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problems in bed.
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I'm not sure if this is where this belongs but iI have a problem. It has recently come to my attention that I can no longer preform in bed and only find myself being arroused by 2D women, as you can imagine this is a problem. I was wondering if anybody had any advice for how to become attracted to real women again or is this something I should just let be?
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
More of a LLR section thread then a Serious Discussion so I'll ask for it to be moved there.
If you are currently not in a relationship or haven't had any physical intimacy with anyone for some time/at all, then this isn't an issue you should be worried about. Basically you are idealizing what you wish to see in a partner that reality has not yet brought you. This will only last for so long and eventually you'll find yourself wanting something tangible and realistic at some later point in time, you just need to find people that meet the minimal requirements.
If you are currently in a relationship while having this issue, you don't need to panic either. As I said, what you are fantasizing about is an ideal of what you desire in someone. Think about what makes that person special to you and think what is missing from what I have? I know with my boyfriend I have some things I fantasize about in relation to my fictional anime/videogame men, but if there is something I can't get out of my mind/could make my juices flow faster I talk to him about it. Communication with your partner and being open with them is the best thing you could do. Just don't tell them "why can't you be like this?". It's okay to talk about desires and fantasies, but it's another thing to criticize and critique.
So summary; you have something you desire and you have something you idolize, but that doesn't mean that you're lost to the 3D world. Just enjoy it and have fun with it and eventually you'll change it up. Just don't hide behind a 2D woman and try venturing out when you feel the need for change. If you are in a relationship though; enjoy the fantasy on the side and talk with your partner about things to see what it is you feel you're lacking.
If you are currently not in a relationship or haven't had any physical intimacy with anyone for some time/at all, then this isn't an issue you should be worried about. Basically you are idealizing what you wish to see in a partner that reality has not yet brought you. This will only last for so long and eventually you'll find yourself wanting something tangible and realistic at some later point in time, you just need to find people that meet the minimal requirements.
If you are currently in a relationship while having this issue, you don't need to panic either. As I said, what you are fantasizing about is an ideal of what you desire in someone. Think about what makes that person special to you and think what is missing from what I have? I know with my boyfriend I have some things I fantasize about in relation to my fictional anime/videogame men, but if there is something I can't get out of my mind/could make my juices flow faster I talk to him about it. Communication with your partner and being open with them is the best thing you could do. Just don't tell them "why can't you be like this?". It's okay to talk about desires and fantasies, but it's another thing to criticize and critique.
So summary; you have something you desire and you have something you idolize, but that doesn't mean that you're lost to the 3D world. Just enjoy it and have fun with it and eventually you'll change it up. Just don't hide behind a 2D woman and try venturing out when you feel the need for change. If you are in a relationship though; enjoy the fantasy on the side and talk with your partner about things to see what it is you feel you're lacking.
