Help on having a relationship
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Hi, I'm new to these forums and i wish you guys could help me. I just started school and I saw a girl who I really like. My friends told me that she is shy and always looks sad. I wanna talk to her and make her my girlfriend. But, I'm really shy when I talk to new people and most of the times, my mind goes blank when I'm talking to someone. I need some advice on how to approach her and talk to her.
Thanks.
Thanks.
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Try introducing yourself, first off.
Before that, make sure you have a nice idea of a list of conversation starters in mind. Once you get a good conversation going, than you can hopefully start talking to each other a bit more. After a bit, you find yourselves getting along, ask if she'd like to go out with you, etc, etc. Just make sure to take things in steps. Small, long steps, considering if she's really shy. Don't try and do things all in one go. One thing you shouldn't be is shy. Granted, you probably can't help it, it's just who you are, but try to think of it as if you're just talking to one of your friends... in the politest way possible.
Before that, make sure you have a nice idea of a list of conversation starters in mind. Once you get a good conversation going, than you can hopefully start talking to each other a bit more. After a bit, you find yourselves getting along, ask if she'd like to go out with you, etc, etc. Just make sure to take things in steps. Small, long steps, considering if she's really shy. Don't try and do things all in one go. One thing you shouldn't be is shy. Granted, you probably can't help it, it's just who you are, but try to think of it as if you're just talking to one of your friends... in the politest way possible.
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yeah, just introduce yourself first. after that you can start small talk about something around you like how is the weather is nice or something. and then ask about herself it will fell like you care about her and want to know more about her. you can said something about yourself but don't boasting yourself around too much since people doesn't like boosting person.
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Also, try to make her laugh or giggle. If you can do that, try a conversation with her. I helps to ease her shyness and yours by making her comfortable around you. Then take easy steps to make her know you. It helps.
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shinji_ikari
Mustn't Run Away...
baby steps man , conversation is key though ,get to know her before you run into making her your girlfriend .also if possible try ,and find out what shes into , people may not feel comfortable talking about themselves all the time , but a mutual interest (be it an activity or a hobby) can really open some doors for you. I suppose the only other basic thing I can tell you is just be nice ,if she's shy you don't wanna scare her off , start things off slow like saying hi when you see her, not just running in trying to be some clown , or mr.smooth..cause honestly 90% of the time it just makes you look like a tool
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Well' I'll try to talk to her next time. I feel like this is the hardest thing in the world right now.
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
Act interested in her friends. This makes you more attractive to her, true story.
Not even shitting you.
Not even shitting you.
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Be yourself
you dont want her to be in love with a projected image of yourself you give her
try not to force conversation. but if you have a good conversation in mind, go for it. You could talk about recent news, events etc
You're in school? try discussing study results and all that
Get to know her weak and strong subjects.
("hey, what did you get for the test? Not bad. I'm not as smart as you yet.)
or
("hey, what did you get for the test? Thats harsh. Need some help?)
since she's shy, getting her to open up is very important (make her laugh. thats a sure-win way)
Oh, and good luck. start off slowly. Go the normal route
classmate-->friend-->better friend-->close friends-->confess or something-->pray hard
wish ya all the best
you dont want her to be in love with a projected image of yourself you give her
try not to force conversation. but if you have a good conversation in mind, go for it. You could talk about recent news, events etc
You're in school? try discussing study results and all that
Get to know her weak and strong subjects.
("hey, what did you get for the test? Not bad. I'm not as smart as you yet.)
or
("hey, what did you get for the test? Thats harsh. Need some help?)
since she's shy, getting her to open up is very important (make her laugh. thats a sure-win way)
Oh, and good luck. start off slowly. Go the normal route
classmate-->friend-->better friend-->close friends-->confess or something-->pray hard
wish ya all the best