Is it okay for a girl to be perverted?

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Women can have more orgasms in a shorter amount of time while guys have to take (usually) longer breaks to get another load out.

I don't see how women being perverted is "not-normal".

You gotta take life in long strides of just being yourself.
If you worry too much about society's labels then you're never gonna be happy.

There's a reality out there beyond society's initial "rules" and "labels".

If you're sexy and you fucking know it and someone calls you a slut (whether male or female) then stick their idea's in the fucking dirt and tell them to fuck off.
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Yeah that's kind of how society sees women who are more open with their sexuality. There are a lot of layers to the topic but yeah, it's fine for a woman to be open with her sexuality.

I wish more people would get a grip and stop labeling women as "sluts" and "whores" at the drop of a hat. It's just odd.
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There's nothing wrong with being perverted. The negative label is a leftover from an extremely sexist age, which is now dying off very slowly.
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If I take account how women dress and acted in the 1800 to the present...I could see at how it is seen as "a perverted woman is wrong". But I still believe that it is the same as a perverted male. The only thing that is keeping this though in our minds is the stereotype that society has feed us for so many years.
It's not just women though, the way society at perverse men is also kinda messed up. Because a woman can walk into a sex store and buy a 12" vibrator and walk out of there and she is though of as a bit kinky and like to have fun; but if a man goes into a sex store and buys an onahole/fleshlight he walks out with a lot of prejudice and people looking at him as a weird guy.
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I don't know about everyone else, but having someone that can match my perverted-ness is awesome. I have a couple of friends who pretty much always start out talking about perverted matters.
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It is definitely ok. Women are allowed to have a sexual drive as well as men and they can have a Unique approach if they so desire. It reminds me of the calling a woman a whore if she carries a condom. She just wants to have the protection ready should the time arrive. I don't think that she should be looked down on for it. Men are not.
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I don't see the reason as to why being a perverted girl is bad. In my definition, "perverted" means thinking about sex a lot while "slutty" is doing sex a lot with a lot of people. Though biologically, men are more inclined to be perverted this does not mean being a perverted girl is a disease.

However being openly pervert is a whole different thing. A an openly perverted male will receive negative remarks but an openly perverted female will receive more. People will naturally assume she has sex a lot. Since why would a predator reject a prey who asks for it?

That said, being openly perverted is bad in both genders. I've already said why females receive more hates. If you could just keep your pervertedness to yourself and few trusted friends. that would be great (a lover if you have one), that would be great.
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I like to think how people think or label a girl as slut is because of porn that we see, how they act in porn is just acting.. and people are quite to assume that how it suppose to be.. just like how guys in porn having 9 inch dick, a average guy is not suppose to have that kind of size.. well.. that is just my opinion anyway
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Hiveminers wrote...
I don't see the reason as to why being a perverted girl is bad. In my definition, "perverted" means thinking about sex a lot while "slutty" is doing sex a lot with a lot of people. Though biologically, men are more inclined to be perverted this does not mean being a perverted girl is a disease.

However being openly pervert is a whole different thing. A an openly perverted male will receive negative remarks but an openly perverted female will receive more. People will naturally assume she has sex a lot. Since why would a predator reject a prey who asks for it?

That said, being openly perverted is bad in both genders. I've already said why females receive more hates. If you could just keep your pervertedness to yourself and few trusted friends. that would be great (a lover if you have one), that would be great.


I don't think men are more inclined to be perverted, not evidently at any rate. I think we perceive it as such for two reasons. One physiological and the other sociological.

The physiological one I think is quite simple although I could be painfully mistaken and that is that, while both genders can and do enjoy sex and masturbation, males have a much harder time going without it. I obviously have no first hand experience in being a female but the impression I always had, even with girls I've talked to, is that is it much easier for a woman to go without sex than it is for men. If I'm right, this naturally means men will masturbate more often and soonr rather than later, they will be open about it.

