Is it okay for a girl to be perverted?

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brok3n butterfly wrote...
This is identical to asking "is it okay for a guy not to be perverted". Answer to both is yes.

Is it okay for a girl...
Spoiler:

...To like porn
...To like video games
...To like hentai
...To like anime and manga
...To be a pervert
...To ask him on a date
...To be dominant
...To swear
...To be muscular
...To like sex
...To have friends of the opposite gender
...To (anything I havent mentioned)


Is it okay for a guy...
Spoiler:

...To like romantic things
...To not play sports
...To not eat a lot
...To be submissive
...To feel anything
...To not think about sex every 7 seconds
...To not weight lift
...To have friends of the opposite gender
...To (anything I havent mentioned)


Answer:

Spoiler:
If it makes you happy then do it


Of course you know society/media (if it had mouth) would say otherwise. So give them a figurative (or literal if you want) middle finger and be yourself.

That sounded preachy.

A more serious answer. Yeah its okay just expect at least one person you come across to think negatively of you doing so.


So true and wonderfully said. +repped (in a couple of hours, apparently)
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We are all perverts in our own freaky way. some people dig feet. i don't see it. feet is feet. so to me, that is pervy. to super square religious types, my intrest in japanese porn comics makes me the perv. said squares are in reality probably the biggest pervs of all when the curtains are closed.
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There is nothing wrong with being perverted, even for a girl, as long you are not hurting other people.
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chibi2katana2 wrote...
It seems to me like a girl who has even by a bit of a perverted mind is labeled as a slut or as easy, but if we really think about it, aren't both men and women human? we both have libido (even though i am aware that a man's is supposed to be greater) so why is it more easily accepted for a man to be more in touch with his sexuality than a woman?


Its not that the mans libido is greater, but that the average mans libido is more active and stronger than the average womans... so it goes without saying that some women will still have libidos varying from the norm, even occasionally so much as surpassing some or most men, some men will have weak libidos, but no matter the libido, as a healthy human being you should have a sex drive, we've all just been trained since childhood to view girls as something that should be kept pristine and unobtainable, whereas men have always been viewed as animals.

fact is, we're all animals. we all poop and pee and get hungry and sleep, and yes, even get juicy for naughty bits
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@gizgal's avatar says it all, I think. Society is such a feeble thing, constantly changing...but it seems that the one thing that has remained constant is the "traditional" view of a the female human being. In Japanese folktales, the woman who lingers too long in one place is seen as strange, and therefore must be avoided. I've come across many old stories that connect sexual women with demonic tendencies or dead men. Today, like many others have pointed out, a perverted woman is still seen as a negative aspect. Some people will avoid her; other girls will talk behind her back; some will take that message the wrong way and attempt to take advantage of her.

However, like everyone has said...this "perversion" is normal and is in no way perverted. It's entwined into our biology and we're taught to express it at our own risk, which I think is ridiculous. I'm sure in other countries there are different views on this. I mean, even Futurama had a little spiel on women's sexuality...what if sex to us was just snoo snoo? (And so what if it is!) In any case, I think it's normal, and I think society sucks for thinking that women who enjoy sex are automatically labelled as sluts when men who enjoy sex are just seen as "typical". As for me, as long as you're not hurting anyone, I think it's perfectly fine.
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People think I'm a weird Cloud Cuckoolander but in reality, I'm probably more focused and observative than those people.
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What is right and what is wrong its dictated by society and the morals and culture of that society,the right or wrong will depend on what type of culture you were raise . But in my opinion its ok, we all men and women have sexual desire the thing is always control that emotion , do not let that emotion control you , at least this is my opinion
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I feel like this subject has been brought up a couple times before in SD, just with slightly different wording. Anyways, i think people should stop trying to control what other people do in the bedroom.

I don't think being a guy means you have to be a horndog, and being a girl doesn't mean you have to be sexually reserved. Sexuality imo is a individual thing, and shouldn't be classified based on gender. The idea of making what is "acceptable" sexuality so tied to gender hurts both. Men are expected to be highly sexual when not every guy is like that, and if they like to be more submissive in bed they tend to get seen as not manly. Of course with girls anytime they are the slightest bit sexual they are at risk of being insulted & demonized over it.

Live and let live is what i always say
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I just accept people as who they are. If they're perverted, cheers to them. If a particular perversion conflicts with mine, then I make informed and well thought decisions on the matter.
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DonkeyFace wrote...
Of course its ok.

To be perverted is to be human.


