Large Breasts, a blessing or a burden?

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lordisgaea4 wrote...
Casanova no1 wrote...



I'm sorry but this is seriously the worst conter-arguement i have ever seen on SD since i'm here so i'm not gonna continue this discussion with you ...



why ??
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I imagine it all depends on the individual. Although, back pain seems a valid concern.
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I see them both ways, I think it's a blessing in the way that I feel more proportioned, more attractive, and more feminine. However I only feel that way on certain days.

Other then those few times where I feel confident I sense them as a burden. I have just hit DD and my mother is an F. We both have back problems and a mild form of scoliosis where we have to spend 30 minuets of our day working out our upper back. Not only that but finding bigger shirts, dresses or any other tops are a pain. Larger sizes usually mean more money, and if you aren't all curve like I am and more on the smaller side with a bigger chest you have to deal with the fact that it may fit in the chest but not the arms or stomach area.

It's a pain, but I just have to learn to make jokes of it. People stare at them? I get whistled at? Even get judged at wearing bigger sizes? I just make a halfassed joke and cover myself up.
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Legendary_Dollci wrote...
zman361 wrote...
Legendary_Dollci wrote...


I would like to say that LARGE penises are also undesirable, you can't fit inside that little hole now can't you?


If I can't fit in that little hole... I'll make it fit in that little hole! lol


If she can take it then please proceed sir.


lmfao you know something legendary dollci your all right man.
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We men don't reserve the right to speak about whether it's a blessing or a curse, simply because we don't have them. But I can put my personal two opinions on why men(and by men, I mean me of course :D) are attracted to big boobies. To me, it's just as Fro said. The human body is one whole huge complexion, and frankly big(not overly big, but rather 'medium') sized boobs rounds out the complexion of the feminine body.

As an example, here:
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Actually, this chick's boobs are big enough that I wouldn't completely outrule her/I can see the feminism in her body but still...

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Give me someone with a legit C-size cup, a slim, healthy stomach(not that someone who barely weighs 100) and long legs. Perfect, absolutely stunning to me.
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Haha DD is big. When I was in highschool I had a fujoshi classmate that had HH tits and complained about it being hard to crossdress cosplay or wear women's clothing.
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artcellrox The Grey Knight :y
Sprite wrote...
Haha DD is big.


OK, gotta ask. When you're saying DD, do you mean American DD, or Asian/European?
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Ever herd the saying "Too much of something is bad for you". Well this is basically the same concept.To me, burden all the way. Physical strain (ex.Back problems) can be painful, and I won't wish that on any girl to be the matter a fact. Emotional strain (ex. Stares and how the world views them) also can be harsh and can mess with everyday life. I for one loves big breast(I'll even admit to being a zombie to them at one point). But (and am not bashing) I tend to like a decent size, like a C-cup and even though guys think, bigger is better, where am from, I rather a girl with a big heart than a big chest. Either way, if your just not comfortable with them, and you have the resources, just make the change. Sure, men my not bend to you as much as before, but it makes you comfortable and it for your benefit in the years to come.

Daggerrise wrote...
Nobody really seems to care if a woman has a small chest outside of jackasses who mock others for it


I for one to beg to differ on that. I sill think their some guys out there that prefer whats on the inside than the outside. Look at me for example. Me and my current gf were friends, until after a year and i reflected one day, that when I line up the points in what I wanted in my girl and her, they fit perfectly and even though I want a girl with a bigger size, she's a B(and very sensitive about it). All and all, looked passed that and I found a girl I can truly love. It's been 4 years and I have never looked back, even through the good and bad. As far as I see it, it just depends on the guy and how he views the world. So yes, even some men do care about the small chested.
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artcellrox wrote...
Sprite wrote...
Haha DD is big.


OK, gotta ask. When you're saying DD, do you mean American DD, or Asian/European?


American

Also note the sarcasm as I proceed to mention HH
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What's on the inside counts 15% more than whats on the outside. But remember can be molded and guided to become better… depending on how far they are developed. You just need to find the crack in the proverbial armor and you can change any person… hopefully. Maybe I'm a bit too much of an optimist. There are exceptions. I'm several exceptions and contradictions.

B-Cup to C-Cup for me as well. I like paizuri and all, but I'd rather not be asphyxiated. And big breasts can be a burden depending on how big they are. If a girl like Rangiku Matsumoto exists, not that I'm saying she doesn't, I'd pity her because of how many stupid testosterone driven idiots are leering at her. And of course my chivalry will kick in if I see that she has to beat the morons off because she hates the attention. Damn the chivalry my Old Man installed in me. It's a curse.
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Definitely don’t agree with some of the ideas posted previously about big breaths meaning women have control over men.
Used to date. Big breasted girl with E’s. She kind of hated then. Yeah, they were fun to play with, sometimes she liked playing the porn script and enjoying that aspect of having big tits, but that’s such a small part of her life.
I’m pretty sure no woman has ever felt they had control over men when they are objectified.
One time we were at a concept together, jumping around, having a good time, and she spotted this one security guard just leering down at her chest as she jumped around. She tried to ignore it, but we both saw him bring over another guy and point to her chest, like he was getting a colleague, and telling him to also look at her breast . She felt humiliated and upset and it ruined our night.
This is aside from the pain and comfort issues (back pain, not being able to sleep on your front, never being able to run without pain without a bra, never having clothes fit,).

No one likes having strangers point and laugh at you, that’s what it’s actually like, having teenage boys and group of drunk men yell at you about your tits, your not in control of those people, you can’t make them stop.
Having someone wanting to fuck you is just different for men and women, so many factors go into it, but it’s nearly always a good thing for men. Definitely not so much for women. For women, they know having someone want to fuck you does not mean they respect you, they care about you, or that they even like you. You can fuck a woman the same way you fuck a blow up doll, women know that, it’s not a compliment.
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I see pluses and minuses. Really comes down to the individual.
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they are both at the same time
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I think it depends if the person likes it or not, some like the attraction it gives them while some on the contrary don't like being looked at
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