Sexual Fantasy Elements

This has kind of been on my mind lately and haven't been able to quite think of the right term to properly search for it.

I wanted to ask all of you about your sexual fantasies, or at least the elements within them. Obviously the results of them would be quite different if you have been sexually active in the past with another person or not, but here's where I'm going with this:

If you simply search online for sexual fantasies between men and women, you pretty much find out that typically men fantasize more about experimentation (threesomes, etc) and women fantasize about their partners more often. But that's not what I'm interested in finding out.

I've been in a relationship with someone for going on a little while, but he's in the military and it's been 7 months since I've seen him. Obviously I haven't had any action for a while and I spend a good bit of time fantasizing about what I'm not getting, and yes it is fantasies including him which would go with the stereotypical 'women fantasize about having sex with their partners' result.

But when I fantasize it's not like watching a porn on the screen with something playing in front of me. It's a lot more sensory. Like how it feels; whether it's touch, teeth against flesh, penetration, their breath. But also things like sounds, flesh hitting against each other, exasperated breathing, etc. It's a sensory overload where my body could even physically react to it in areas that I'm simply thinking about as if it's actually happening. For example, if I'm thinking about kissing a neck shoulder area and biting, I find myself actually getting goosebumps in that area and down my arms.

Men are typically more visual than women and like to see things, which is why men typically watch more porn than women do (not that there aren't plenty of porn loving women on this site or many other sites). But what elements do men usually think about? Is it like watching a porn in your head? Are you thinking beyond the image and how it feels? What do you normally focus on when thinking about it? Regardless of what it's about, I'm more curious in what elements are involved with it.

Randomly meeting the girl of my dreams, hoping beyond hope she notices me. Comes over and strikes up a conversation with me, the chemistry is there and she likes me for who I am. We have a great night out and she feels comfortable enough that she comes home with me, passionate night ensues. Then I wake up in the morning wondering if it was a dream, I roll over and she's still there, it was real, not a dream. Perfect relationship happens, live happily ever after. Sex is great, but its even better when passion and true love are some of the catylists. Does this help, ya? I guess I sound a little old fashioned.

I would say I'm more of a visual person. Ahegao is my favorite tag for hentai. I would say I guess I think of more of that it looks like and partly on how it feels.

I actually have an onahole and use it sometimes for variety, but it doesn't make too much a difference for me personally.

Oddly enough I rarely actually fantasize doing personally most of the things I fap to. The idea and visual of it usually is enough. Cause obviously if I fantasized myself fucking a real loli then I would have deeper problems than I already do.

I get turned on more if the girl is having this "come-to-bed" voice. I often daydream at class that my best friend would sit on my lap, whispering in my ear, saying all the nasty things she'd do to me and start caressing her everywhere and she would moan softly and lick my earlobe and she would beg for me to ravish her. Sometimes I don't watch the porn video itself, but rather listen to the audio to hear the girl moan and that's the time when I make my own fantasy.

I'm a man, I prefer visuals but I also need some emotion. I have physical preferences in women, cute face and small breast, that I look for but also some feeling of presence. What I desire is some acknowledgement that whatever I'm fantasizing about is relateable in some way. If that isn't there then I'm just fapping because sex is present. But with some connection to whatever I'm fapping it brings me a better experience both physically and psychologically.

In short: Good art + Good character & story = Better fap.

Example:https://www.fakku.net/manga/please-dont-call-me-nee-chan-english

almost never sensory beyond sight. Just find it unnecessary.

Haha, well I do... but I actually like to try and "project" myself into an anime world sometimes when I'm watching or looking at hentai and think of myself as a monster or something in the series. Maybe that makes it sound even more sadistic haha. Is it bad I always use fleshlights when I'm in the loli mood? lol. But that's what I always picture, anime girls, so I never feel guilty.

Anyone else try to imagine they're in an anime world like this?



I completely agree with this as well. A woman's voice, can go so so very far with me. I don't like a girl yelling or being too demanding, but someone who can really change gears and go into sexy mode is an extreme turn on. Love when a girl talks to me. Love when a girl moans. Just love when a girl is vocal in general. I too can sometimes just close my eyes and fap away if the girl in a hentai or porn has a nice voice.

I love thinking about the touch to stockings/leggings.

Not sure if these count or not for something.

Granted I am a female, probably not the input you are looking for, but when I fantasize I think of the steps and processes of how I would get the other person off. Usually I am thinking about one person, but I have thought of other women or a threesome. I am very uninterested in self pleasure, I get off by knowing that I have pleased my partner, I care little about if I get my bits done. So when I have my little fantasy I think of the different steps it would take to get to my ultimate fantasy (getting cream-pied). Would I take them by surprise, would he return my touch or if I do think of sensory factors I usually try to imagine how forceful they will be; is his grip firm, bruising even? Just little things like that.

No, I really appreciate your feedback. I actually agree too, there are a good amount of times I'm completely zoned out thinking about sensation play and what I'd like to do to my partner and imagine how he'd react.

Creampie is amazing, by the way. With my partner in the military I always end up back on birth control when I see him just so we can do that.

Men can be less imaginative then we are about things so they get a little boost with the help of pictures, action and auditory. They also are more about getting to the ejaculation (which feels better then all of the before stuff) where we enjoy being pleasured as long as possible so we get a great orgasm (we feel pleasure all along the way building up to the climax).Most guys will either picture their partner or the person on the screen/picture when they are getting off as well as what they do/say. This doesn't apply to all guys either and since I am not a man, I know I can probably be proved wrong. Just how a couple have described it to me in the past. No offense to men with this gibberish.



^^this pretty much sums up what I think about as a woman. I know I put myself in the woman's shoes and can imagine whatever guy I want to be with in the situation. Or I think to myself "she must be feeling like this" when I am doing my business.

I've always had this fantasy of hiding in a super puzzle fighter II arcade cabinet and putting my dick where the arcade stick would be, and a group of Japanese school girls come in and play the game.

Neat.

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For me;

I like visual, aural and also the feel.

So, the sight of certain things is good. If I can get it with the sound of a moan (I'm pretty picky there. Real sounding ones are best for me. Pornstar ones turn me off a bit) that's even better. And y'know, add to that the fap, and it's good.

I was thinking about it, and I also seem to fantasise about doing exes/ have memories about certain thing we did, that were fun/ awesome. but yeah, it seems that when fapping, you almost pretend you're the dick that's banging the chick on screen... somehow.

Weird, but it makes sense.

I'm like that. I project myself in these scenarios for example:

I think i have a boring imagination because when i imagine myself with a girl it's usually somebody that I have a crush on at that moment and I imagine her seducing me not dominating but she's trying to fuck me. Then when we have sex I pull a cliche hentai plot and become the best damn lover in the universe and then i usually put us into a relationship and then it usually ends there.