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I need advice
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So i will first start off by saying thank you ahead of time we are just a great group of people so now onto my situation:I haven't dated at all in the past four years and I am getting ready to start college and i met this girl and we talked for a little bit and in my opinion we hit it off,but we didnt talk until recently until i pretty much emailed her suddenly yesterday and I honestly do not know how to proceed,if you couldn't tell already i haven't talked to people much(unless at work but that's part of the job i am not the greatest at explaining things sometimes)I will say that i first and formost want to be friends and hopefully when i get to know her better and if i still like her to let my feeling be known as i dont want to ruin a good thing that just begun
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
If you two are close enough distance-wise then this may be easier on you two in terms of friendship and things to come.
If you two are gonna have some distance between you two, then I would suggest just keeping things casual and start off with a friendship.
I think what you are doing is just fine and don't feel too awkward with her. Just talk to her and find out her interests. Ask her how she is doing, what she likes and dislikes, talk about things that you have in common, etc. If you find you can't relate another good way to keep conversations flowing is to say "____ is interesting, could you tell me more?" I know when I can't find much to talk about, having the other person do the talking on something they can ramble on about is a good way to get the other person to open up to you.
Just go with things and see where they go. College will be a big change for you in life and you may meet new people and a couple of girls along the way. Just have some faith in the things to come.
If you two are gonna have some distance between you two, then I would suggest just keeping things casual and start off with a friendship.
I think what you are doing is just fine and don't feel too awkward with her. Just talk to her and find out her interests. Ask her how she is doing, what she likes and dislikes, talk about things that you have in common, etc. If you find you can't relate another good way to keep conversations flowing is to say "____ is interesting, could you tell me more?" I know when I can't find much to talk about, having the other person do the talking on something they can ramble on about is a good way to get the other person to open up to you.
Just go with things and see where they go. College will be a big change for you in life and you may meet new people and a couple of girls along the way. Just have some faith in the things to come.
