Is he still interested?

He was never interested in a romantic relationship from the get go.

Sounds as if he is not that interested, but i would still say if you like him, you shouldn't give up that easily.

Sounds like he was only into getting the goods at the time and doesn't want to pursue anything more. I would just move on and find someone new.

You never want to be the one chasing after the man, rather it should either be an mutual feeling on both parties or he should be chasing after you. If you have a guy you're interested in you need to have them see your appeal whether it be in your features, your mind, your wit, etc. Basically you show a good light of yourself and then as you two get to know one another drop hints that you like this person (aka eye contact, smiling, hair twirling, lip biting, leaning in, touching him somewhere non sexually like the arm, etc).

If it is the right guy it won't be difficult to gauge the situation and act accordingly, but this situation sounds like the guy is over it so pursuing him won't work. You can try to back off and see if he comes back to you, but it's doubtful this will turn into a relationship if you guys were just having "fun" without titles, most of the times they'll just come back for a hook-up.

Why women should never chase after a man?
Why men should be the one who is chasing?

I have a certain view on dating guys that came from a combination of wise words of my mother, what I've seen growing up and my own personal experiences. My way may not work for all women and I get why guys would disagree, but it's just a view so disagree if you don't like it.

Basically when I talk to women about how to get men I tell them that it's easier to let a guy pursue rather then to be the one pursuing. That's not to say that you have to be a stuck up bitch and not do any of the work, you just don't want to seem like you have a dick and balls in the relationship.

I use to initiate a lot of my early relationships and the main issue that arised was in power. I realized the guys I got by taking a lot of command didn't really step up to the plate or rather I felt like we didn't have equal grounding on things. They sort of followed me around like a puppy dog and never had a voice. I never wanted to have that kind of power and eventually such relationships crumbled. Even had a guy bitch me out for never giving him a say, but I really wanted him to have a voice, but he always said, "whatever you want".

When I changed dating tactics I found that rather then starting relationships it was easier to show that I was interested in someone and see if that person responded to such feelings. In the end I would leave the decision to the guy on whether he would like to pursue. I have a say in things, but I want the guy to have a say and not shy away from standing his ground.

If a woman wishes to pursue a man I just suggest doing it in another form, but not everyone has to do it the way I do. It's just one form of dating. I just wanted a man who I felt equal to not superior to and not inferior. Ended up with such a man and my mother did the same with my father.

This is why I also tell men to not shy away from women and to have some courage to pursue as well, but for them a direct approach is never a bad thing. Technically my logic can be applied to men as well, I just gear my posts towards whatever person is posting.

Anyways, just my two cents, I'm a little more traditional in my thinking and not everyone will agree so the whole taking my words with a grain of salt is to be kept in mind.

Edit: yeah I used the words "should" and "should never", but meh just poor wording on my part really, people can do what they want to and if they want to debate this they should be open to do so. I really enjoy when people voice there opinions even if it's against the things I or others say since it's better to get a clearer perspective on everything being said. In the end it's about helping the OP with their issues, ya know?

Wait, wait, it isn't about "females shouldn't pursue" or anything like that. Each person is different, so how you should react depends always on how are you and how is the other person (and the moment), that has little to nothing to do with the gender (unless you live with a strong believe on sexism, then I'm sorry for you). As a thumb rule, it's always a good idea to pursue the chances you desire to some extent and be proactive about it when it's required. For example I'm shy, highly passive and so, but even such person as myself I have to be proactive sometimes and give it a push and pursue to make things work, and not, lesbian relationships aren't that different.

What's the line? Pursuing is OK and recommended, but don't make it an obsession and try to not make uncomfortable the other person while you're on it. In this case I would recommend some insistence (if you like him) until you can get a better picture if he's just feeling awkward and shy about it or he isn't that interested at all, it shouldn't take that much time to know for sure.

Yup your remark is more spot on and I definitely agree with this lol. Even I fuck up with my responses and say stuff that isn't totally on the mark (^w^)

It probably can't hurt to try one or two more times to invite this guy out to spend time with you in a romantic setting. But it sounds pretty obvious from what you've said so far that he isn't interested. I know it's very hard to let go, but it's probably better for you to move on from this guy. It doesn't sound like he's interested in the kind of relationship that you're interested in.

It doesn't sound like he was interested in the first place. Just wanted dat booty.

He might be interested in casual sex, but if you gave the impression you wanted more than that it might have scared him away / put him off having anything with you. Or maybe he found out during the sex that he didn't really want it or doesn't like you that way.
Either ask him to find out or just move on.

Sounds like he isn't interested in any more. Kinda a scumbag move in my opinion really. But feel free to try and get closer to him if you really want to. No risk no reward. Just don't expect it to be a fairytale where everything works out.

Also, whoever approaches should not depend on gender but on the actual people involved. There are trends yes, but unless you live in a world where gender roles are fully set in stone we should be fine with women approaching and other similar things. It is 2015 people.

he enjoyed the sex. trust me.
he would not hate to see you again unless you were incredibly kinky. Incredibly. i mean, bannana up the ass, ripping off your breasts kinky.