I NEED HELP!!!!
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OK i need help! My girlfriend lives about ten miles away from me and her best friend is coming back form like japan i think. not only is he her best friend but he is her ex and she says she might still have feelings for him... gawd i don't know what to do i may be over thinking this but still i need some help please PLEASE help!!!
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Love and Romance section next time for a problem like this.
Luckily I frequent that section, and have "experience" with situational problems like this.
First off there's no long answer to this, I'll make this as simple as I can. There's nothing you can do, nor is there anything you should do to impede her best friend from visiting. Making any such action will only leave you seeming as overbearing and jealous. Albeit her admitting her possible feelings for her ex, you should let it unfold before you, because if she truly loves you, there shouldn't be a reason to worry. It's a part of fate, and if was wasn't meant to be now, it's not meant to be in the future. Letting her ex come back and stay with her is a rather good thing. It tests loyalty and shows who she really feels stronger about. There should not be any doubt in the end. People panic about situations like these because they are scared to lose the one they care for or worry they might be cheated on. Everything that is happening as of now, let it be. If she cheats, she wasn't trustworthy to begin with, and you deserve better unless you're the same way yourself. And if she doesn't cheat, you know that you can trust your girlfriend in the future without worrying. After the visit, talk with her and find out what happened. If nothing you're in the clear, and if she wants to be with him/cheated on you, then it's time to face reality and learn to move on. In the end it comes down to two things, being weak and strong.Don't forget that next time. A woman/man who is un-loyal is weak, there is no excuse, move on and be strong.
Anyway best of luck, I hope you two remain in the end. Don't stress it, let it all unfold.
Luckily I frequent that section, and have "experience" with situational problems like this.
First off there's no long answer to this, I'll make this as simple as I can. There's nothing you can do, nor is there anything you should do to impede her best friend from visiting. Making any such action will only leave you seeming as overbearing and jealous. Albeit her admitting her possible feelings for her ex, you should let it unfold before you, because if she truly loves you, there shouldn't be a reason to worry. It's a part of fate, and if was wasn't meant to be now, it's not meant to be in the future. Letting her ex come back and stay with her is a rather good thing. It tests loyalty and shows who she really feels stronger about. There should not be any doubt in the end. People panic about situations like these because they are scared to lose the one they care for or worry they might be cheated on. Everything that is happening as of now, let it be. If she cheats, she wasn't trustworthy to begin with, and you deserve better unless you're the same way yourself. And if she doesn't cheat, you know that you can trust your girlfriend in the future without worrying. After the visit, talk with her and find out what happened. If nothing you're in the clear, and if she wants to be with him/cheated on you, then it's time to face reality and learn to move on. In the end it comes down to two things, being weak and strong.Don't forget that next time. A woman/man who is un-loyal is weak, there is no excuse, move on and be strong.
Anyway best of luck, I hope you two remain in the end. Don't stress it, let it all unfold.
