into new kinks to experiment with him if you aren't getting satisfied from sex though. He's very fortunate to have a wife who would fuck him for reasons beyond having children.

Hell nah!

Only if it gets in the way of your everyday ability to function (work, school, etc). But being into it is never bad! ;D

Just sounds like you're horny.

Most people are horny. But they act like they aren't because it was commonplace to be told being horny was bad.

You're fine. As long as it isn't detrimental to your marriage, career, etc it's not a problem. It's actually a good thing as it shows you have a healthy relationship.

Yeah, it is kind of the same way for me when I get in the mood. As for masturbation, I've tried all sorts of things, but it's just not as satisfying for me as when my husband does it. With masturbation, it usually takes about an hour before I start up again.... But I suppose that's better than nothing. Still, I'll try to keep myself busy as well. It may be a bit difficult, but masturbating every hour would be too excessive. lols.




:D That's true, too. I do love him very much, and I enjoy making him feel good and just connecting with him on that level. ^_^




Yeah, I can never bring myself to cheat on him. He's been my one and only everything. I haven't even been on a date or kissed anyone else before I met him, and I want to keep it that way. I cherish and love him above anyone or anything else, and I wouldn't dare hurt him in any way. I also do wait when he asks me too. :3 It's hard, but I do it. xD



O.O Really? That's awful... As for being satisfied by sex, he really does a great job, actually, it's just well... I guess I just never want it to end as soon as we start and I just crave even more of him. ^/////////^; And yeah, he and I don't want children, at least not yet. I'm only 20, and he's 25, so we're both still fairly young and we just want to enjoy time together as of right now. But even if I did want children, I wouldn't only sleep with him for just that reason alone. That's really depressing.




Hmm... That's a good idea. I've never actually tried to have him catch me doing that before. Maybe I should try that. :O



Okay, that's good. ^_^ I'm not as bad as I thought then. :D Lols!




That's such a huge relief. ^_^ I'm glad that I don't have such a big problem. I was really worried if I was out of control or not.

OneShott said it best. You're really just looking at a mismatch in sex drive.

Many men find it embarrassing when their partner has more than they do, but it's important for your marriage to discuss this openly. Tell him that you are not satisfied with the way things are going, and focus on making him aware of your feelings.

You are under the same token. Take his situation and libido into account before any decision is made. Focus on open communication.


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This problem may seem trivial now, but as relationships evolve, it can become more troublesome.

During those times when you are both in the mood, use that extra energy to make your periods of intimacy that much more enjoyable for both of you. Focus on the things that make you both the happiest and then take it to a higher level. If you knock his socks off enough, you might find his libido rising to match yours. Just remember, you're entitled to your own pleasure too!

Find a relatively interactive hobby. Its very effective.

You don't sound like a nympho, but I think your husband might be insane.

I think I speak for most single guys when I say that having a charming, gorgeous, sexually vibrant wife is like the greatest thing that could ever happen in my life. Like seriously, what's wrong with the guy D:<

If this was in hentai, I would suggest raping him. But like most real world problems, rape probably isn't the solution here :/

I'd imagine this is especially hard for a woman.
Husband doesn't get enough from his wife? Welcome to the club.
Wife doesn't get enough from her husband? You probably can't tell the neighborhood wives, since they'll most likely think you're a slut. You probably can't tell any of your male friends, because chances are, they'll assume you want to have an affair with them.

Your best bet might be some kind of kinky stuff to rekindle the fire. I have no experience, so that's the most detail I can give. Masturbation is a solid backup plan.

I'm rooting for you!

I hope you mean literally >:D

no but seriously, he has a point.. try some kinky stuff, get him interested.. but the only reason i can think which might explain his lack of wanting sex, maybe because he's dry? iunno... maybe he's just a weird man..

I was unaware that rooting had a literal meaning. I'm guessing it's masturbation related?

Edit: Apparently, "rooting" is Australian slang for fucking. The more you know.

^^ our slang is pretty much another language to itself.. some of us are having trouble with it :/

Thank you so much for your kindness. I truly appreciate it, and I'm really thankful that no one on here is judging me. Everyone on here seems to be truly nice. ^_^ Honestly though, there isn't anything wrong with my husband. He doesn't actually withhold sex from me, but he likes to keep it to every other day, which is a huge improvement over that one slump we went through before. Maybe it's like what some people had mentioned earlier on here about us having a difference in our sex drives. But I'll definitely try what you suggested out. If anything, it might be fun.