The sociological is something I've seen someone point out here although I can't remember who or in what topic (it might even be this one, I don't remember). And that point was that in most social interactions between two single people, the males are often expected to make the first move. That gives them the white chess pieces and, like before, sooner or later they will be more open about their sexuality. Whether they are shot down or not, it matters not, at least not at this point. On the flip side, females don't often feel the need to be that open so even though they surely have their kinks, they don't just talk about them.

Part of the sociological issue is that, for some reason I can't quite make out, a man who has sex with multiple women is a hero and a woman who has sex with multiple partners is a slut. I don't understand the logic behind this. Kind of reminds me of Christian Purity pledges where church girls promise their fathers they will remain virgins although the parents don't want that for their sons. The math just ain't right...
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If it's normal for a guy to be perverted, why not a girl too? And who's to say not all girls are also perverted? They just hide it better.
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I think that is because human society yet see everything with some old standards... However, in some close future this will change, I am sure of that.
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Well, i think it's like this: when women where thought of as inferior. (NO, i am not one of those if anyone would misunderstand) men who were "deceived" or seduced by a women with an ulterior goal would probably be hurt and thus, they disliked Perverted/lewd women
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Society is difficult like that. Different times mean different things. Things change, whether for good or for worse. I think that whether or not it is okay for a girl to be perverted really depends on the era and place. And situations vary as well. I don't think there should be a standard as to say "Girls should not do this and that", or whatever. There will always be a limit to what is appropriate or not, and it is up to that individual to decide how far she or he wants to go. Whether or not you are comfortable with being judged by society, or how far you want to take your 'freedom'. Sure, we do have to stick to society's rules, but if society didn't exist, it would be pretty lonely.
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I personally like girls who are a bit more perverted. >.>
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Yeah! I also like that they are a bit more perverted... My - little - friends are so.
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jmason Curious and Wondering
I think the issue is more like how today's society views perversion differently by gender. More or less due to stereotypes, expectations, and appearances.

But the bigger lot is more on appearance. If one can keep him/herself in check, then there should be no problem no matter the degree of perversion.
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This is actually my first forum post; from what I can tell all the threads are several years old and people just kind of keep replying anyway?

I'm a self-identified perverted girl. I don't go two days without thinking about sex, I enjoy sex and masturbation, and I finally bothered making a Fakku account because I come back more than monthly.

Like the unanimous opinion, I think it's fine if a girl is perverted. Not everyone has to be perverted, to each their own taste. As long as nobody shames anyone over their tendency towards lewdness it's all good.

That being said, I think there are limits. Girls can still be the sexual harassers, taking it too far with other uninterested parties. But if they aren't hurting anyone, no need for this to really be an issue.
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Hey I'd love to meet a girl as weird and perverted as me
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Fun fact: Even though men produce more testosterone than women, women are quite a bit more sensitive to the hormone than men are. So really, a "perverted" girl doesn't surprise, nor bother me that much. Both genders are perfectly capable of becoming horny for similar reasons. And both genders are capable of degrading themselves through sex. We are very much alike besides our reproductive organs and our breasts, really.
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I feel like the words "perverted" and "lusty" and whatnot are all treated as synonyms when they're not.

For me at least, a pervert is just someone who into weird stuff. Maybe they only do it once a year, but they're still a pervert.

Someone who has a buttload of normal sex on the other hand, is just really horny.

The type of sex you like and the amount of sex you want are two totally different things.

Now, to answer the topic title question? Yeah, of course it is. It's OK to be into anything. You like murder? That's cool. That doesn't mean you can kill people, but thinking about it doesn't make you bad if it's what you're into.

Of course, you also used words like libido, that pertain to the magnitude of desire, lust, and not what you actually want, perversion. So I guess your question could also mean "is it okay for a girl (or anyone, for that matter) to do it allot?"

Once again, yes. All depends on what you're doing. I don't mean to imply that you need to be having vanilla if you're banging people 24-7, but at the same time I'd be less inclined to speak with someone who sleeps with a pimp everyday. Is that because it's wrong? No, it's because I'm just not into that. They're a different sort of pervert.