So You Wanna Pick Up Babes?

Well children I am gonna teach you the secret to women.

Step One-(Appearance) Girls like a guy who is well kept doesn't have a wrinkly shirt or baggy pants. They want someone that they would be willing to show their parents (because a lot of them will think that you'll meet them). The next thing is hair, girls are all different on style but one thing is for certain greasy hair is a deal breaker and you can tell a person with greasy hair.

Step Two-(How To Act) Women love confidence and manners (so be a god damn gentleman), along with a man with strong family values. So if you are out and you see a mom and her child or a pregnant woman make sure if she isn't sitting and you are that she gets the seat. Also acknowledge the child as well, but don't ask if they lady is pregnant even if it's obvious. Also when you are out somewhere make sure not to order the most expensive or the cheapest item on the menu (don't wanna seem snobby, or cheap). Always pay for the meal even she picks up the bill and says "I got it" kindly ask to see it then take it upon yourself to pay.

Step 3-(Closing) If she says I just wanna be friends don't get a sad look on your face, and don't go silent simply acknowledge her wish and say "I would love to be friends"(cause someday she'll want you at least for revenge sex). If you do happen to actually get her to be with you (I mean gf not just sex) then make sure you don't smother her and also don't call her at work either talk to her after work. If she wonders why you never call simply say "I felt that be it our relationship personal I didn't want you to get in any sort of trouble." But also make sure you always ask how her day was and make sure you agree with her about everything unless it could jeopardize the relationship.

I would say those are pretty true words..

there is more to it, but those are some basics..
however, since i live in a state full of bogans, you can wear baggy trousers and wrinkly tshirts and the bitches will swarm.. cause bogans are fucking crazy (bogan, read: Chav, redneck, asshole)

I was more talking about a wholesome proper girl (one you're not ashamed of).

Solid advice. It's what I do, and it works.

Well, that is true.. but like i said, bogans down here.. they run the streets... i mean, i'd be ashamed.. not sure about the rest of the guys here :|

Don't act like this once you find out a girl has a boyfriend.




also don't mention your bunker or hatchet until the second date.

Driving a shitbox Falcodore with a fulleh sik subwoofer is also a plus.

The ladies love a bit of doof. haha

lol that list makes sense and is a good way to model yourself, but it doesnt explain how most of the smart articulate, wholesome girls you will ever meet are paired up with the greasy illmannared biggest douchebags 95% of the time.
and then they meet you, a clean shaven, nicely dressed, funny, smart well together guy and hit you with the freind card lol.

That's because you are going for a girl, when you should be going for a grown ass women.

Guys get stuck in the friend zone because they don't get it and they can't trigger attraction. Just like any other strong feeling, it's not a choice.

A girl doesn't look at a guy, pull out her list of traits and think "Wow, this guys fulfills all of my criteria. I'm going to feel attracted to him now."

Attraction is not a choice, it's either there or it's not. Guys that 'get it' can interact with girls in a way that normal guys can't. It's like another language, except it's not different in the way English is to another language. The difference is like English to math. We all know guys that can get girls to light up, giggle and hit them on the arm playfully and then hugs them. The guys that brings out more femininity, playfulness and attraction.

Whether it's girls or women, they're female and share the same genetic wiring. They're genetically wired to feel and respond to certain behaviours and indicators; just like how we all feel hunger when we haven't eaten in a while. As someone matures, they gain more control of their actions...but that doesn't change how they feel.

It's about sparking attraction and cranking that simple attraction into sexual tension while building trust and comfort. Starting off platonic and trying to put her into more comfort will lead to a platonic relationship...more often than not.

Do you mean we should go for a woman or multiple women at once, or did you mean that we should go for women with grown asses or ones who really have a thing for men with grown asses?

All the above.

While acting a certain way to win women over is all fine and good, just remember: you're setting the bar for the rest of your relationship.

If you have to put on an act or put on airs to be worthy to someone, you won't be able to easily be yourself around them (or if you are, they might not like the "real you" you kept hidden!).

Congruence is key. If you go on a diet and lose weight, going back to your old ways will cause you to gain all the weight back. Same with working out and building muscle. If you get lazy, you will start losing your results. It's about making a lifestyle change that's sustainable for the rest of your life.

The same applies for behaviours and relationships. People change and grow, great long term relationships can end because they can grow to become people that are no longer compatible with the other. Other times, people just get lazy and they are no longer on their best behaviour for each other...letting the attraction die.

Your self concept is always growing and changing anyways, it's about taking control of that and directing it to achieve your goals. It's not about doing what comes easiest and living in that comfort...you will slip and be in a state of reaction, out of control. Which is alright in itself, it's what most people do.

In answer to the OP title, no, not particularly.

but to be a grown ass woman means you have had to go through that girl phase meaning she has been dicked down by loser after loser until she wised up,shit she might have 2 or 3 kids by then, by then she is all used up i wanna know how to pull those who skipped that shit all together.

Lol you da man.

That's all good, I'm all for gay rights.