Shall I wait?

I yelled at you because it's been a year, and I know for a fact that a girl knows whether or not she will ever want to pursue a guy, well before a year's time. You need to let go, she's not worth your time. You deserve better than this, and I'm not going to watch my tone while someone waltzes down a path that will only lead to further emotional ruin.

She has a very valid point.
And she changed her avi Q.Q but it's her, so meh. it's fine.

But anyways, thanks for the scolding. ^^



And nice avi ^^

Good to see you feeling better.

Tayo-tayo lang din ang magtutulungan sa isa't-isa. :)

If she is no longer responding to you, then I do not recommend waiting for this girl for a year.

very good man do let go and go look for someone else but if she does start to talk to you again in the future and if you are single at the time then give it a try with her.

Sorry, but shes a penis, so it means she doesnt like you... sorry.... someone out there is better than her. Trust me, I know :).

Try to know her better then, talk to her more, spend quality time or if you feel like enough or she won't open up

just go for another, there's lot better than her.

You shouldn't be pinned down. l think you should explore your options and date other women. If she is "the one" she will come around, and there probably be a chance for you in the future.. but for now, i think you should just follow what your gutt tells you, or just take her out on a date. Just take a risk and follow your gutt

keep in mind that girls can usually make their mind up pretty quickly on whether a guy is relationship material or not.

So, I stumbled upon this thread again, thanks to someone I chatted with moments ago.

...

It's been a while, eh?
After thousands of posts, here I am replying to this thread.



To be fair, I will update some details, although I believe it's now unnecessary.
Just giving you guys a heads up.

She messaged me months ago. To cut you the chase, she messaged me because she was looking for work, then another one because she wanted me to treat her, knowing that I'm a sailor and is about to leave anytime soon. Then the last one was a short one - just because it's my birthday.

She is unemployed since she graduated from Business Administration. She's taking care of her dad after he suffered from stroke. They survive from the money given to them by her older sisters.

As what I see from her messages, they are but casual talks. Nothing special.

I do admit that I didn't know myself when I posted this, since I myself didn't have any close friends back then. So, I didn't know what do I really like.

I am still single by the time I post this, but at least the experiences I gained over the years gave me the idea of communication and it's importance (most of which came from Incoherent Babbling and its shenanigans, especially those whom I chat with through facebook. They are real friends.). I may not be that young as before to find more single ladies, but I'm still not that old to give up.

Time will come, Toru-kun. Time will come.
For now, I'll just move on while waiting; not for this girl, but to her who really gives a fuck of who I am.




Fair winds and following seas to everyone.

Sounds like you've gone through a lot over the years. This woman sounds like she is going through a lot, but I don't think what this girl did to you was right or respectful. You deserve better as you well know. Hope you do find a nice woman for yourself at some point and good luck on the high seas.

When you find the right person there is no such thing as waiting. You are together and working with one another making things work at the pace that feels right for both of you.

You're a sailor. Peg the barrel.

Something, Something, spoken like a true sailor. Hope it bodes well in the end.

Did you actually read the post Peltor made in this page, because he says he's pretty much moved on. Your advice is a little too late.