help???
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well ive been single for a long time and i was wondering what do guys look for in girls so that i can try to make myself more appealing hehe this may sound desperate (i suppose i sorta am now) but its really gettin to me now how all my mates have someone special and ive been single for like 7 years :(
any help is appreciative
any help is appreciative
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your asking guys on a hentai site about their tastes? a lot of the people here are desperate or never had a girlfriend.
Sorry cant help you...
Sorry cant help you...
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If you have similar tastes, you don't really need to try hard. I'm sure you've been single because there just haven't been boys around you overly fond of anime and anything related to it. If you like cosplay for example and some guy totally loves it, you shouldn't have to do more for an appeal. =P
But if you really want to know: guys don't take hints well. Be clear and talk to them instead of dropping hints. Don't be shy and be flirty and spontanious.
And if you aren't seeing any cute otaku boys like I do, go to cons! I'm attending some cons myself.
But if you really want to know: guys don't take hints well. Be clear and talk to them instead of dropping hints. Don't be shy and be flirty and spontanious.
And if you aren't seeing any cute otaku boys like I do, go to cons! I'm attending some cons myself.
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Haburi-Chan wrote...
If you have similar tastes, you don't really need to try hard. I'm sure you've been single because there just haven't been boys around you overly fond of anime and anything related to it. If you like cosplay for example and some guy totally loves it, you shouldn't have to do more for an appeal. =PBut if you really want to know: guys don't take hints well. Be clear and talk to them instead of dropping hints. Don't be shy and be flirty and spontanious.
And if you aren't seeing any cute otaku boys like I do, go to cons! I'm attending some cons myself.
shes totally right on this one, i met a girl at this con i go to every year who had the biggest crush on me for 2 years and just last night i told her "remember when i told you that i can't be your Sasori? well... now i AM your Sasori" so at the moment were unofficially dating but soon we will be official. i keep telling people that going to cons is an AWESOME way to find a boyfriend or girlfriend!
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Yukinari wrote...
Haburi-Chan wrote...
If you have similar tastes, you don't really need to try hard. I'm sure you've been single because there just haven't been boys around you overly fond of anime and anything related to it. If you like cosplay for example and some guy totally loves it, you shouldn't have to do more for an appeal. =PBut if you really want to know: guys don't take hints well. Be clear and talk to them instead of dropping hints. Don't be shy and be flirty and spontanious.
And if you aren't seeing any cute otaku boys like I do, go to cons! I'm attending some cons myself.
shes totally right on this one, i met a girl at this con i go to every year who had the biggest crush on me for 2 years and just last night i told her "remember when i told you that i can't be your Sasori? well... now i AM your Sasori" so at the moment were unofficially dating but soon we will be official. i keep telling people that going to cons is an AWESOME way to find a boyfriend or girlfriend!
awwww so sweet!!
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i dont know if girls have the same problem as guys do with being single for ages.. (with most guys.. it's likely to be "hey! i gotta get some badly! " vs girls who might look for the emotional side of it.. and yes i did draw on commonly held stereotypes)
but i think you shouldnt be bothered just becuase you feel left out when your freinds have all got partners.. i'd say that such thinking leaves you open to be exploited by those types of guys that looks for girls like you and use you in a time of emotional weakness or something..
also.. what is your current situation.. you say you want to be more appealing.. well what have we got to work with here? sorry if it seems a little intrusive.. i cant offer anything with blanks
you seem like a nice enough person online though.. if that means anything..
but i think you shouldnt be bothered just becuase you feel left out when your freinds have all got partners.. i'd say that such thinking leaves you open to be exploited by those types of guys that looks for girls like you and use you in a time of emotional weakness or something..
also.. what is your current situation.. you say you want to be more appealing.. well what have we got to work with here? sorry if it seems a little intrusive.. i cant offer anything with blanks
you seem like a nice enough person online though.. if that means anything..
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sparkle323 wrote...
Yukinari wrote...
Haburi-Chan wrote...
