Biggest relationship pet peeves?

Every now and then I feel it's good to vent. If you're in a relationship, then there has to be at least one thing that your partner does that annoys you like crazy. What is it? :)

For me, it's that my gf is a pain in the ass to sleep with. She likes lots of blankets, I like the cold. She hogs the bed, i end up on the couch half the time. She likes to sleep with the light on (even though she wears blinders), I like darkness. And she get's mad at me whenever I don't go to bed with her, or when I'm not there when she wakes up. I don't need lots of sleep. Often times I run off of 4 or 5 hours whereas she takes 9-10hrs. So often times I go to bed a few hours after her, and wake up long before she does.
Ok... done venting. Your turn :P Share something so i don't feel like a dick being the only one complaining about their romantic partner xP

Would probably do so with my friends or talk to my partner if things got too bothersome. Not the best idea to blog about it openly for everyone to read. Even if they were to say they didn't mind or they didn't know about the site, usually this type of stuff can bother your partner and could bite you in the ass in the long run.



Honestly I don't really have much to vent about with my guy (even if I did again, posting it on here is a terrible idea). I like his quirks and if something peeves me off, I learn to deal with it or I talk to him about it (aka if he leaves the toilet seat up, I'll put it down myself since it's not a big deal and just ask him if he can remember to put it down next time).

Some things you can try to help with the sleeping arrangements:
- Get a thin sheet for the both of you and she can have an extra quilt/throw all to herself to sleep with.
- If you two have a small bed (such as a twin) then you will probably have to look into a bigger bed for the two of you in the future.
- If she likes the lights on then maybe get a night light to plug in so that it isn't completely dark, but dark enough for you to sleep (that works for myself personally).
- You two will just have to learn how to adjust to each other's internal sleep/wake cycle. I know I can sleep through the night where my bf can't sleep half the time (or that somehow flips and I'm the one that can't sleep). I like when I can wake up to my man, but I don't get upset with him if he can't sleep or he isn't next to me when I wake. I can't force him to switch to my sleep cycle. I know I enjoy sneaking out of bed to make my guy breakfast if I'm awake or he'll leave me a sweet note if he needs to get things done.

Well on my side i sometimes don't want to decode female subtle messages when im not in the mood. Please just say what you mean and not make me play some draconian puzzle game. On her side... she think nudity mean sex. I need to sleep naked in the summer because it hot. Doesn't mean i need to stick it in.(even thought she rapes me in my sleep when she horny)

Im lucky 99% of the time she not crazy... well most women are natural loopy.

I tried and dated boys in high school.

None of them seemed interested in getting to know me as a person. They also lacked that spark of passion I was looking for. If anything they wanted to just be fuck buddies for a while. That's my experience.

If I went on I'd have to say things that I don't like about Cherry, but she's just one person and is much different that the other relationships I've had. Besides, they'd be nitpicks at best.

Detailed spoilers as always eh? XD


By the way i havent a romantic relationship but if there is something that annoy me like that much is my brother, when i want to sleep, he start to eat something like "pizza, hamburguer, cookies" this is annoying cause the smell of food is strong and disturb me when im trying to sleep lol

In general I do dislike someone who has extreme views, like being outwardly racist. Though I guess that's more of them as a person than something they do.

Otherwise I can't immediately think of anything.

I've been friends with dramaqueens in the past. The kind of person who makes a mountain out of a molehill. The type who ruin nights out and drag everyone else down with them because of something an ex of theirs has supposedly said. Yeah. Now, if I'm friends with one I end up eventually not talking to them. Imagine being in a relationship with one? Absolutely grim thought.

Ha! you and I could probably never sleep together. I'm a night owl and only eat during the odd hours of night. This actually bothers my girl as well since I'm always cooking at like 2 or 3 am.

Biggest pet peeves? Hmm... none in my current relationship but here are some from prior relationships that caused some issues.

Lack of communication (things don't work if you don't tell me what the eff is wrong or what you want or... hell anything. You HAVE to be able to talk to me.)

Lack of physical and/or emotional intimacy

Lack of emotions and emotional expression (I can't read emotionless people and that can make situations REALLY awkward for me.)

Disrespecting things or people I care for to my face (you don't have to like what I like, just don't trash-talk the things I like. I will give you the same respect in return.)

Saying very hurtful things about me to other people, or to me directly (just don't be an asshole... really simple)

I haven't noticed until lately, but I really detest girls who are completely non-confrontational, and aren't direct with things that they should be. It's just begging for problems in the future. Also super agreeable people. Saying yes mindlessly, or "I don't care/mind" "it's up to you" "oh, whatever's nice" really upsets me because it really shows a lack of understanding between partners.

Had some exes that did the same thing to me. They never had an opinion on what to do or what to say and would always use the line "I don't know" or "you decide". What's worse is there would be a fight involving them saying that they felt they never had any say in the relationship...... long story short, just speak your mind and don't be afraid to man up (or woman up) about things.

i will put up with a lot, but i hate it when people eat my leftovers without asking me first. Like, when i have food in the fridge, and im looking forwards to eating it, and i get home, and its gone.... no.