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If your girl feels up a woman do you feel...?
Jealous or Excited?
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[size=12]Hello guys!
I haven't posted here since.... I dunno.
I always post about real life things. Sorry.
This time it's about a recent event.
I was telling my darling about how I almost kissed my friend, who just happens to be a girl, on the lips and he asked me with his eyes shinning bright "So, how did you feel?" I was like ._. "Bro, I said almost."
Then a few weeks later I told him I thought my breast size was getting bigger because I felt my friend's chest, then mine and hers was a little harder. Again came the same question, this time with a smile "So... tell me, how did you feel?" I said "I felt like mine was softer." and he mumbled "You're no fun."
I know some guys have the girl on girl fantasy so I'm kinda curious about this.
Would you guys be like that or is he just too much of a fan of G on G?
Either way, I thank you in advance for your answers. This will be a fun thread.
I apologise if something like this was posted before.
The other day he was cooking and his friend fed him the cream sauce to taste since his hands were busy. Just to spite him, I asked him with a big smile "So, honey, how did YOU feel?" He looked like he wanted to throw me to space. XD [/h]
I haven't posted here since.... I dunno.
I always post about real life things. Sorry.
This time it's about a recent event.
I was telling my darling about how I almost kissed my friend, who just happens to be a girl, on the lips and he asked me with his eyes shinning bright "So, how did you feel?" I was like ._. "Bro, I said almost."
Then a few weeks later I told him I thought my breast size was getting bigger because I felt my friend's chest, then mine and hers was a little harder. Again came the same question, this time with a smile "So... tell me, how did you feel?" I said "I felt like mine was softer." and he mumbled "You're no fun."
I know some guys have the girl on girl fantasy so I'm kinda curious about this.
Would you guys be like that or is he just too much of a fan of G on G?
Either way, I thank you in advance for your answers. This will be a fun thread.
I apologise if something like this was posted before.
The other day he was cooking and his friend fed him the cream sauce to taste since his hands were busy. Just to spite him, I asked him with a big smile "So, honey, how did YOU feel?" He looked like he wanted to throw me to space. XD [/h]
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XSeraphinX wrote...
[size=12]The other day he was cooking and his friend fed him the cream sauce to taste since his hands were busy. Just to spite him, I asked him with a big smile "So, honey, how did YOU feel?" He looked like he wanted to throw me to space. XD [/h]
^Lol owned
And i dig girl on girl, as long as the other girl doesnt NTR me (three-ways with me and two girls are ok though), because that would suck.
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
See, this is the kind of thing I can't really make a decision about in just a poll, because ultimately it all boils down to whatever relationship I have with my partner. I'm not particularly adamant against trying open relationships, hell I've talked to a friend about it and even thought up an ideal open relationship for myself.
Regardless, like I said before, it depends on the relationship, and hence my partner herself, whatever ground rules we set in our relationship, our communication with one another, and (possibly to a lesser extent) whoever she's getting intimate with.
For example, in my open relationship ideal, I'd have heterosexual intercourse and fun with my partner only, and vice versa. However, we'd both be allowed to have homosexual fun with other people, provided we tell each other about it. In such a dynamic, cheating mainly occurs if one party is having close sexual AND emotional relations with a 3rd party without the significant other knowing about it (in other words, doing something behind your lover's back that you probably wouldn't want them finding out about).
If it was a typical closed relationship, however, then regular rules would apply. We'd be for each other and each other alone, so no other person is allowed to to be too intimate with her or myself.
Okay, enough droning for now, I probably went off on a major tangent somewhere(I blame being tired and nervousness for my midterms tomorrow). Long story short, it depends for me on a lot of things.
P.S. This is all just my own opinions formed from too much thought. I have no real experience in the matter, so final outcomes may be subject to change.
Regardless, like I said before, it depends on the relationship, and hence my partner herself, whatever ground rules we set in our relationship, our communication with one another, and (possibly to a lesser extent) whoever she's getting intimate with.
For example, in my open relationship ideal, I'd have heterosexual intercourse and fun with my partner only, and vice versa. However, we'd both be allowed to have homosexual fun with other people, provided we tell each other about it. In such a dynamic, cheating mainly occurs if one party is having close sexual AND emotional relations with a 3rd party without the significant other knowing about it (in other words, doing something behind your lover's back that you probably wouldn't want them finding out about).
If it was a typical closed relationship, however, then regular rules would apply. We'd be for each other and each other alone, so no other person is allowed to to be too intimate with her or myself.
