why cant some people just ignore
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as it says, why cant some people just ignore things that are not upto 'their standards'
I mean like if i didnt capitalize that first line, why do you have to bithc or i mixed up those two letters
does it make you feel better coz you think you can type better? I mean do you have problems and thats why youre compelled to react? I mean why even waste time pointing it out? hahaha
as I told someone, the brain doesnt need that much effort if at all to make sense of them, for an average person that is.
PS, of course to those with disabilities/disorders, this does not apply alright, since they have a legitimate reason. so if you are one and you read this, I apologize but I'd say Im talking about others?
I mean like if i didnt capitalize that first line, why do you have to bithc or i mixed up those two letters
does it make you feel better coz you think you can type better? I mean do you have problems and thats why youre compelled to react? I mean why even waste time pointing it out? hahaha
as I told someone, the brain doesnt need that much effort if at all to make sense of them, for an average person that is.
PS, of course to those with disabilities/disorders, this does not apply alright, since they have a legitimate reason. so if you are one and you read this, I apologize but I'd say Im talking about others?
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Cruz
Dope Stone Lion
“If the book be false in its facts, disprove them; if false in its reasoning, refute it. But, for God's sake, let us freely hear both sides, if we choose.”
†• Thomas Jefferson
Although I do think IB would be a better place if some users would simply just ignore things.
†• Thomas Jefferson
Although I do think IB would be a better place if some users would simply just ignore things.
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it's not too hard to ignore things, but when something stands out too much you'd have to do something...
in case of the forums, you bash someone being a total idiot...
in case of the forums, you bash someone being a total idiot...
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well just to add, the point on this is not to pass judgement but to understand the 'why' part.
On standing out too much as said by konata.
I experienced this all too often, there's a club that I go to that has a very specific theme, its not mandatory of course. but every now and then, a tourist would come. they call them 'normie', coz they dress like normal - jeans, buttoned shirt etc. and make fun of them.
I always felt a bit uncomfortable about that because wasnt the idea of that place was to be "oh we're all open minded here and understanding and just be you", but its not the case then? coz why arent you being open minded with this person who isnt really doing anything, he just dressed differently from the rest of us
and its the same when you see how people react when they see a person in cosplay. I hear them, they talk smack just coz that person was really standing out?
On standing out too much as said by konata.
I experienced this all too often, there's a club that I go to that has a very specific theme, its not mandatory of course. but every now and then, a tourist would come. they call them 'normie', coz they dress like normal - jeans, buttoned shirt etc. and make fun of them.
I always felt a bit uncomfortable about that because wasnt the idea of that place was to be "oh we're all open minded here and understanding and just be you", but its not the case then? coz why arent you being open minded with this person who isnt really doing anything, he just dressed differently from the rest of us
and its the same when you see how people react when they see a person in cosplay. I hear them, they talk smack just coz that person was really standing out?
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Cruz
Dope Stone Lion
ashcrimson wrote...
well just to add, the point on this is not to pass judgement but to understand the 'why' partWhy does it bother you so much that people openly express opinions you might not like?
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Lughost
the Lugoat
fuwaruu wrote...
or you could just ignore people not ignoring thingsI liked the old sig better.
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cruz737 wrote...
ashcrimson wrote...
well just to add, the point on this is not to pass judgement but to understand the 'why' partWhy does it bother you so much that people openly express opinions you might not like?
because its not always just about me. its not just in a forum it happens out there. like I want to bring in a new friend of mine to a scene that I like but this mindset well... me I dont personally care what people say to me, but it feels different for some reason when its done to others
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Grenouille88 wrote...
fuwaruu wrote...
or you could just ignore people not ignoring thingsI liked the old sig better.
but
but
tsukihi is love
also get on skype ngr
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ashcrimson wrote...
and its the same when you see how people react when they see a person in cosplay. I hear them, they talk smack just coz that person was really standing out?I didn't really meant my post as in being negative to someone for standing out...
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Lughost
the Lugoat
fuwaruu wrote...
Grenouille88 wrote...
fuwaruu wrote...
or you could just ignore people not ignoring thingsI liked the old sig better.
but
but
tsukihi is love
also get on skype ngr
Can't. Between classes. On my phone.
Also. OP, slow down with the threads. You have made about ten in the past week. Maybe more.
