Losing interest in giving blowjobs?

hah ace

20 years to get used to it. Hurts like fuck, but hey, legit reason to get stoned. -shrug-



You should've just gone with it.

[9 months and engaged? Take it slow, sister... usually you want to wait at least a year before asking that question..]

Oh yeah; sorry bout that

My semen is aphrosidiac for girls.

Do those 3 months really make a difference?

Personally I believe it should be longer.

3 Months makes a lot of a difference when it comes to love. A lot can happen in 3 months to two people; unexpected financial crises, family drama, unemployment, misunderstandings, fights, etc. The longer you spend in a committed-but-not-engaged-or-married-relationship-while-living-together, the more you know about what life would look like, if you were. The more you know about how to coexist happily, and the more you know about who the person you're with is on their deepest levels, the better of an idea you have about whether or not you're truly compatible as life mates.

Besides, no one in this age group should be trying to commit. Most, if not all, of us haven't truly found ourselves as people, or really laid out life plans. Marriage is one giant, solid, infinite plan that plays a huge role on your life. Taxes, property arrangements, responsibilities. It's not just about finding 'the one', it's about being responsible and secure and emotionally mature enough to be able to meld your very livelihood with someone else. It's so easy to feel so in love, and believe wholeheartedly that someone is your soulmate, but marriage is leagues more than that feeling alone.

You believe what should be longer?

True. Never thought I'd have polygamy in just three months.

Of course a lot can happen in 3 months, but comparing a 9month time frame to 1 year time frame is a bit ridiculous in my mind. All those things you listed can happen in a single week, or for some unlucky blokes, in a single day. Some might never happen to a couple.

I don't know how long is "enough", but I'd say more than a couple years.(4 or 5?)
If you can make it last 4 or so years without getting sick of each other, why not? Definitely not 1 year though.

Oh, I see what you mean now.

I completely agree with you to be honest, I've just noticed that 1-3 years seems to be the average for when people pop the question. Of course just because it's the 'norm' doesn't make it a good idea, but 9 months is way too quick - that's what I was trying to say, here. >_

I remember reading an article quite a while ago that stated the smoke you inhale from marijuana isn't dense enough to stay trapped in your bronchioles (small lung tubes) unlike the smoke you inhale from tobacco, which is what causes tar build-up apparently. Though, getting a vaporizer is still a great idea, makes it much less harsher and it's so much more efficient than using a pipe or smoking a joint.

It still causes tar buildup. It produces noticeable effects. I would like to read this article though, if you remember the link or can find it.

Problem is I read it quite a few years ago, back when I was still in high-school. If I'm correct it was on a website that does support the use of cannabis however, so the article may very well have been biased.

Although I did find some other interesting articles laying around, supposedly a joint or few pipe bowls every day will increase your lung capacity because it helps you practice deep breathing.

Source

I thought it was pretty funny the author doesn't think pot smoking is endemic in some areas of NA. Most smokers I know go through at least a gram every day.

Endemic is not a word that applies to voluntary recreational substance habits. They have to do with diseases, sir. O_o And it probably has nothing to do with region, more along the lines of regional behavioral patterns - common ideals, the amount of exciting things to do, etc.

this.

I know more than a few people [regrettably] who jump the gun and marry way too early.

Like my uber smart friend who thought it was a awesome and very intelligent idea to marry straight out of high school.

I'd say 3 years minimum before even joking at marriage.

While the use of the word endemic is often paired with diseases, it's does not have to apply specifically to them. It's literal meaning is:

"Prevalent in or peculiar to a particular locality, region, or people."

Merriam-webster Definition

Oxford ALD Defintion

Lol, lucky you. I have a basic job so they never run tests, yay! But my guy's an electrician, so we have to be careful with him since they give randoms at his work. It seems like the more time we spend sober, the more we want to keep it that way. Which is totally nice c:
Edit: We use a bubbler, I'm guessing that helps cut back on the tar buildup?
Not that it really matters, he smokes cigs :v although he's going to quit soon, since he's sick of smelling like it and avoiding my kisses because of that. Drives him up the wall. lol



I'm too honest for my own good, I had to make the correction ;3;
And I know it's early...we don't have a date set anymore, and we're definitely trying to avoid pregnancy, even though we both really want it. We chose to spend more time together, and the wedding will happen whenever we happen to save up enough money. We're dreadful at that though, so it'll be a while XD

I guess time will only tell what will actually happen between us, but as far as I'm aware, we're both in it for the long run.

That is an extremely sensible way to go about it. Really. I by no means feel your feelings are 'inaccurate' -- he clearly makes you happy and vice versa. It's just this age group is so weird and tumultuous and uncertain, you know? We need to be young and stupid and fluid. Commitments now shape our futures. It's perfectly valid to be stupidly, happily, amazingly in love. I'm really happy for you. Just keep it smooth and easy, and I have no doubt you'll live a life free of regrets.

Im literally the only manish person who don't like mouth to oenis pleasure... excluding the meth mouth or braces option.

Lol. That was good.