"Size doesn't matter, it's how you use it"

Shouldn't have read this as Bizarre Foods came on. But yeah, still a virgin so... I have so say.

I don't see why you'd be embarrassed writing that? There's nothing wrong with that range, and if it makes you feel that awkward, don't post it? lol.

If your thing is less than 5 inches then you're better off using your fingers/tongue

At that point of time you need Viagra, mon

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I just measured my dick and seems like I'm out of luck.

Only ones who says size does not matter are the ones with small dicks, They both matter, women want a guy with a big dick, who know how to use it well. not just 50/50

Any girl who wants a "big" dick just enjoys the pain of having their cervix bashed in. Average penises are fine, like I mentioned, as long as the guy has the intention and ability to please the girl anyway, with or without the help of his dick.

^ this!

Also 9.5" was probably one of my worst sexual experiences ever, painful, horrible in bed, no technique. 6.5" probably one of thee best sexual experiences ever, knew what he was doing, still felt great, wasn't in pain.

Mighty fine personal example of size doesn't matter, it's how you use it.

Plus, some girls like smaller dicks. Everyone has their own likes and dislikes. As long as you make her feel good, that's all that matters ;)

hmm.. maybe some girls have more loose hole and and require bigger size... just saying.. while some dont prefer big size...

Obviously the catcher's own physical limits factor in as well. I assumed that would be kind of a given. If your girl happens to have a hole like a pornstar's, obviously a huge rod is necessary for her to even feel anything.

I can't speak for all women and I won't deny that women say they want big dicks, but we don't want them so big that we feel like were splitting at the seams.

Honestly, women are more talk then action. When we talk we usually say we want a big dick and when our wish is granted we complain about it (and no not because the guy didn't use it right, but because it was just too big for comfort). Even I'm uncomfortable with a larger size since it usually takes a lot of warming up to accommodate and the results are the same if not better with a smaller size.



The beginning me laugh thanks for making my morning! I agree with the last part, intention and ability on the guy's part (the girl's as well) should be more than enough to create a happy sex life. Not everyone is created equal so compensation and alternative methods should be used when necessary.



My largest was around 8" (what I guess anyways, I never measured lol) and it was pretty much the same experience as your worst. My current bf is 6" and best I've had as well. I've had even smaller (I haven't been with many men, just lucky in getting a nice variety of sizes and shapes) and I didn't have any complaints in the physical department since the sex was still great. To be honest I'm a fan of a man who knows how to work their fingers ;)

I think a big problem is that men with a smaller member (or that think they have one) usually lack confidence or are insecure. Personality can make a man and the right women can bring out the best in them! Usually, men with a big dick (or at least 90% of the one's I've met) can be arrogant and players, a big turnoff to most women.



All women are different in shape, color, size, elasticity, odor, sensitivity, etc. Even though this topic was created to discuss the size and technique of a man's penis, the same can be applied to women. Most men don't care about the size of a woman's hole, but I've heard many comments about the usage and capabilities of a woman in bed.

In the end, it's a matter of preference. Some women want a big dick, others want an average range of 5"-8" (erect), other's don't really give a crap. I feel that I can't use this word enough, confidence is key!

I would say that if you're inexperienced, having a bit of size on your pecker can help but if you know how to use it, even a small one will work just fine. Some women can't take larger dicks anyway so at that point a smaller one is actually preferable.

I assume larger dicks helps with rough sex since it's generally stiffer, longer and can reach more, obviously reaching too far will only hurt tho, or so I've heard.

I feel like this is a topic where you could ask a million different people and get a million different answers lol So here's my two pence cents:


Size is a big turn on for me. Seeing bigger penises and even just hearing about people's interactions with and opinions on them is enough to get me going im a freak whatever

I might also add that having a large penis is something of a double-edged sword. It can be a turn on for a lot of people you have sexual contact with, but at the same time it flat out means sex requires more patience and care to get into it. That said, 9 times out of 10, and so long as you're careful, girls and guys alike definitely seem to enjoy it.

I definitely wouldn't say 9/10 like a bigger penis if it's used carefully. It's definitely a 50/50 thing with size preferences.

