"Size doesn't matter, it's how you use it"

Yeah that makes sense, her sister was that way too... (I never had sex with her but we fooled around).

Boy, do I wish size truly didn't matter...not that I have ever done it before, but size DOES matter to an extent. If its smaller than any of the others that a woman has had, then the woman is bound to be biased from the moment she sees it. People are shallow and will always make comparisons to past experiences...even if you can make a girl feel good with a smaller tool, they will always wonder if a bigger one will feel better, especially if she has taken bigger ones in the past.

That's just human nature, to always want more or at least to wonder about having more. I honestly don't want to try finding out firsthand if a bigger guy with the same amount of skill can pleasure a woman more than I can. Maybe my opinion is warped out of fear, but you truly can't change human nature.

Bolded part is all I have to say. I've been with bigger men in comparison to my boyfriend, but I don't find him inadequate because of this. Girls that are all about the D are like men who are all about the boobs or face; shallow. It's not bad to want a good looking person or to want a nice sized member, but life isn't an all or nothing sort of thing. Not everyone care's about dick sizes and you can make a relationship work. Fingers, tongue's and toys can work wonders for your partner. Besides, I love my man for who he is not because his dick; I would still love him and be with him regardless of his member.

Also it's a turn off for a guy to be pessimistic about his dick size. I've had guys that would obsess over their dicks and what I/women thought. We talk about it like we talk about our hair and nails or the "cute guy in that one movie", but it's just catty gossip. We don't really give two shits about dicks and will love a man who can love us.... women who are all about dicks need to reevaluate their priorities.

I realized that what I said probably sounds sexist towards women, so I'm going to correct myself. I'm sure there are women out there who truly don't care solely about size, but to be fair there are also men who make physical traits in women a priority. I don't know how many people out there care about penis/breast size, but I still think it's a terrible thing to care about when there are much more important things to worry about.

I don't want to offend any ladies here from what I posted before, so I just want to emphasize that I DON'T think that only women can be shallow about the size of certain body parts. Men can be too, which saddens me quite a lot

@Misaki_chi: I just wish that all people shared the same opinion as you, but we all know that that's not possible. If I do decide to try dating, then I really hope that there are more people who believe size is unimportant compared to how many people believe the opposite.

Maybe in high school and college. I don't know how old you are, erogamer, but people mature. I think only the most superficial of guys would make tits their #1 priority. Of course looks are still important to a certain degree; I want to be attracted to my partner (only attracted to personality is BS), but they don't need perfect breasts and a perfect butt.

yeah sorry, I think average is like 4.5-6 or something. It also depends on the girl ofc :P
iunno, I've never not been able to make a girl cum. But I know my friends have told me they've slept with guys who didn't make them cum hahaha

I'm 20, so I don't really know how people older than me see things in regard to choice in partners. I went to an all-male high school and all I ever heard other guys talk about was how hot a girl was, how curvy a girl was, and if a girl put out or not. I thought it was all a bit too superficial whenever I would hear my classmates talk about that stuff because they never even mentioned other traits aside from appearance, like personality for example.

I agree that personality and physical traits by themselves aren't necessarily what people solely look for in a partner. I'm just pointing out that there are indeed people out there that value appearance and endowment more than other factors and that those people are not limited to a single gender. I wanted to expand on what I posted before so that other members here on the forums don't think that I'm being sexist for only pointing out that some women can be shallow, when in fact I acknowledge that some men are shallow as well.

However, would you say you felt more sensation and pleasure when the bigger guys penetrated you?

Size matters, but it's not because size matters that it has to be big. Size can matter in a case where the woman prefers smaller penises. Usually just above average does it with most women, even then you have to be careful not to hit the cervix depending on who you're having sex with since the depth can be different.

So both length and girth matter. What pisses me off though is the pretentious women bragging about being able to take 8-12 inches and that anything under that is too small; usually those are the ones who barely have any experience or those who have too much. In some cases, women can lie about the size they can take just as much as some men will lie about the size of their penis. I believe I'm 19-20cm long and 14 circumference and that usually does the job.