If you have similar tastes, you don't really need to try hard. I'm sure you've been single because there just haven't been boys around you overly fond of anime and anything related to it. If you like cosplay for example and some guy totally loves it, you shouldn't have to do more for an appeal. =PBut if you really want to know: guys don't take hints well. Be clear and talk to them instead of dropping hints. Don't be shy and be flirty and spontanious.
And if you aren't seeing any cute otaku boys like I do, go to cons! I'm attending some cons myself.
shes totally right on this one, i met a girl at this con i go to every year who had the biggest crush on me for 2 years and just last night i told her "remember when i told you that i can't be your Sasori? well... now i AM your Sasori" so at the moment were unofficially dating but soon we will be official. i keep telling people that going to cons is an AWESOME way to find a boyfriend or girlfriend!
awwww so sweet!!
heres how it went:
me: Well do you remember what I said when you told me that you want to go out with me?
her: You didn't see me in that light?
her: Right? Basically?
me: No thats not it.
her: Mm
me: I told you that I could not be your Sasori but I could be that cool Sasori that you met at Youmacon.
her: Go on?
me: Well...
me: Now i can be you're Sasori.
me: ; )
her: You have no idea how happy you just made me!!
her: It doesnt feel the same hugging a pillow lol! ><
me: LOLZ!
her: I had to pinch myself to make sure I wasnt dreaming! <3 im sooo happy!
her: I feel the need to skip around now lol xD why does it have to be dark outside?!
me: LOL! well im glad your happy!
her: lol!
her: I just cant get over my happiness...xxxDDD ehehe.
1:30 seconds later...
her: Okay I calmed down a lil lol.
me: I figured you needed a sec heh heh!
her: lol
her: Am I that obvious? =P
me: Yeah lol!
her: lmao! =D
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This is what my mom used to tell me all the time and I never believed it... But then I started meeting guys:
it will happen when you least expect it.
Just live your life and eventually a guy will come along and fall for you and you for him. :) it rarely happens when you're looking for it! Odd but true!
Good luck :)
it will happen when you least expect it.
Just live your life and eventually a guy will come along and fall for you and you for him. :) it rarely happens when you're looking for it! Odd but true!
Good luck :)
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I usually try not to judge by age, but from your photo in the other thread (and your avatar), you seem teenaged so I'll just say: wait till college. You'll meet guys.
And if you're there already, just give it time. Better to have a few good experiences than lots of mixed ones, right?
And if you're there already, just give it time. Better to have a few good experiences than lots of mixed ones, right?
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gizgal wrote...
I usually try not to judge by age, but from your photo in the other thread (and your avatar), you seem teenaged so I'll just say: wait till college. You'll meet guys.And if you're there already, just give it time. Better to have a few good experiences than lots of mixed ones, right?
^this..
seriously.. people mature a lot once they out of highschool and into college or university..
the occasional douche is everywhere.. but less likely..
good luck!
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I know it's cliche, but yeah, be yourself and act natural because i'm sure not many people would enjoy falling in love with somebody only for them to change drastically after they go steady.
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You can do two things"
1. be yourself.
2. be yourself with honesty.
Well guys are different. Dont degrade yourself just to get a boyfriend. Its better to wait and search than just throw bait and see what you catch. Ive had couple of girlfriends who not always agreed with me, but i grew to understand them and they as well. To answer your question, try what Yukinari said. it can help, and it can give you that push. Good Luck!
1. be yourself.
2. be yourself with honesty.
Well guys are different. Dont degrade yourself just to get a boyfriend. Its better to wait and search than just throw bait and see what you catch. Ive had couple of girlfriends who not always agreed with me, but i grew to understand them and they as well. To answer your question, try what Yukinari said. it can help, and it can give you that push. Good Luck!
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[size=12] [/h] alright ill help you since most ppl on here think most of us guys are virgin sexfreaks lol but ill help the best way i can well most men like a girl that makes it clear that there interested because alot of guys are really stupid and thick headed when it come to stuff like that lol but also dont be afraid to make the first move men like a girl who is assertive its a turn on ;). umm lets see i would have to say if anything you have to show your on the hunt put on that sexy dress or whatever boy killer you have in your closet and that should help you.