Okay, enough droning for now, I probably went off on a major tangent somewhere(I blame being tired and nervousness for my midterms tomorrow). Long story short, it depends for me on a lot of things.
P.S. This is all just my own opinions formed from too much thought. I have no real experience in the matter, so final outcomes may be subject to change.
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
This is coming from a woman's perspective, but still is valid to the discussion.
Most of the guys I've dated or known think the idea of a 3 way (two girls and the guy) would be heaven on earth. It makes them feel like such a king to have to lovely ladies as eye candy for guy to ogle at and then for said guy to bang. I wouldn't take it personally or anything, guys are horn dogs and as long as they don't pressure you into anything you don't want to do then it's all in good fun.
When this could actually become a reality both parties need to talk about the ground rules. Basically how far are things going to go, are toys going to be involved, does the guy want any special services, can the "other" woman get fucked in any way (some groups won't allow the guy to fuck the other women only watch or play; basically no dick in pussy), etc. Both of you need to come to a conclusive decision and then figure out how to make it work. Best to use someone you know well enough, but are not so close that if things didn't work out your not loosing someone valuable in your life. You also should make sure the 3rd party agrees to everything as well. Also make sure everyone gets tested for STDs.
I know my bf loves when I kiss other women (was drunk and my bi friend initiated) and he'd be elated if I showed interest in a 3-some (with another woman mind you lol), but I'm not sexually turned on by women in that way. Thought the kiss was sexy, but again it didn't really turn me on like my man kissing me so he'll just have to keep dreaming lol.
Most of the guys I've dated or known think the idea of a 3 way (two girls and the guy) would be heaven on earth. It makes them feel like such a king to have to lovely ladies as eye candy for guy to ogle at and then for said guy to bang. I wouldn't take it personally or anything, guys are horn dogs and as long as they don't pressure you into anything you don't want to do then it's all in good fun.
When this could actually become a reality both parties need to talk about the ground rules. Basically how far are things going to go, are toys going to be involved, does the guy want any special services, can the "other" woman get fucked in any way (some groups won't allow the guy to fuck the other women only watch or play; basically no dick in pussy), etc. Both of you need to come to a conclusive decision and then figure out how to make it work. Best to use someone you know well enough, but are not so close that if things didn't work out your not loosing someone valuable in your life. You also should make sure the 3rd party agrees to everything as well. Also make sure everyone gets tested for STDs.
I know my bf loves when I kiss other women (was drunk and my bi friend initiated) and he'd be elated if I showed interest in a 3-some (with another woman mind you lol), but I'm not sexually turned on by women in that way. Thought the kiss was sexy, but again it didn't really turn me on like my man kissing me so he'll just have to keep dreaming lol.
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DatYuriThough
Goddess of Nature
I just want to clarify beforehand that I am a girl who is in a relationship with another girl.
I'm not really open about the idea of my GF going off with a guy/another girl and either having sex with them or forming any kind of physical relationship with them. Simply put I am quite possessive of her despite being the one who is more shy, I love her and want her all to myself. We've talked about opening up to allowing a third person in at times, we aren't afraid to voice our issues with one another (though there aren't too many to mention) and our preferences, but I am a very selfish person at heart. I'd be pissed if she decided to even flirt with another girl/a guy without telling me about if before she did it. And even then I wouldn't take it well.
To summarise: I wouldn't enjoy it. It doesn't turn me on, I'm generally don't get turned on by anyone unless I can form an emotional relationship beforehand.
I'm not really open about the idea of my GF going off with a guy/another girl and either having sex with them or forming any kind of physical relationship with them. Simply put I am quite possessive of her despite being the one who is more shy, I love her and want her all to myself. We've talked about opening up to allowing a third person in at times, we aren't afraid to voice our issues with one another (though there aren't too many to mention) and our preferences, but I am a very selfish person at heart. I'd be pissed if she decided to even flirt with another girl/a guy without telling me about if before she did it. And even then I wouldn't take it well.
To summarise: I wouldn't enjoy it. It doesn't turn me on, I'm generally don't get turned on by anyone unless I can form an emotional relationship beforehand.
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I'm a girl too, so I'm not even sure if this is valid, but well I think it also depends on who goes on who. I'm SUPER close with many of my female friends and getting all cuddly, hugging and sometimes groping is pretty normal. We just do it for fun and jokes.
My ex didn't mind me groping others or other (girls) going on me. tbh I never asked if he was on the idea of G on G, but I don't think he was cause every time I told him about yuri or lesbian stuff he would just smile and nod as if I was interesting which he obviously didn't think I was lol. However I do believe he would rather have me going on girls than the other way around.
