Request for help from the Fakku Family (Kindda long)

totally agree; i still think you should tell her either way; it will make things better for you because you wont need wonder if she likes you back anymore. She seems like she's a good enough friend that it wont ruin your friends ship if her answer is no in the end but that might be harder on you. I've had similar instances where I told someone I liked them and they didn't reciprocate the feelings so I peaced out rather than stick around and watch the girl date others. I still wish you luck man; i really am anxious for an update.

I dunno if everyone else somehow missed it or something but from his description she's acting as if she already likes him and is probably just waiting for him to say something or maybe she doesn't know if he likes her but it's more likely she does know. So I would suggest that sometime in between jokes or random conversation that doesn't seem like an awkward time that he just say something like "Want to go on a date?" No weird fancy words or anything and no implication of the massive loves. Though if he's already left to go asks or asks in any other way I'm betting it'll probably go well anyway.

Fiery_penguin_of_doom what the hell are you waiting for. It's not good to make a girl wait, y'know. It certainly looks like she likes you, so tell her you love her. Even if she'll reject you, I doubt she'll kill you right away. So good luck.

Its not her problems she comes to me with. She's the girl who bears everyones problems then brings it up to me in conversation about how its stressing her out. She has a friend who is to say the least... a little mentally unstable. Always telling me she's worried about her and things of that nature. Telling me about her stress like someone would to a significant other.


I've arranged for us to hang out for a little while tomorrow (22nd). My only fear at this point is that I'm stuck in the "Just friends" zone. Though I think thats just my pessimism trying to buy me a one way ticket to frown town.

Also thanks for all the encouragement. I really did need that final push to get my feet moving.

Rush to her side you Long haired hippi!

Well I hope you do fine. Your doing a good thing by releasing your feelings. With that I leave you my blessing from the Anime Godess.

*bows to one that is stronger than I could ever be*

"my pessimism trying to buy me a one way ticket to frown town. "

lol; my grandmother says that.

I prefer long haired hooligan but, hippi is fine.

And..
I picked it up from a friend a few years back before we fell out of contact. Always saying weird things that at the time make no sense. Like he plucked phrases and rebuttals from previous conversations and just stuck'em in.

I picked it up from a friend a few years back before we fell out of contact. Always saying weird things that at the time make no sense. Like he plucked phrases and rebuttals from previous conversations and just stuck'em in.

I was once in your shoes, This girl (I say that because we no longer keep in touch) I've known since, what do you know, 7th grade was really close to me. To the point where she would sleep with me/on me (Non-intercourse, just cuddling) which was a big deal to me cause I was a mere kid back then. Now I saw her do this with other people too, but I was one of only two guys and she'd never fallen asleep unless it was with me. The thing was, I was kid, and I devoted myself to friendship over love, not only her friendship, but the friendship of one of my best guy friends who happened to like her, only he was more obvious about it. Eventually I asked her top stop sleeping on my lap once because she was requesting it whilst I was talking to said friend. By the end of 8th grade we talked a shit load less than before, freshman year, we had almost all classes together, but were completely ignorant of each others existence. Then, Sophomore year I tried to strike up a conversation with her because I had truly realized how much I thought of her meant I still liked her and I heard she was becoming very promiscuous since freshman year. How crushed did I feel when I realized it was true and then proceeded having all these conversations about her and my sex life. It killed me inside to know that she was doing all these whoreish things, but I still conversed with her like the pathetic young bastard I was.

The thing is, I never took my chance and after 3 years it was too late, you're lucky to have been with your friend for 8. I still love her, but I know she has moved on and I will never see her again. I know everyone else has already said this but I wanted to reiterate to you the urgency of the matter. DON'T FUCK THIS UP!!

I mad a bad choice back in high school. I dated a girl named Dora and that relationship last 6yrs. The bad decision was to date her instead of Ginger. Though in retro-spec it was probably the best thing for me to make that bad decision (I was an ass...anything and everything would piss me off) and I know she would never have stayed with me back then. My ex and the girl I've always liked are friends and I'm sure my ex would slip false information to her just to fuck me over.

Though a benefit of knowing her so long is that she knows me pretty well in and out. Even knows I'm not all talk when I say things like "I'll stick up for my loved ones".

no pressure though!

but seriously; for to love of God; for the love of your junk, tell her as soon as possible.

Its going to be tommorow (the 22nd) and It'll go one way or the other. I'll either be shot down and be depressed for a couple weeks or she'll say yes and the heavens will open up and an angelic chorus will start. Then realize I'm an Atheist and just walk away.

lol, well i hope you enjoy your eternity in hell; LOL j/k

believer whatever you want to.

I think I speak for everyone when i say: good luck and we will be wanting a report when you're done; no matter the outcome.

GO FOR IT! That's EXACTLY what I did with my boy and finally I had to scream at him... WHY DON'T YOU JUST ASK ME OUT ALREADY!!!! Good luck to you and I think you shouldn't worry about what to say, just be truthful and look her in eyes, OH GOD, that's the shit.



Waar... you are on fucking point with that one! That would have me melting!

I've had some experience (and luck) with setting the right mood; obviously it's more important that she likes you first; but the mood can be a key you use to your advantage that most guys neglect. The club hook up is soooo cliche and really is never a good place to meet girls you want date (some exceptions apply).

Its just going to be at her place. She lives off campus to her college and its not that far from our hometown. So when she graduates she won't be that far from me anyways since she has a lot of times to this place.

so lucky.. just when i thought that those scenarios only exist in movies.. but thn i was wrong..:shock:
go for it.. chances only come once in a lifetime, so dont blow it ok.?

You do realize that if you still like this girl you should go for it anyway right? The most you have to lose is she says no. I know this sometimes seems like a big deal but it isn't. If a confession of "I've liked you for a long time and thought maybe we could date" is gonna ruin your friendship, it isn't a friendship you need anyway. About the ex sabotaging your relationship, I've noticed that more than half the time someone tries to sabotage a relationship it end up blowing up in their face. You could further offset the potential damage to a relationship that admitting you were kind of an ass back when you dated the other girl and that it helped you learn that you needed to change yourself. That right there is pretty much gonna make any girl at least respect you and negate any bad gossip any other parties sling your way as you've just said "those things used to be true but don't apply now". Anyway I say you should go for it, instead of letting a mistake deprive you of something you really want.

cmon update.

i'm taking this "no update" as a GOOD sign... get some fiery penquin of doom!!

way to jinx it rukia!