Request for help from the Fakku Family (Kindda long)

I'm requesting a little help from fellow Fukku..ers? Fakku-ees? Even though this is a hentai community I still think this is probably a good place for advice since this isn't a typical hentai community. Anyways.

I believe I have fallen for a really close female friend. I've known her since 7th grade (I have been out of high school for 3 years now). Back then I had a tiny crush and over the years its only grown to the point I've become a living cliche' of the guy who pins over a girl.

I'm attracted to her in every way imaginable. Physically, Mentally (big sexy brain full of delicious smartness ,Etc.). From what I've seen she physically acts very different towards me than any other guy I have ever seen her interact with. Some of the examples are;

1). Whenever we meet she tackles me (I grab/hug her as she tackles me and I keep her up in the air. She kicks and laughs as she struggles then eventually wraps her legs around my waist).

2). She is comfortable enough around me to take a shower in the next room (door may or may not have been locked) while I waited and read manga in her room with panties and bras just laying out. She strikes me as a "reserved" girl which made me ponder if she's that comfortable with other guys or just me.

3).The next thing is whenever we are hanging out she braces or leans against me if we're sitting. I went to Karaoke with her to meet some of her friends. When the opportunity presented itself she sat in the booth on my side and leaned against me the entire time we were there (a couple that was there left which gave me access to their side of the booth).

4). After Karaoke she, her other male friend Chris (with a K) and myself were standing by her car talking about any inane thing. She encouraged me to sit on the trunk of her car. Once up there she laid completely back on me, resting her upper shoulder and neck on my lap while placing her head against my stomach.

5). She often lends an ear to the problems of her other friends then comes to me (and a couple select others) to confess her problems. This leads me to think that she really wants me opinion, advice and comfort.

6). We can talk about anything and everything for hours and she probably has the best understanding of me over anyone. We can even see eye to eye on things that seem almost impossible (i.e. I'm an Atheist and she's a Christian)

7). People that are close to both of us have encouraged me to try and go for it.

I just want her to know how I feel on my end and what the best way to tell someone that is close to you that you like them without being a cliche', obsessive "I'll bear my soul" Otaku

my opinion?

go for it :wink:

but don't rush it, plan it wisely :roll:

you're so lucky dude, thats just the kind of romance that i've always wanted
i hope the best for you and even though you're an atheist, godspeed my friend, you'll need it :wink:

I'm a cuddly Atheist. I'm not one of the types to say "Down with all religion..blah blah blah." For me its better described as "Do you think there is a god? No. What do you believe happens to you when you die? I decompose in the ground or scatter into the winds if I'm cremated."

It sounds like it will work out great, from your description of her actions, as long as you don't go overboard. Either that or she views you as a completely non-viable genderless person.(unlikely) So, go for it, and I wish you the best of luck.

Aha, more cries for help. I'm sure you could have made this decision by yourself, but there's no harm in asking. If you really are such good friends, and she's not interested in you in that way, then it'll only be a few times of awkward meetings and her being a bit reserved around you for a few weeks.

Nothing to be afraid of really, as I'm sure she'd say yes.

Buddy take the bullet and shoot it oh... i mean wiat for a good oppurtunity and just tell her straight and be as frank as you can make sure is honest then i am sure it will be fine...

What you have to do is just get past the fear of rejection. 9-10 times the girl will say yes. If you think she has feelings for you and you definite feelings for her go for it. If she says no that doesn't mean no forever. She may see that you really like her and then she'll make. She may be your friend but I doubt she sees you as a eunuch. If the things you wrote were true than you should just go for it.

BITE THE BULLET AND JUST DO IT!!! *^_^*

I always heard that professing your love is just creepy. I'm not 100% sure if she has any idea and if she's clueless then I feel like I'm going to broadside her then that'll just scare her that someone so close suddenly "fell in love".

For debating on this for over a month (to actually get the brass balls to tell her) I have next to nothing towards an idea of what I'm going to say.

Alright, biting the bullet......OW!

Chipped a tooth. Fuck that hurts!

Wait did you just really bite a bullet?!

You just said professing,and 100% in the same post. That means you have to profess your love if front of her while doing an epic pull-up.

No one said you had profess your great love. Just ask her on a date and gradually tell her you love her. If you do it all at once theirs a great chance of getting creeped out. On the other hand theirs the minute chance of her accepting you, talking you, and making sweet love right.

I suggest the asking her on a casual date and the slow/moderate leakage of love.

No, I didn't bite a bullet. That would be a terrible waste of a bullet (I'd probably damage it, well the casing). Since I did say both at once, I shall do an epic pull up. I assume one armed with my feet hooked in the spaces of two cinder blocks is close enough to epic?

I think I unknowingly leaked a little bit of information over time. More hugs, pestering her a little more often to hang out, expressing a little more often how I feel that we've gotten closer.

I keep picturing myself saying inane things like "I think I've fallen for you" or other lame one liners like that. Such is the curse of the social inept.

For a lame liner you should ask "Do yo know what time it is?" Then when -she says"no" you say it's -insert time here- and walk off.

With her sense of humor that would actually be funny for her. She loves non sequitur humor. That and internet memes

STOP POSTING AND ASK HER ALREADY!!!

We live a small distance apart i.e. She goes to a college about 20-30 mins away though I do see her whenever she's on school breaks. I have to make a trip down near that area anyways I've been trying to set it up so we can have an hour or so alone to hang out and give me time to work up the nerve. So I shall report on my success or failure when it happens.

I wish you best of luck

I have a friend like that. Problem is she lives about an hour away. I doubt meeting up would be a problem, but she's got two jobs that have ridiculous hours and working something out is difficult. We weren't really even as close as you and your friend are and one day I just came right out and told her how I felt. She was receptive, but it had been a while since we talked and unfortunately she had a boyfriend at the time so our hands were tied. We spent the past few years just talking and shit. Then like last month I told her its been years and I still have the same feelings for her and she said she felt the same way. We decided to take it slow and see what happens.

From personal experience, I can tell you that you should tell her. I'm not saying just come out with it randomly, you'll know when the right time is. It seems that you're kind of like me and I'll tell you, its not good to keep it inside and having it weighing on your chest. Don't think of it negatively, because regardless of how she reacts, love is a good thing. People worry about rejection and the feelings getting in the way of friendship, but in reality its something that can strengthen the bond you have with her.

I would say go for it, but be careful. It seems like you guys are really good friends don't push things to far to quickly but I would say more affection is being shown now then in most normal relationships. My last bit of advice is BEWARE of the "just friends zone".

dude, you need a rainy night; I know it sounds stupid but you need to do it when you're both running in from the rain and alone (harder to get a girl alone these days). As for words I can't really help you there but the setting can really help. Show some passion, i know it sounds cliche but girls eat that shit up. My best advice has to be; don't wait, do it now, the sooner the better; if you wait she might lose interest. I am a bit concerned because a lot of the things you mentioned sound like they could go either way; she could be trying to get you to ask or she could simply see you like a friend, or a brother. I hope you're on the right ladder (see ladder theory). I wish you luck my friend.

From your post, I believe you have already made up your mind to tell her your feelings. You just need that extra nudge and morale support from us. If you really have no idea how to profess your love for her, maybe keeping it simple, e.g. "I like you", would help, though it differs from one individual to another.

Like what my friend once taught me, if you ask, there will be 50% chance that you will succeed. If you don't, the chances are zero.

Good luck! You have the whole of Fakku behind you. :)