Has anyone ever texted their girlfriend...

Doing it once is forgivable.
Doing it twice is.. odd.
Doing it three times is suspicious.
Doing it more than that can psychologically indicate you're thinking about the other girl, even if only subconsciously.

It doesn't matter if you're 'cheating', or not. This is another girl who means enough to be brought into everyday conversation.

It never hurts to search your feelings, think about your life objectively, just to make sure there isn't anything buried there.

If there is,

you know what time it is.

If there's not,
try texting the other girl less, and spend more face-time with her in a group. If you're not seeing her regularly, or at least often enough to have a real relationship, and it's only kept to texts - that makes sense. Still... I'm not speaking as if I know the nature of your relationship. Some girls are very trusting and laid-back, and this could totally be a non-issue.

However, it seems to be the consensus that texting other girls is a red flag to the girlfriend. Female friends in and of itself may not be, but doing it regularly and often enough to superimpose their name when you're texting your girlfriend... it's bound to make her uncomfortable eventually.

Not even once.

No.

"It isn't even girls I'm cheating on her with, but other women I'm texting casually"

so you ARE cheating on her though.
I feel sorry for your girlfriend.

Last response was Jul 27, 2013 at 4:52 am. Nice one.

Never before and never at all.

Once, but was during my stupid teenager days so it wasn't anything serious anyway.

That was my first thought.

Nah I've never texted anyone with the wrong name before, usually their name comes up when you're texting them anyways.

Fuaarrk, late reply.
Depends on what you classify as cheating. Could be considered cheating

I never mention a persons name in a text so no. It happens more often if I speak or calling the person

I've miscalled before, but with texting I've never gotten my boyfriend confused with anyone else in my phone. I usually put boyfriends in a favorites section or on speed dial or something because I would rather have easy access to his email or phone.... I don't know how your girlfriend would feel about this, but personally it would kinda be weird if I saw this happening more then 3 or 5 times. If your issue is in relation to having a similar first or last name, then maybe change it to something else like a nickname or just put "girlfriend" so you won't have this happen.

Well, if a a person would believe texting casually to other females to be cheating, then i am not sure that person is sane.

Hardly.
If your partner spends every part of the day texting other girls (or guys in my case) and barely acknowledges you, and even calls you by their names, you'd be suspicious of cheating.
Aside from that, emotional cheating is a thing apparently. As said, depends on the persons sense of cheating.

Also, the fact the op said: 'It isn't even girls I'm cheating on her with' makes me think he has cheated on her

I wouldn't call women insane for this. Every circumstance is different; things such as a history of either party cheating, trust issues, insecurity, etc can affect how we act/react to this situation. It can also depend on who the guy is texting (a friend, an ex, a hook up, etc).

Also, we usually don't distrust the guy (usually 50-50 on this though), it's the girls that we worry more about. Girls can be pretty fucked up and try to go after men that are taken (more reasons for this, but don't care to go into it, but it is a more then common thing). Usually the reason you'll see the girl get pissed at the "other person" initially instead of their partner.

We just want to feel important to our guy. I know that with my bf, he is more then just my lover, he is also my best friend and the one person I know I can talk about anything to.

In the context of this thread, it would make a girl a little bit pissed if the loving words of your man were sent to other women on more then one occasion. It can go beyond humorous after 3-5 times or more.

I think i looked at the situation a bit different than you, but what you said is entirely true. A history and not paying enough attention to your girlfriend makes the situation entirely different from how i percieved it.

How i saw it, the guy has a lot of friends and ergo texts a lot, but by mistake he wrote the wrong name. Now once is strange, but not a big deal unless there already is something to be suspicious about. If it happens more it would seem like something is wrong, and could indeed be percieved as cheating.

You'd think, with the technology level of smartphones these days, shit like this wouldn't happen on accident.

haha, I like to make nicknames in relationships, so It's hard to get Kittycakes mixed up with Lemondrops.