I agree with this, but would like to add on a bit. I think it's okay to a limit. That goes for both males and females. When it gets to where every other word out of an individuals mouth is about sex in some fashion, then it's gone too far. That's when I label you as "easy" no matter what your gender is.

[size=10]This is why I'd make a terribad bro.[/h]

But that's just my opinion.
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I met a lot of perverted chicks in my life and they sure are lively and open once you crack that nut open.

Anyone to have a strong sexual desire or have a sexual fantasy or EVEN being perverted is normal to me. It's just how the society sees it, but then again who gave the rights to decide what is normal and what is not?

The case here is judgement, which a lot of people don't know how to use it and are often mislead by the idea of how perverted people are.

A girl being perverted is normal and for my case, I love girls who are perverted because they are so easy to compare with and are very easy to communicate once given the chance.
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[color=#9D0A0A]missy says: I think that it is fine for girls to perverted. It's biology! It's gotta happen somehow [this is coming from a girl of course]![/color]
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Yeah if that's want they want to do in life and they're not hurting anyone, let them live their life.

Ladies, if you get called a 'ho','skank', etc. SCREW THAT. Whoever is calling you out has to apply those standards to themselves and if you were a sex lover, what the hell does it matter? It's human nature to enjoy sex just like us guys do.

Something that happened with my coworkers that pissed me off was that the males said it increased a man's credibility when they sleeped around, but it decreases for a woman when she does the same thing.
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This question requires a wider perspective.

The implied cultural assumption made by OP is that boys are perverted innately. I believe girls, too, have some level of innate sexual perversion. If one is to accept both of these generalizations as truth, then the only logical conclusion is that it is either acceptable or unacceptable for all sexes to be perverted. From that point, the decision comes merely from personal beliefs, i.e. upbringing.

My claim: sexuality is a mental construct, alongside "right and wrong," emotions, the senses as we, the humans, perceive them, and life as a whole. Because of that, it runs parallel to those constructs, thereby invalidating any definite "yes or no answer" because all people are unique in their mental construction.
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Legendary_Dollci wrote...
I met a lot of perverted chicks in my life and they sure are lively and open once you crack that nut open.

Anyone to have a strong sexual desire or have a sexual fantasy or EVEN being perverted is normal to me. It's just how the society sees it, but then again who gave the rights to decide what is normal and what is not?

The case here is judgement, which a lot of people don't know how to use it and are often mislead by the idea of how perverted people are.

A girl being perverted is normal and for my case, I love girls who are perverted because they are so easy to compare with and are very easy to communicate once given the chance.


^Sums up what I wanted to say.

When a guy wants to get laid, society sees that as normal. When a girl wants to get laid, she's a whore. In my opinion, when a girl wants to get laid, she's just got to get her desire filled. Simple as that.

When it comes down to being a whore though, everyone has their own standards. For me, if you don't take the time to know the person before you sleep with the guy/girl, you might end up with something you really don't want (either kids or STD's). Wrap it up, and use birth control. Best things I can recommend.
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Fadetoblack wrote...
Legendary_Dollci wrote...
I met a lot of perverted chicks in my life and they sure are lively and open once you crack that nut open.

Anyone to have a strong sexual desire or have a sexual fantasy or EVEN being perverted is normal to me. It's just how the society sees it, but then again who gave the rights to decide what is normal and what is not?

The case here is judgement, which a lot of people don't know how to use it and are often mislead by the idea of how perverted people are.

A girl being perverted is normal and for my case, I love girls who are perverted because they are so easy to compare with and are very easy to communicate once given the chance.


^Sums up what I wanted to say.

When a guy wants to get laid, society sees that as normal. When a girl wants to get laid, she's a whore. In my opinion, when a girl wants to get laid, she's just got to get her desire filled. Simple as that.

When it comes down to being a whore though, everyone has their own standards. For me, if you don't take the time to know the person before you sleep with the guy/girl, you might end up with something you really don't want (either kids or STD's). Wrap it up, and use birth control. Best things I can recommend.


Exactly.
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It is alright for anyone to be perverted. Just don't go overboard.
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Data Zero Valkyrie Forces CO
For me it is. MY 100% honest answer would be HELL YEA! More fun in this world.

Be what you want and be proud of it.
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Generally, yes it's alright for a girl to be perverted. Just as it's alright for a guy. I wouldn't even be here if I'd think of perversion as something unanimously negative.

It depends on how this perversion is expressed and to what amount, though. Of course, that goes for guys and girls to the same extent.
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girls can be sick too.
Most women learn to act in this way in silence with no-one else knowing which ruins the fun.