Also since I'm 100% straight I don't think my ex was worried at all, since I wouldn't go to the point of breaking up with him over any girl anyway.
Did that even make sense?
My ex didn't mind me groping others or other (girls) going on me. tbh I never asked if he was on the idea of G on G, but I don't think he was cause every time I told him about yuri or lesbian stuff he would just smile and nod as if I was interesting which he obviously didn't think I was lol. However I do believe he would rather have me going on girls than the other way around.
Also since I'm 100% straight I don't think my ex was worried at all, since I wouldn't go to the point of breaking up with him over any girl anyway.
Did that even make sense?
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
xhimitsu wrote...
Spoiler:
Did that even make sense?
Yup
tl;dr you are an adorable heterosexual girl, who likes to hug and cuddle your gf's in a pg-13 way, who appreciates all forms of love (aka yuri, yaoi, etc), with no intent on having a 3-some regardless of how any future guys feel.
*hugs and cuddles*
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SneeakyAsian
CTFG Vanguard
[color=#993300]We've discussed her enjoyment of breasts of all kinds. I don't mind, as long as I get to fondle too o3ob
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Thank you everyone for all your answers. Even the serious ones. There is always something to learn.
I'm happy to see that there are quite a few girls on this site. I don't feel so alone...or weird.
Pay no attention to my 1850 lady complex X.X It's hard to change.
Just to clear everything I am straight. I've had opportunities to kiss girls but I refused them all as it doesn't appeal me in real life.
The friend I almost kissed (by accident) and "groped" is one of my best friends. I've known her for over 10 years so we're pretty close. We've watched porn together, read smutty fanfics, watched ecchi anime, watched yaoi (she got traumatized ... twice! LOL) but nothing sexual ever happened or will happen between us. She's like a sister I never had (only child here).
He never suggested or pushed me for a threesome. We just openly talked about our fantasies and kinks once.
If I do it for him, he'll have to do it for me and in my threesome he'd be f*cked. Literally. So I don't think we'll ever cross that line. (When I invite him to read yaoi with me he always tells me "I'm not going to see a dude put his d*ck on another dude!" and I joke "All you need is one. Once you go yaoi, you'll never go back. You'll be a fudanshi by X-mas." That's when he leaves the room. XD)
We'll do fantasies that involve the 2 of us and leave anything that involves a third party to manga or videos.
I'm happy to see that there are quite a few girls on this site. I don't feel so alone...or weird.
Pay no attention to my 1850 lady complex X.X It's hard to change.
Just to clear everything I am straight. I've had opportunities to kiss girls but I refused them all as it doesn't appeal me in real life.
The friend I almost kissed (by accident) and "groped" is one of my best friends. I've known her for over 10 years so we're pretty close. We've watched porn together, read smutty fanfics, watched ecchi anime, watched yaoi (she got traumatized ... twice! LOL) but nothing sexual ever happened or will happen between us. She's like a sister I never had (only child here).
He never suggested or pushed me for a threesome. We just openly talked about our fantasies and kinks once.
If I do it for him, he'll have to do it for me and in my threesome he'd be f*cked. Literally. So I don't think we'll ever cross that line. (When I invite him to read yaoi with me he always tells me "I'm not going to see a dude put his d*ck on another dude!" and I joke "All you need is one. Once you go yaoi, you'll never go back. You'll be a fudanshi by X-mas." That's when he leaves the room. XD)
We'll do fantasies that involve the 2 of us and leave anything that involves a third party to manga or videos.
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Gravity cat
the adequately amused
Ain't going to turn down a lesbian scene, just let me in on the fun too.
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Gravity cat wrote...
Ain't going to turn down a lesbian scene, just let me in on the fun too.
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Well... I'm a girl who likes girls (lesbian, not bi), so I guess I can talk from the inverse situation.
I'm not really jealously, in fact I'm pretty open minded (I even was on a trio one time! - not a good experience in the very end, but for other reasons -), but I don't feel very ok when a girlfriend talks about past sexual experiences or fantasies with mens (bisexuals), at least when it comes to the point that makes you feel bad for not being a men and having "that thing" to make her that happy. (Not talking about what I think could happen but rather from something that already happened me).
Then I remember she's with me because she loves me and everything is OK again. But then, I can't say I enjoy the idea or anything like that. It's one of those things I prefer to ignore and focus on more important things than think about it.
Note: If it were about a girl x girl x girl fantasy, well, I think I could be more excited if my girlfriend talks about it. Not that I could do that without emotional attachment to both gals, but still interesting nodaways! (This also happened to me).
