[Locked] Is it justified?

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You are a prime example of why people should be forced to wear chastity belts from age ten and have to pass an IQ test and other intelligence exams to take it off. You are incredibly naive and idiotic to have assumed she was on the pill. NEVER assume, especially when it comes to women and sex. You got burned because you did. Sit down and have a real heart to heart with her. Neither of you can support a baby. Tell her an abortion is the only way you two won't end-up as trailer trash at this point. Failing that, you get what you deserve and I weep for you. That you would even suggest such behavior to try and subversively terminate her potential pregnancy proves you are unfit to be responsible for another life.
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Oh, god... Just.. where do I begin with this?

No! So much No! A world of No!

Take her in to a doctor, you need to know for sure. If she's not pregnant, walk out of there WITH BIRTH CONTROL IN YOUR FUCKING HANDS. Use spermicide in conjunction with a condom. If you're going to lead irresponsible lives of debauchery, at least have the sense to safeguard yourselves from forced responsibility. Get your shit together.
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Okay, putting my professional therapist approach aside, because this is really too much to stay objective:

GEEZUS H FUCKING CHRISTER !!! I really can't decide which one of you is more stupid. You for assuming that she IS on birth control and forgetting about possible sexually transmitted diseases or she, who KNOWS that she isn't on birth control on top of the possibility of sexually transmitted diseases.

She is either stupid as hell, or she just plays the dumb part and actually WANTS to get pregnant so she can make you marry her. And yes, such girls exist. A LOT.

But your stupidity doesn't end there, oh no, instead of going for the obvious solution of the morning after pill, you're coming up with such stupid ideas like the "normal" pill and cigarettes and alcohol. Sorry pal, but there are pregnant women in the world, who don't quit smoking and drinking (or even taking drugs) during pregnancy and they still end up giving birth ... to something.

This is you taking "fucking up an innocent life" to the next level.

Not only that you don't have money to raise a kid, not only that it would grow up in a loveless environment (which is far worse than the poorness factor), no, you have to fuck up it's health too

This ... this ... THIS ABOMINATION ... disgusts me in so many ways, that I don't even know where to start.
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First of all, you did all that unprotected sex for what you say is 5 days in a row and she's not a pill and you're only 60% sure that she's pregnant? What the fuck kind of estimate is that? Drinking and smoking to get rid of pregnancy?! You must be trolling because that was some pretty dumbass shit you just typed. Trying to get rid of the pregnancy using amateur methods like cigarettes and alcohol could lead to birth defects or miscarriage, which puts an incredible strain on the woman's body.

You say you can't afford a kid right now so that's a negative.
You don't have your degree yet nor do you have a stable job.
What do you mean "Is it justified?"! The proof is in your opening post. Bring her to a doctor right now! You were clearly aware of the risks that came along with sex with no condom, let alone any form of deterrent and you didn't stop think that maybe...just maybe that it wasn't such a good idea? You gotta stop thinking with your dick and start thinking with them brain cells.
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Does anyone realize that A) There is no way circumstances Hallowe'en life that in real life, B) this is the plot of several hentai merged with each other and a splash of reality, C) my girlfriend is not pregnant because I never go anywhere without a condom... this was more of a "would you like the main male character of most hentai if they existed IRL?" The answer is a resounding "no" I only forgot a rain slicker once and I'm paranoid about that, but seriously think about it, most hentai happen with a young couple having unprotected sex, orgasming multiple times and there being no repercussions. I'm sorry to have led you all on like that but none of these things occur to the main male and it's honestly not even slightly negative in the long run for them... think about it for a second though, really guys how could this happen IRL and who would maker such immature conclusions as to what to do about it...
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[quote="Yukito-kun"]Does anyone realize that A) There is no way circumstances Hallowe'en life that in real life, B) this is the plot of several hentai merged with each other and a splash of reality, C) my girlfriend is not pregnant because I never go anywhere without a condom... this was more of a "would you like the main male character of most hentai if they existed IRL?" The answer is a resounding "no" I only forgot a rain slicker once and I'm paranoid about that, but seriously think about it, most hentai happen with a young couple having unprotected sex, orgasming multiple times and there being no repercussions. I'm sorry to have led you all on like that but none of these things occur to the main male and it's honestly not
even slightly negative in the long run for them...
think about it for a second though, really guys how
could this happen IRL and who would maker such
immature conclusions as to what to do about it...[/
quote]