I think it's really down to individual preference....

I've only had sex with two people, who differed a lot in size (first was somewhere around 5", current is I think maybe 7"?), but they also were different in their actions/behavior. The first guy I had sex with could never get me to orgasm, and really never tried. My current boyfriend is much more in tune with my body, and I think a lot more confident in himself as well (first guy was very premature).

Now, I'm a small girl, and I will admit 7" can be a bit much for me to handle sometimes (depending on position, time of month, etc.), but my bf's very considerate and if things start to get uncomfortable, he'll stop.

Well I can only really speak from experience, but out of a number of sexual partners only maybe 2 have ever had any problems resulting from me being on the larger side. But then individual experience is limited, so it's entirely possiblr my perception of "average" preference could be skewed. (Any volunteers for a larger sample size? It's for science!)
It's not like I'm saying 9/10 prefer a 12 incher or anything though xD
At the end of the day, different strokes for different folks (:

From everything I've seen, heard and experienced, this seems to be the consensus (generally speaking, for most people):

-When it comes to size, thickness is more important than length
-In regards to importance in bed, the three main aspects are, in descending order, skill and technique (how you use it), stamina (how long you last) and size
-Foreplay/oral/hand skills are actually more important, considering that around 60-80% of all female orgasms occur due to oral/hand-play rather than actual penetration
-Despite what the porn industry would have you believe, an average penis, or even a somewhat below-average penis, will work just fine for the majority of women
-Also, for your sexual knowledge: The average adult penis is anywhere from 5-6 inches in length and 4-5 inches in circumference, depending on your source. This is the information I have gleaned from literally dozens of different independent studies; the exact numbers vary, some lower, some higher, but all fall somewhere within this range.

Hope this helps.

I think all of the point have been said... I guess the fact that most guys arrogant of having bigger size and people that has smaller size having less confident and putting more effort is from porn... you see guys having insane size and the girls morn like crazy, the truth is.. your not suppose to have that kind of size, for an average person at least... and its porn everything is acting, so I guess most of the wrong impression come from there, at least that's what I think...

I have a pretty decent size penis, at least I think so (7.5 in)
But technique is really key, women have different positions that hit just the right spot for them. For guys it doesnt matter most of the time, if its in a vagina we are more than happy.

Its a team effort. If a dudes not so lucky but you really like him, yall will find a way. And don't forget foreplay is the most important part of sex!

I do have some friends (females) that do say that size doesn't matter, it's the connection the two have with each other.

But of course I ask one of my co-workers and he tells me all women want a long dick.

So I believe it is safe to assume that size does not matter then.



I actually would like to ask a question(s) if it is alright with OP and/or everyone else.

Might be off topic, if so I do apologize.

As I've said before, there is such a thing as too small and a thing as too big. But it's a pretty wide range for most part and as long as you're with the range you're good. (As long as you don't have a stubby pencil dick or a ridiculously huge schlong basically.) Anywhere from about 4-7.5 is around acceptable to most women as long as you're of acceptable girth. Most men fall around the average point and thus have nothing to worry about in the size department.

And there are even things like the curve of the penis that can make up for smaller sizes and blah blah blah.

So yes, size does matter but it's more about being average size than 'bigger is better'.

As long as you fall within that range, then it mostly just come down to technique.

And despite the hype that people cry about virgins, the honest truth. People prefer experience. Not just girls or just guys, everyone. Because sex comes down to feeling good. If you aren't experience, no technique, then you are not likely to be good. Or at least that is the main idea behind it.

But the crazy thing. Even the so called 'techniques' come down to basic understanding for the most part coupled with communication. And not necessarily talking but just listening to verbal and facial cues as you go along.

A lot of early sex with a partner starts with feeling each other out. As long as you keep communication and learn what they like you'll improve with each time until they can't handle it. Start slow, feel them out. If they show they like something then stick with it. Do different variation of the same move. Maybe they like this certain spot better than the other with the technique. Maybe they like this angle a little better and so on.

And that my friend, is what people calling good technique honestly. Stamina is good in the respect that you need it to discover your partner more.