"Size doesn't matter, it's how you use it"

Some people agree, some people disagree. Some people say that as long as you have a good connection with the person, it doesn't matter.

I personally think it is how you use it, I've definitely had experiences where larger was definitely not better (no technique), and slightly above average was some of the best sex. It all depends on what kind of sex you like too I guess.

Whatchu think guys?

No experience here, but I keep being told that it's actually a bit of both, with skill mattering that much more than size, and girth always being more important than length. I think what matters most are the following:

• Are you so big or small you can't fit in her at all?

• Are you willing to please your partner as much as you're willing to please yourself?

• Do you know your way around the human body, and hence know how to use your dick to the fullest?

If you can answer yes to at least 2 of these, I think you're golden.

All good points.
I do agree though, it is a bit of both, I mean you've gotta know what you're doing, and sometimes if it is too small, well it's just too small, but if it's too big it's too big.

I've been with guys between 6'' - 10'', and honestly "bigger is always better" is just not correct. You can't just be like "Oh hey, my dicks big, so I'm automatically good in bed" no that doesn't work. You've gotta know how to use your tool!
Also knowing your way around someones body is important too!

There's a point where there is too big and too small.

As long as you fall within the range of size for her then it becomes about how you use it.

Fun Fact. The vagina canal can shrink to size of the penis... to a point with no difference in simulation or pleasure. Since women can have vaginal and/or clitoral orgasms the size really doesn't matter from 4in to 12in. Unless your too shallow/deep. Then that up to your own vagina. Remember the avg dick is 6inches and the depth of the avg woman is 8in... there literately two miles of unused pussy in LA right now.

It's a lie to say that size isn't a matter for women. Average to a little larger is the general consensus I get on male member preference.

In all honesty (this is such shallow bullsh*t) I think any obstacles can be overcomed and no matter what size you are or aren't. Takes the right mindset from both parties (we all base things off of first impressions so depending on your openness, size may NOT become an issue). As long as both sides communicate and are open to trying new things to make both partners feel good. If you establish a good solid relationship with someone (non-judgmental is good too), then hopefully you can find alternatives to achieving sexual pressure with thugs such as foreplay, toys, assisted mastrubation, oral, etc.

Science officer freaky

Whoever said size matters is overcompensating for being shit in bed. I've heard no positive stories from girls who'd slept with a hung guy, only that they were in pain during and afterwards.

If size really mattered nobody would but the well-endowed would breed, and all non-virgin women would have a destroyed cervix.

I think you should have less sex and stop your impure, abominable ways.
You'll like sex with the person you love.

Having a lot of sexual partners and comparing their dicks/length/fun factor won't make you happy down the line.

If sarcastic: Good one. Almost had me fooled.

If serious: Your opinion on how people go about their sex life isn't what the topic's asking. It's asking about whether you think size matters. Besides, what other people do is not up to you to decide.

I know the vagine is very loose when a woman is talking about size problems. Gross.

I heard it's all about how you use it!
Haha...but

My opinion I think it would maybe be more about what they person your having sex with shares with you in that experience, it could be them saying things that turn you on or just saying I love you. I don't know maybe size plays a role but as long as I am doing it with someone I care about and love I don't care.

See I haven't been with anyone under 6'' so, I can't say for sure how well or not well a man less than 6'' is in bed, but from what I have experienced, it's not about the size, it's about the relationship, connection, sexual connection, and foreplay... and if the man knows what he's doing or not.



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I agree with Gravity Cat.
This isn't about what you think someone should or shouldn't do sexually, I have my opinion on whether I think size matters or not, and I was just curious to see what other people thought.
To assume that people have too much sex just because they want to know other peoples opinions makes you look like an ass c: If I want to know peoples thoughts on "sluts" or "people who have a lot of sex" I'll keep you in mind.



I definitely agree. I personally have found that men that are bigger (8+ inches) to be more cocky about themselves and in the end not as good in bed, because they think just because they have bigger dicks that they're automatically good in bed and don't need to know what they're doing. (NOT SAYING THIS AS A GENERALIZATION, just something I've definitely noticed).

Thanks again for all of your opinions on the actual topic!

I've been with an inch or so smaller and I never had a problem with the size, just with the reciprocation of pleasure. It sucks when you do your best to make your partner feel as good as possible and then they just roll over and pretty much don't care wether or not you felt good (or they have so much of an ego that they feel they did amazing and made you cum like a boss... watch the fake orgasm scene from When Harry Met Sally folks). From experience if a man knows how to use is fingers and tongue then a bit on the smaller side doesn't matter as much. Toys can also help too!!

Exactly!

I actually was wake and not high during sex ed and read many books and papers during victimology/criminology classes. It takes a pervert to catch one... and in my case serial murders... ah uncle ed's interview.

It's always good, and a super plus sexually to know and understand sex and both male/female bodies. Being well educated about sex is a good way to know how to pleasure someone.

That reminds me that kegel exercises are a thing, and work like you said. Putting two and two together. However, our sex ed didn't tell us much. Was pretty shit

In the end, it should come down to how you use it, as long as you're around average. Like above 5.5''.

There also the male version. To keep your jizz from being release early or none at all. Piss and stop halfway everyday until you can actually do it for a while. I can hold it without pain for 3+ hours. I did this until the beetus ate the lap so now I never come until I force it... unrelated to the exercise in hand.