I'm not really jealously, in fact I'm pretty open minded (I even was on a trio one time! - not a good experience in the very end, but for other reasons -), but I don't feel very ok when a girlfriend talks about past sexual experiences or fantasies with mens (bisexuals), at least when it comes to the point that makes you feel bad for not being a men and having "that thing" to make her that happy. (Not talking about what I think could happen but rather from something that already happened me).
Then I remember she's with me because she loves me and everything is OK again. But then, I can't say I enjoy the idea or anything like that. It's one of those things I prefer to ignore and focus on more important things than think about it.
Note: If it were about a girl x girl x girl fantasy, well, I think I could be more excited if my girlfriend talks about it. Not that I could do that without emotional attachment to both gals, but still interesting nodaways! (This also happened to me).
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Misaki_Chi wrote...
xhimitsu wrote...
Spoiler:
Did that even make sense?
Yup
tl;dr you are an adorable heterosexual girl, who likes to hug and cuddle your gf's in a pg-13 way, who appreciates all forms of love (aka yuri, yaoi, etc), with no intent on having a 3-some regardless of how any future guys feel.
*hugs and cuddles*
*glomps* Misacchi you are always so nice!! ////
btw I never said I would never have a 3-some, but 3-some can be 2 guys and 1 girl too, which i'm sure most guys are against haha (reverse harem~~ ). What I meant was just that even if I go on girls I would never get in a relationship with them because I don't swing that way. (so girls be careful who you grope you never know if you send out the wrong signals to the victim! They might actually be homosexual and you might hurt their feelings if they think you are interested while you are just having fun)
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Haven't dated anyone who felt a woman before, but I suspect the outcomes would be:
1). Me trying to initiate a threesome (yuri turns me on pretty well).
2). Looking away embarrassed (I'm kind of bad at handling relationships in public).
1). Me trying to initiate a threesome (yuri turns me on pretty well).
2). Looking away embarrassed (I'm kind of bad at handling relationships in public).
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So many replies.
And from girls too! Kinda makes regret asking the question only from a guy's POV.
Yeah... I agree that you should know the sexual orientation beforehand. It works for me because I kinda hate (too much) physical contact. It bothers me. But I feel confortable enough with her. I can count the times we had physical contact tho...
And from girls too! Kinda makes regret asking the question only from a guy's POV.
Yeah... I agree that you should know the sexual orientation beforehand. It works for me because I kinda hate (too much) physical contact. It bothers me. But I feel confortable enough with her. I can count the times we had physical contact tho...
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
XSeraphinX wrote...
So many replies.And from girls too! Kinda makes regret asking the question only from a guy's POV.
Yeah... I agree that you should know the sexual orientation beforehand. It works for me because I kinda hate (too much) physical contact. It bothers me. But I feel confortable enough with her. I can count the times we had physical contact tho...
The way you asked the question is fine, no girl would feel upset for wanting a guys perspective since it is a good perspective to have. I know I just say "girls perspective" so when such a question is asked you get a little bonus along with guys responses (^^)
I've heard so many guys talk about this and majority are usually down for it. Basically the dick's brain is first to respond which is all for the idea, then the ground work would need to be laid for the actual initiation of said 3-some (which uses the bigger brain lol). It's cute to see how honest a man's junk is on such notions fuefuefue (>w<)
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
Light-handed comment for a bit, but slightly related.
I believe that any guy who immediately says they'd be up for a threesome between him, his girlfriend, and another girl, CLEARLY has not seen this episode of Friends.
I believe that any guy who immediately says they'd be up for a threesome between him, his girlfriend, and another girl, CLEARLY has not seen this episode of Friends.
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artcellrox wrote...
Light-handed comment for a bit, but slightly related.I believe that any guy who immediately says they'd be up for a threesome between him, his girlfriend, and another girl, CLEARLY has not seen this episode of Friends.
as i'm reading this read. I'm listening to sindalf and waar talk about how sindalf is going to get paul's eggs froze, ejaculate on them, create 8 children, let robots raise them and save humanity from extinction. Assuming paul turns into a girl.
kinda close to being on topic.
actually on topic, I'd be interested. polygamy in general is a fascinating concept to see and hear about.
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artcellrox wrote...
Light-handed comment for a bit, but slightly related.I believe that any guy who immediately says they'd be up for a threesome between him, his girlfriend, and another girl, CLEARLY has not seen this episode of Friends.
XD Funny but sad... The sandwich talk made me hungry. Now I want one.