Ok wtf? If I'm reading this right
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I.... have a headache. Beyond the fact that I'm surprised anyone can understand the shit you type up, I'm more surprised that this topic has gone up to two pages. It's your fault for not being clear/coherent, thus any misunderstanding is really no ones fault but yours, whether this was some unusual plot you had an idea for, or reality/your personal life. Either way, shame on you.
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You're a fucking moron.
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Yukito-kun wrote...
I found out THIS MORNING that she wasn't on birth control, my mistake for assuming she was, but in that situation assuming that she was rational I thought she was on it, an IUD, depo shot, daily pill, weekly pill, monthly pill, something, also finding out this morning that this is her ovulation time made matters worse... I took to many assumptions and I'm rectifying them now, I simply want to know if effectively killing this possible zygote before it gets a chance to develop is justified... I'm not going to make the and mistakes again and trust me I know how stupid it was, I can't do anything about it now but either accept the possibility that I might become a father or figure out a way to ensure that it doesn't have a chance to grow... I'm beating myself up about this more than any of you are (and if not then clearly you need to focus on getting your own life because nobody should care more about my life than their own) Anyway I do feel I need to clarify one thing, if I'm even a second late on pulling out I consider it for all intensive purposes "inside", even if it's just a drop I consider it inside... if my DNA is left inside of her regardless of how little it is it's inside from my perspective... Just tell me if you were in my shoes would you destroy it under the assumption that "there's noting in there and even if there is both components would have individually died..." or would you step up because of your on careless assumptions and accept the possibility of your fate?



It sounds like there may be some trust issues going down. Did she SAY she was on anything or did you assume she was?

Also, keep in mind that yes, in this situation, you probably don't want the child (rightfully so...) that she has a say in the matter.
TALK to her about this. If you think she is pregnant, SHE should be the person you turn to, not Fakku.

I see that she has said she would keep the child... you want to somehow prevent this?
MAKING HER BEGIN BIRTH CONTROL, SMOKE AND DRINK are NOT going to do that.
If anything, they will harm the child and affect its development severely, not kill it altogether. Do not attempt such a plan, because if she chooses to actually have the kid, it will be in a world of hurt all its life.

On the matter of actually having the kid... sorry pal, but when you impregnate a woman, it becomes a decision for both of you, but largely for the person who has to carry the child to term. In this case, that's your fiancee... and it seems like she wants that.
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Federico wrote...
...doing what you do, let me tell you, is extremely stupid.

If you can't afford to have a baby, you can't just have sex with your gf without a condom for 5 days straight always finishing inside her. Geez.


This. D:
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Not going to lie, You are pretty much fucked. Unless you can convince the chick to have the abortion (kinda skim read the thread, and I think it said she'd keep it) you're going to have a child, and you're going to be pretty much fucked. unless you live somewhere where there is a baby bonus, you're going to have little to no money for food (assuming you are as broke as i think, paying rent, bills and whatever, and only having like $50-100 spare a week)

There was a statistic i read somewhere that calculated, the average child costs a family $600,000 in it's first 16 years.

Either convince her to get an abortion, or admit defeat, start saving up/ get a better job, and prepare for the fuckload of spendings you are going to have to fork out. think about it, wedding aint cheap as grav said, hospital bills from pregnancy, food for the child, bedding, room, etc. money money money.

tl;dr: either convince her to abort (assuming she is pregnant) or get a second job/ better job, and prepare to get your ass handed to you by the bank.
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HappyDia01 wrote...
You're a fucking moron.


totally +rep for this. took the words right out of my mouth.
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Yukito-kun wrote...
Does anyone realize that A) There is no way circumstances Hallowe'en life that in real life, B) this is the plot of several hentai merged with each other and a splash of reality, C) my girlfriend is not pregnant because I never go anywhere without a condom... this was more of a "would you like the main male character of most hentai if they existed IRL?" The answer is a resounding "no" I only forgot a rain slicker once and I'm paranoid about that, but seriously think about it, most hentai happen with a young couple having unprotected sex, orgasming multiple times and there being no repercussions. I'm sorry to have led you all on like that but none of these things occur to the main male and it's honestly not even slightly negative in the long run for them... think about it for a second though, really guys how could this happen IRL and who would maker such immature conclusions as to what to do about it...


