Problems.

I just want to ask my fellow fappers about any of your problems.My problem is myself. i hate myself.I don't want to get fat but i still eat a lot.I have a sickness so i feel like i'm just a burden to my family.My mom also got sick and i think it's because of me.I'm causing everyone problems and i just hate the fact that i can't do anything cause i'm just a brat

I sleep late and wake up late. It's pretty bad for me especially on Saturdays when I volunteer at my local charity shop. Only time of the week I get to see my friend's sister. She's fun to talk to.

I should stop procrastinating and get dressed.

Exercise and eat less just have the will for it. If you're bored walk if gangsters come run.

I'm a lazy, sociopathic asshole whose only real motivator worth mentioning is selfishness. I am perfectly content with that... though that may be because changing would require effort and be mostly to the benefit of others.

It does balance out though as my laziness keeps me from becoming a serial killer. So my coworkers should in fact be glad I am a lazy jerk seeing as the other option is I find the motivation to hunt them down in retaliation for slights both real and imagined.

what about her?

She's so busy getting money for my medicine and she overworked herself

I need gangsters here in my town so i will run all day

Procrastinating is one of the skills that i mastered

wellshit that's not that bad as it sounded.

Basically if you want to change stop complaining and stop the self pity party and actually do something to change. It's hard and you'll fail a lot of times, but it's better then bitching about your issues and life is work. If you are sick then work on getting better/try to do your best with what you have. You're sick and if this can't be cured then live with it and be the best you can be. Your family will decide how they wish to treat you so if they don't say you're a burden then stop thinking you're one, they they think you're one and have said it then learn to toughen up and be self sufficient and find people that can be there for you. If you're unhealthy and done like it try to fix it, again diet and exercise is hard but no use bitching over it if you don't do anything to change it.

tl;dr no point to complain about yourself if you don't try to change yourself in the process, it's wasted energy. Either you try and change or you deal with how your life is. Self pity is just wasted energy, these problems you have can be fixed or worked on so decide what you want to do and enough with the pity party. If you fail or hit low points then talk to people who can encourage you; gotta work hard and believe in yourself that you can do it, this attitude won't get you anywhere.

yeah,

Thanks for this. I'll try my best to change myself and i will study hard so that i can repay all the things they have done to me. Thanks bro. THANK YOU!!

yeah. and don't listen to that baba above. just get a job. the sooner you're able to pay your part of the bills the better everyone will feel

i was my parent's bitch for more than half of my life, so many frustrations were had. and they all went poof the moment i started paying bills. your fat ass will loose its meaning, the world will become crystal clear, just the bills and you

I'm still a bit on the lazy side but I figured out how to fix the issue of me sleeping late all the time and screwing up my sleep schedule. And it has all to so with eating.

Your body works on cycles. So it plans itself that way in how it uses its energy.

The way to fix it. When you plan to get up, don't eat for 10-12 hours before that. I get up at 7am usually now so I stop eating at 8pm. When you get up, you'll be hungry so eat. Your body will instantly reset that body clock. And if you do this for a few day (3 or 4) you'll find that even if you go to bed at midnight and were snacking up until then, you still wake up early and be hungry.

Advice from a man who never bothers with an alarm clock.

I date the wrong guys, and sleep too little

Im dying. That is all.

It certainly would be a lot better if you get someone to talk to personally rather than random people on the internet. Trust me, having a close friend got me through a lot of really tough times.

As for health well just exercise more. You could get a gym membership and try to make a schedule though it is possible to exercise at home if you take the time to do it. Self-pitying never helps.

Having absolutely no sense of self-worth, all it does is motivate me to do good deeds in a desperate attempt to find validation.

Who knows how I may change if I ever finally think of myself as a decent person.

I've been getting emotionally unstable, I can't decide as to what I want to do and I'm too gullible.

someone's on your ass. i keep fixing em but they're persistent