"Size doesn't matter, it's how you use it"

I'm gonna throw in my own viewpoint here, because I figure it's better to educate others than let others suffer. (Unless they're unrepentant, arrogant, utter assholes -- then fuck 'em.)

For reference, I'm male, 21, and a virgin -- And heavily educated on this subject in preparation for whenever I actually put any effort into dating.


Anyways:

Yes, size does matter, but, as others have said above, it's a pretty wide range, and, statistically, most men fall into that range. Much like many other forms of statistics, it's a bell curve.
(Additionally, girth is more important than length -- the G-spot is on the outer wall of the vaginal canal, not the cervix. And if you didn't already know that, you need to go re-read an anatomy book.)

Technique and skill, however, matter far, far more than size. Even if you have the ULTIMATE BONER (/emphaticsarcasm) for whomever you're screwing, if all you do is -- pardon the pun -- dick around, then it won't feel that good for them. Or at least not as good as it could feel, if you knew what you were doing.

And yes, knowing the erogenous zones and having skill with your hands (and tongue, if possible), makes it far more likely that you'll both be satisfied.


And guys -- if you think you're undersized, for whatever reason, just recall this simple fact: out of all the primates, Homo Sapiens is the most hung. A gorilla's dick is at most a few inches long.



To that end, I'm including a (translated) copy of the Kamasutra, because, really, if a sex manual has survived for over 2000 years, it's a pretty safe bet the author(s) knew what they were talking about.


Kamasutra


Go wild.

I find the Kamasutra to be a bit overated personally. It's fun for the shits and giggles of it all, but the basic positions (side-lying/spooning, doggy-style, cowgirl (or reverse), 69, and good ole traditional) can get the job done good and well.

Also going to place a warning on this since some of the more extreme positions can be dangerous if you aren't careful (big bed, best if its lower to the ground then high up, limber body, back problems, rushing, etc).

Actually, this one is likely a lot more accurate than most others out there -- aside from all the standard positions, it also has sections on massage and non-sexual 'foreplay' (such as bathing each other).

As for the 'extreme' positions -- there aren't that many, but yeah, be careful. The ones that are a bit more adventurous are labeled (and explained) as such.


Above all -- know your limits, and SLOWLY expand them. Don't try to push your body past its breaking point, because you WILL regret it.

Another thing about the Kama Sutra is that it comes from India, and Indians have some of the smallest penises in the world (avg. 4-5 in.). And 2000 years ago 4 was probably big. So some of the positions in the Kama Sutra are designed for deep penetration but with today's guys sporting much bigger junk, those positions could be potentially painful.

the feedback I've always gotten is... "We're down with the thickness..." ;)

I'm sorry, but I could not help but laugh at this... XD

6/10 *slow clap*

I would say thickness is quite important, but length not so much.
Fingers are what matters (imo) , coz if a guy can't pleasure you without his dick then it's not worth it

A lot of girls say that girth matters way more than length, but none of them ever mention what's considered good girth. If you could give a specific measurement for this, what would it be?

I think some of us have mentioned it in this tread already.

Erect anywhere from 5" to 8" inches is the norm that women say they would like. I know I'm content with a guy being around 6" myself. If a guy is smaller, doesn't mean the guy will not find a girl. They just have to find the right one who is open to working with them on the bed room activities.

I think 6" girth is like an inch above average, right? Also, there are seriously girls who like 8" inch girth? I'm not even sure penises get that thick... Interesting.

Crap that was for length!! I didn't even register that you said girth lol xD

4-6 girth wise is good, some people can be a a bit wider, though.

What is girth measured in cause I think inches would just to long and 3 inch girth would just seem to big cause 3 inches is basically my fist and never see a guy that big lol.

Girth is usually measured as the circumference of a penis, not the diameter. It's exactly like how one would measure his or her waist.

To be honest, I think women don't give specific measurements for this because it's hard to determine a guy's girth just by looking at it.

Well, 3 inches girth might also mean a circumference of 3 inches, which would make the diameter about... just under an inch. That's probably not as intimidating anymore, huh?

[size=12][color=#9D0A0A]I guess anything's fine as long as my partner can hit my g-spot![/color][/h]

Well I never looked at a guys stuff and like guessed his size or girth lol. Now I think about it 2-3 fingers wide is a good girth to me I suppose.

[size=12][color=#9D0A0A]But still, having fatter dick is still better than having a long dick for me..[/color][/h]

I still made that girl cum, and I am like a 5, and it was my first time. I donno if it was luck, we weren't romantically involved...
I mean making a man cum is none to hard...heh

Some girls are more sensitive than others. I hooked up with this girl a few times who was super sensitive and she literally could cum from having her breasts and nipples played with, no joke. She told me that when she masturbated, she usually made herself cum three times before she stopped.