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Kona-chan wrote...
ashcrimson wrote...
and its the same when you see how people react when they see a person in cosplay. I hear them, they talk smack just coz that person was really standing out?I didn't really meant my post as in being negative to someone for standing out...
oh yeah, im just giving a seperate example on how this mindset can be used by others, to result in such negative effects.
what can i say I havent had coffee yet
fuwaruu wrote...
or you could just ignore people not ignoring thingsthats what I usually do and go along with the flow, but I feel like trying to understand why this is
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Grenouille88 wrote...
fuwaruu wrote...
Grenouille88 wrote...
fuwaruu wrote...
or you could just ignore people not ignoring thingsI liked the old sig better.
but
but
tsukihi is love
also get on skype ngr
Can't. Between classes. On my phone.
You're missing out.
Grenouille88 wrote...
Also. OP, slow down with the threads. You have made about ten in the past week. Maybe more.
^
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Lughost
the Lugoat
fuwaruu wrote...
Grenouille88 wrote...
fuwaruu wrote...
Grenouille88 wrote...
fuwaruu wrote...
or you could just ignore people not ignoring thingsI liked the old sig better.
but
but
tsukihi is love
also get on skype ngr
Can't. Between classes. On my phone.
You're missing out.
Grenouille88 wrote...
Also. OP, slow down with the threads. You have made about ten in the past week. Maybe more.
^
Nigs, I'm always missing out. At least I have weeb music this time.
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ill take a gamble with this line but
Aren't some people here outside of the standards of the societies that they belong to? And I can imagine, some of those have felt it, being treated differently for being so - some ridicule even. Didnt you ever wonder why it happens? Does things really have to be that way?
Aren't some people here outside of the standards of the societies that they belong to? And I can imagine, some of those have felt it, being treated differently for being so - some ridicule even. Didnt you ever wonder why it happens? Does things really have to be that way?
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Grenouille88 wrote...
fuwaruu wrote...
Grenouille88 wrote...
fuwaruu wrote...
Grenouille88 wrote...
fuwaruu wrote...
or you could just ignore people not ignoring thingsI liked the old sig better.
but
but
tsukihi is love
also get on skype ngr
Can't. Between classes. On my phone.
You're missing out.
Grenouille88 wrote...
Also. OP, slow down with the threads. You have made about ten in the past week. Maybe more.
^
Nigs, I'm always missing out. At least I have weeb music this time.
platinum disco or bust
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Lughost
the Lugoat
fuwaruu wrote...
Grenouille88 wrote...
fuwaruu wrote...
Grenouille88 wrote...
fuwaruu wrote...
Grenouille88 wrote...
fuwaruu wrote...
or you could just ignore people not ignoring thingsI liked the old sig better.
but
but
tsukihi is love
also get on skype ngr
Can't. Between classes. On my phone.
You're missing out.
Grenouille88 wrote...
Also. OP, slow down with the threads. You have made about ten in the past week. Maybe more.
^
Nigs, I'm always missing out. At least I have weeb music this time.
platinum disco or bust
Renai Circulation.
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I dunno, it's hard to ignore when people get their facts blatantly wrong or do stupid shit like say Justin Beiber is better than Queen and The Beatles...
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some people cannot ignore for several reasons
one... it's really hard to ignore something or someone who purposely tries to get attention
two... people always react to something different or something new. most of the time negative
three... lets face it, you will always meet people who are self-righteous who thinks they are always right and try to correct people who make 'mistakes'. they even take it to another level as to insult everyone and make them think that they are better than everyone else. insecurities exist on everyone and misery loves company.
*four... hater's gonna hate; that's just how it goes.
and just a question, isn't your question a little self defeating?
yes some people just cannot ignore the differences and all they do is criticize
but you also 'noticed' them and it seems that you cannot ignore it?
ps. sorry for the wall of post
one... it's really hard to ignore something or someone who purposely tries to get attention
two... people always react to something different or something new. most of the time negative
three... lets face it, you will always meet people who are self-righteous who thinks they are always right and try to correct people who make 'mistakes'. they even take it to another level as to insult everyone and make them think that they are better than everyone else. insecurities exist on everyone and misery loves company.
*four... hater's gonna hate; that's just how it goes.
and just a question, isn't your question a little self defeating?
yes some people just cannot ignore the differences and all they do is criticize
but you also 'noticed' them and it seems that you cannot ignore it?
ps. sorry for the wall of post