French kiss

Hello.


I don't like to do french kiss, to the point that I do my best to skip it. I don't like the feeling and most of people have a weird (meh...) if not bad (urk !) breathing.

In contrast, I don't mind oral sex -- as long as the sex is clean, does not stink, and the pubic hair is well trend.

How about you ?


I thank by advance any amiable participation :-)

Sadly I've never had a french kiss, so I wouldn't know.

But I enjoy it in Hentai, does that count?

Can you imagine the sensation ?

I think this should probably be in the Love, Romance, and Relationships section.

To answer your question, I have no problem with french kissing and find it quite enjoyable.

What you could do to make it better for yourself and your partner is to maybe pop a piece of gum or mint's in your mouth beforehand. You can either be honest with your partner and tell them nicely that their breathe doesn't smell pleasent (like if they have morning breathe or just ate something with a lot of garlic), or just keep gum/mints on hand and offer some to them while putting some in your mouth.

Easy to say that mint gum stuff, but most of them get offended if not upset, telling me I break the mood and all.

Plus I don't like the way those "kissers" insert or move their tongue. It feels gross. I might say I like kiss a lot, but without the tongue, even so with open mouth but not when someone tongue tries to reach my tonsils...

Not really. I've can't really imagine anything being similar to having another persons tongue entwined with my own. Except maybe having a live eel shoved in my mouth, but the lack of emotion in that instance would probably make the experience provoke a very different response.

I can sort of understand the elements of what another persons tongue would feel like (wet, warm, muscular), but I really have no idea how well those three would go together. Plus, the main element in kissing is the emotion and passion of it, which I have never experienced on their own anyway.

I already have had passionate kisses that let me cut legs and breathless as so much it was intense...

You can guess it wasn't french kiss though ^^;

This belongs in Random. Or LRR.

Any person would be offended being told that just before a kiss. If you do tell them it should be when you two are just being casual and having small talk.

A few things you can do to make this converstaion easier is to either:

1) Say that you like to use gum or mint's of any flavor before you kiss since you don't want your partner to have to deal with your bad breath (they may do the same for you in this sense)

2) Do reverse psychology where you tell your partner that you are insecure about your breath (regardless if it stinks or not). Once you get on the topic, they may ask you or be inclined to talk about their own breathe. Then you can be honest about it.

3) If you know them well enough, just tell them kindly. Tell them that you don't wish to hurt their feelings and then tell them that their breath can be unpleasent sometimes. (If it is bad at certain times, like after a meal or in the morning tell them specifically). Then you tell them that you have gone through the same issue as them (even if it is a fib, but honestly everyone goes through episodes of bad breathe). Then tell them that you only tell them this because you care and that if it was the other way around, that you would wish to hear the same.

Now getting back to the french kiss part..... ummm, I will say this, that sounds more like a horror movie then a french kiss. I have had some that have done that, but a french kiss isn't about seeing how far you can stick your tounge into another person. You just open your mouth a bit to match their's and then you stick your tounge out halfway to intertwine with theirs.

I would suggest trying it out a bit more in the future because they can be pretty fun and it takes time to get a rhytm down. If they aren't good at a french kiss you should either guide them when kissing (it is possible to take the lead on a kiss) or just tell them.

Honestly if people have a problem with being honest then whatever. I would rather a person be honest with me then bottle up their feelings on something so minute.

I don't like it. Never have never will.

I love it.
True. Two people burying their tongues deep into each others throat may sound dirty and un-sexy but I find it erotic just how much the two people kissing give in to their lust and desire to "taste" one another.

@ Misaki_Chi

I already gave a try to your 1 to 3 "solutions" and it didn't work as ideally as you seems to think.

Plus I'm sort of "too lucky" since I never have breathe (except when I puke, when I have throat infections or when I'm straving to death for more than a day) nor cavy. Even the dentists always brush me aside their seat, telling me if everybody were like me, they would be jobless. So I really feel bad when I have to tell my partner "yes, you're very cautious with your teeth, yet it still is not perfect..."

You can use all of the diplomacy you're capable, people always finish to get offended at their own pace.


@ all

Back to the french kiss itself...

Maybe I never cross the road of good kissers ?...

Seems there also are people who don't like deep french kiss and those worshipping for it too :-)

I'm not saying that any of my solutions are perfect, they are just some options and if it is really that big of an issues, just google it.

If you tell a partner "yes, you're very cautious with your teeth, yet it still is not perfect..." anyone would take offense to a statement like that. It's like telling someone they are getting the job done, but still suck at it.

It's never going to be a great conversation and you have to treat it delicately. Either work around the situation or just be honest. Sure a person isn't going to like the truth, but it is that bad, they should know. Also when I say tell the truth, be kind about it the best way you can possibly be.

Regardless if you have good breath or not, as I said. Make it a habbit to chew gum or eat mints before making out and your partner may do the same. If not option two may work out.

In the end you have to decided how much of an issue this is in relation to your partner. Is this so bad that you cannot stand it and either break up. Or you confront them or is it a minor issue and you can deal with it and let it slide. This will never be a great topic in any relationship and you just have to do the best you can, that's all I can really tell you.

Also just googling the subject may give you better answers.

Love dat shit.

@ Misaki_Chi

Don't mistake me : I don't literally say "yes, you're very cautious with your teeth, yet it still is not perfect...", it way sums up any conversations you could have about that. Be sure of that.

Even though if your partner is not too dumb, she/he will reach the main point and sum up it itself -- the moment when you begin to hear her/his teeth clenching.

Since I've tried a lot of method and chronology, I decided to frantically avoid french kiss from start, honnestly saying I dislike it whether my reasons I want to keep for me. One of my partner even prefered my kisses because of that and some other things... But we were working in different regions so we grow apart and in the end broke up. It's Life.

The thing I kept from that : don't bottle up, be honnest (neither not too much nor not not much enough).

French Kissing is very sexual and nice. Some guys I noticed try to be too aggressive with it and it almost feels like getting kisses from a dog XD. Most girls I have kissed have been more relaxed with it. Overall though I love to add it in with regular kisses and slowly mixing that into other sexual acts.

I love doing it, I do prefer regular kisses in terms of emotion but I like to use tongue to express my raw desire as well as emotion but the former feels like I get my point across better when it comes to the emotional connection me and my girlfriend generally try to get across.

I wanted to avoid this topic since the guy seems like a nice reverse complainer. By which I mean an annoying bragger but... Wow, holy mother of god... I mean...

I love French kissing and the passion that comes with it. Nothing turns me on more than a carnal desire to rip each others' clothes off and fuck each other stupid.

But oral, not so much. Had a bad experience with a girl who reeked in the Southern Hemisphere, and it nearly made me physically sick. Was the first time I performed oral and it was my last.


Mai IRL waifu gets wet enough without oral and doesn't like it being performed on her, and kissing in bed ends with French Kissing which ends in sex. So winwin.

I suggest making it kinky and trading the mints with your tongues.