Guilt about Hentai
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Don't feel guilty unless you like guro or rape hentai. To be honest, there are some doujins with sweet romance-ey stories like ED's works and Shinryaku Teki that are like... actual romance stories with the sex as an extra xD
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Space Cowboy wrote...
There is a rule that says we all have to be sexual? .-.
My god...
Age wrote...
I'm asexual IRL, but online I'm just a sexual deviant.Seriously? You've never, ever been attracted to either sex? Not even slightly? You've never had your heart beat faster? Your penis has never been erect / your vagina never wet? Can you honestly say you've never, in your entire life, felt any form of sexual desire, even if it was only a fantasy that does not exist in reality?
... oh, and you are older than 13, right?
On topic, guilt concerning sex is a societal conditioning. It's something we've been brainwashed into. It's not the natural state of mind.
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flln723 wrote...
On topic, guilt concerning sex is a societal conditioning. It's something we've been brainwashed into. It's not the natural state of mind. Religious-induced guilt FTL! One of the perks about being a non-believer I suppose.
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kgods wrote...
flln723 wrote...
On topic, guilt concerning sex is a societal conditioning. It's something we've been brainwashed into. It's not the natural state of mind. Religious-induced guilt FTL! One of the perks about being a non-believer I suppose.
Indeed. Puritanical prudery sucks.
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Nekohime wrote...
Haburi-Chan wrote...
Well I used to sorta feel guilty for watching it, but that's only because my parents are rule-hogs that don't want their pretty girl to watch any of that crap.Needless to say I keep it from them, whether that's a good thing or not. I guess you'll get used to it. Keep masturbating and the guilt will be gone! =P
I grew up a Catholic schoolgirl, so I had soooo many hangups about sex. Then one day, the good lord of fapping came to me in the middle of the night and gave me hentai. Hallelujah! I discovered tentacle porn! Futa! Yuri! Yaoi! Gangbanging! Furries! And I fapped and fapped and all was forgiven. I threw off the oppressive yoke of Catholicism, relieved myself of the burden of blue...erm...ovaries, discovered my sexuality, told my parents to stfu about my personal life, and became free! Hallelujah! Can I get an amen!
Nah, hentai didn't really do all that for me, but I do understand feeling guilty about it. I used to feel ashamed coz like Haburi-chan, my parents didn't want their pure little angel to be sullied by sex. They didn't even want me masturbating, and I got a stern talking to when they caught me. T_T But sex is just a part of being human, and the more we learn to accept the healthy expression of sex, the better off we'll be. Can I get an amen?
Now, brothers and sisters, go forth and look at some hentai! May the fap be with you, and also with you!
/sermon
What did they say when they caught you? I would never ever be prepared for that. >.>
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Haburi-Chan wrote...
What did they say when they caught you? I would never ever be prepared for that. >.>
Hoooo, boy, it was a long, embarrassing, and tiring sermon and I was alternately crying, spacing out because of tl;dl, facepalming, and getting angry at them for making no fucking sense. Went something like "you shouldn't touch yourself, blah blah blah, it's not natural for a girl, blah dee blah, we didn't raise you to be this way, blather blather, it's dirty, blah blah, you're only 15 and you're already becoming a slut, blabeedee blah, where did we go wrong with you, babble babble, didn't Father M. teach you children not to do this, blah blah, maybe you didn't know it was wrong but now you know you shouldn't do it again..." on and on for about, I think, almost two hours. >_< Oh good lord, having repressed Catholic parents meddling in my life sucked big time.
Needless to say, I did NOT get caught again, but neither did I stop masturbating. Or having sex, for that matter. Yeah, when they found out their precious little lady wasn't a virgin anymore, they gave me another long-ass sermon. *facepalm*
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@Nekohime: Asian parents right? I feel you.
Kinda reminds me about my own situation. My parents are first generation in the USA, which meant they worked their butts off when they got here. So when I started doing other "fun" things and not studying, they got pretty mad. I remember my dad catching me watch Full Metal Panic! on my laptop, and a huge argument ensued, which almost resulted in a forced reboot of the system and losing all my J-material. That was back in early high school, and after that I learned to hide all "fun" activities from my parents, and I still do even though they're aware that I like Japanese stuff. I think it's pretty sad, but that's Asian parents for you.
There came a couple of close shaves after, whether it was me on a bondage porn site, almost catching me watch anime or read manga, or me on this site. Funny thing is that I discovered masturbation back in middle school, and thus far have never been caught. I don't think unitl it was in high school that I truly understood what masturbation really is, and since then relished in the sexual release. (Banzai for sexual deviance!)
Kinda reminds me about my own situation. My parents are first generation in the USA, which meant they worked their butts off when they got here. So when I started doing other "fun" things and not studying, they got pretty mad. I remember my dad catching me watch Full Metal Panic! on my laptop, and a huge argument ensued, which almost resulted in a forced reboot of the system and losing all my J-material. That was back in early high school, and after that I learned to hide all "fun" activities from my parents, and I still do even though they're aware that I like Japanese stuff. I think it's pretty sad, but that's Asian parents for you.
There came a couple of close shaves after, whether it was me on a bondage porn site, almost catching me watch anime or read manga, or me on this site. Funny thing is that I discovered masturbation back in middle school, and thus far have never been caught. I don't think unitl it was in high school that I truly understood what masturbation really is, and since then relished in the sexual release. (Banzai for sexual deviance!)
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g-money wrote...
@Nekohime: Asian parents right? I feel you. Asian AND Catholic parents. Double clusterfuck of repressed weirdness.
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Nekohime wrote...
g-money wrote...
@Nekohime: Asian parents right? I feel you. Asian AND Catholic parents. Double clusterfuck of repressed weirdness.
OUCH, a double whammy! At least my parents are Buddhists.
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Nekohime wrote...
Haburi-Chan wrote...
What did they say when they caught you? I would never ever be prepared for that. >.>
Hoooo, boy, it was a long, embarrassing, and tiring sermon and I was alternately crying, spacing out because of tl;dl, facepalming, and getting angry at them for making no fucking sense. Went something like "you shouldn't touch yourself, blah blah blah, it's not natural for a girl, blah dee blah, we didn't raise you to be this way, blather blather, it's dirty, blah blah, you're only 15 and you're already becoming a slut, blabeedee blah, where did we go wrong with you, babble babble, didn't Father M. teach you children not to do this, blah blah, maybe you didn't know it was wrong but now you know you shouldn't do it again..." on and on for about, I think, almost two hours. >_< Oh good lord, having repressed Catholic parents meddling in my life sucked big time.
Needless to say, I did NOT get caught again, but neither did I stop masturbating. Or having sex, for that matter. Yeah, when they found out their precious little lady wasn't a virgin anymore, they gave me another long-ass sermon. *facepalm*
I'm so glad my parents aren't religious. That'd be one more worry on my head. >.>
Gee, you must be glad to live away from them now. =P