i don't read hentai for it to be real i read it because its far off and there are no consequences
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perithion wrote...
Yukito-kun wrote...
Does anyone realize that A) There is no way circumstances Hallowe'en life that in real life, B) this is the plot of several hentai merged with each other and a splash of reality, C) my girlfriend is not pregnant because I never go anywhere without a condom... this was more of a "would you like the main male character of most hentai if they existed IRL?" The answer is a resounding "no" I only forgot a rain slicker once and I'm paranoid about that, but seriously think about it, most hentai happen with a young couple having unprotected sex, orgasming multiple times and there being no repercussions. I'm sorry to have led you all on like that but none of these things occur to the main male and it's honestly not even slightly negative in the long run for them... think about it for a second though, really guys how could this happen IRL and who would maker such immature conclusions as to what to do about it...


i don't read hentai for it to be real i read it because its far off and there are no consequences


That's the point I'm making. It's in my argument that hentai doesn't make bad period. I'm archiving this, several of of the loli/shota threads, and everything that proves that hentai enthusiasts are at least quasi-normal and rational individuals. It wasn't aimed at being a troll but a semi-candid portrayal of the average user. Post links to any threads you think I ought to add to my archive.
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...good one there, duh
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artcellrox The Grey Knight :y
We seem to be getting off-topic here. -_-

Kip! Update! Now!
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Yukito-kun wrote...
So I'm 60% sure fiancee is pregnant


Get a proper pregnancy test. There is no such thing as I am x% sure of pregnancy.


Yukito-kun wrote...
apparently we've only had asserted during her expected ovulation, she hatred condoms, she's not on birth control, I frequently cum inside of her


- Expected ovulation date can sometimes be off due to other things like stress
- Your real problems lie in the refusal to use contraceptions and ejaculating
inside (not that pulling out is all that much better).

If neither of you are ready to have children then:

1. Use contraceptions.
2. Don't have sex
3. Get a vasectomy

Your choice. I know which one I'd go for.


Yukito-kun wrote...

Spoiler:

I know that if I start her on birth control, postpone her quitting of smoking and gave her a few drinks that it would prevent the little Yukito from growing and the zygote would die. Is if justified to do this to ensure that when I do have a kid with her that I know I can afford to give it a good life as well as ensure that both of us can get a degree and a stable job? Remember that life may be a right, but So is maintaining a standard of life. Being born into a hopelessly poor family that started at a young age won't provide the opportunity to enjoy a semi-normal life. I grew up with no Father and a poor standing in life, things were hard and I don't want my kid to to through that too...



Well there is no guarantee that doing any of that will prevent apregnancy from progressing. In fact all you are doing is increasing the chance of giving rise to intra-uterine growth restriction and Foetal Alcohol Syndrome. If you haven't got the resources to bring up a healthy child I doubt you can raise a sick one.
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PrincessTristan wrote...
Yukito-kun wrote...
So I'm 60% sure fiancee is pregnant


Get a proper pregnancy test. There is no such thing as I am x% sure of pregnancy.


Yukito-kun wrote...
apparently we've only had asserted during her expected ovulation, she hatred condoms, she's not on birth control, I frequently cum inside of her


- Expected ovulation date can sometimes be off due to other things like stress
- Your real problems lie in the refusal to use contraceptions and ejaculating
inside (not that pulling out is all that much better).

If neither of you are ready to have children then:

1. Use contraceptions.
2. Don't have sex
3. Get a vasectomy

Your choice. I know which one I'd go for.


Yukito-kun wrote...

Spoiler:

I know that if I start her on birth control, postpone her quitting of smoking and gave her a few drinks that it would prevent the little Yukito from growing and the zygote would die. Is if justified to do this to ensure that when I do have a kid with her that I know I can afford to give it a good life as well as ensure that both of us can get a degree and a stable job? Remember that life may be a right, but So is maintaining a standard of life. Being born into a hopelessly poor family that started at a young age won't provide the opportunity to enjoy a semi-normal life. I grew up with no Father and a poor standing in life, things were hard and I don't want my kid to to through that too...



Well there is no guarantee that doing any of that will prevent apregnancy from progressing. In fact all you are doing is increasing the chance of giving rise to intra-uterine growth restriction and Foetal Alcohol Syndrome. If you haven't got the resources to bring up a healthy child I doubt you can raise a sick one.


Damn straight.
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HappyDia01 wrote...
You're a fucking moron.
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Yukito-kun wrote...
It's very, very likely that after 5 days of having sex without a rain slicker twice a day with me shooting DNA directly into her (she likes it although it makes me nervous as fuck)


Don't pretend you weren't being serious, simply because your stupidity got called out.

Be a man. Live up to your actions, because chances are, in 9 months you'll find yourself in an 18 year long contract. Sorry, kid.
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