How you use it matters just as much, though. No matter how big or small your dick is if you're just going to put it in there and freeze, you won't be doing shit. There isn't a size fits all, some prefer it bigger and some smaller. If she prefers it bigger then someone with a bigger penis will have less of hard time reaching the good spots though. From what I've heard, 5 to 7 inches seems to be a good spot, over 7 you might get complaints that it's too big and under 5 you're simply going to have a hard time.

PS: For those comparing this to men's view on women's breasts, personally I like smaller breasts and you would be surprised at the amount of men that share that preference. It's not like we give two shits about the size of breasts when having sex and I'd rather not have two giant funbags flopping around my face.

Not really.

You felt more girth or so to speak, but if you aren't turned on by your partner and you aren't stimulated by them during or prior then it's more annoying then anything. A woman can become tight to most penis girths and lengths with the ell of arousal. Such as if a girl gets turned on by having her neck/ear bitten playfully or her nipples teased.

I really like my mans size more then the one ding dong I had before hands down. Mainly to do with the fact he loves to pleasure me and treats me like a queen lol.

Well damn... I always thought Fate/God/genetics or what have you gave my a larger penis to make up for being utterly mediocre in every other way, So after measuring for the first time I'm a bit disappointed.

That aside even though my (very) limited sexual experience I have learned one very important thing, A man's size is only one factor of the equation and if you are willing to use every tool at your disposal to pleasure your partner it won't be an issue.

Sorry for reviving this thread again, but what do women think of dick shape? Like is it better if it's straight or has a curve? Or does this not matter at all?

If I can get off with just my thumb then I'm sure size of the thing doesn't matter. It helps, but it is more indeed how you use it in my case

This won't make or break a woman's sexual experience, but studies have shown that a slightly upwards curved dick (so if you look at your dick from a profile and you see it pointing slightly towards the sky when erect), that this is one of the best shapes for a woman. Reason for this is the G-spot which is located a couple of inches inside of the vagina (slightly below the bladder and internally a little below the cervix/uterus; google it if you want to find out more). A curved dick ca hit this area with more ease then other types of dicks.

If you don't have a curved dick this doesn't mean that you'll fail your partner in any sexual activities. There are all kinds of dicks out there so you may just have to try positioning yourself to hit a woman's sensitive areas. A woman has areas that feel better to hit/rub then the G spot alone including the vaginal opening of the labia minora, the back of the vaginal wall internally, the cervix itself, etc. Some of these positions include doggy style and the side lying or "spooning" position.

The only type of dick that is harder to deal with is a flaccid one where it doesn't stay completely hard. I'm not just talking about when a man goes soft after talking about grandma naked, this is an actual condition where the penis is as erect as it can be, but still has a moderate amount of "softness" to it. More commonly some men (usually when you are much older) that suffer from not being able to keep erect no matter the arosual. Some people have a condition (erectile dysfunction) and should see a medical professional to correct this problem if it starts to effect ejaculation and intimacy with their partners.

It's actually so crazy to see that my thread is still going! What a great thing to come back to :3
I just want to point out that the male average size is different depending on where you are in the world.
This is probably not exact, but gives you an idea. http://www.buzzfeed.com/patricksmith/a-very-important-guide-to-penis-sizes-around-the-world#2hn7stv



Women have their own preferences for dick shapes the way they do with size.
I personally don't mind a little curve, as long as it's not like a banana. My boyfriends penis actually slightly curves up and ever so slightly to the left, but I don't mind, it still feels amazing and actually gets into some pretty sensitive areas haha.

Some girls find non straight dicks unappealing, but I find as long as your penis isn't like a boomerang you should be fine. Though some women like curved dicks, because as Misaki_Chi pointed out a slightly curved upward dick with hit the best spots, I know my boyfriend does :P. Again preference.

I've never dealt with a penis going flaccid during sex, so glad ;__;

My size might not be all that but it seems I've been blessed with the almighty upward curve >:3

My girlfriend, who's had way more sexual experience than me, claims that she doesn't really care about size. When I say she's had way more experience I mean I've had none and she's been in bed with a bunch of guys, so I guess she has some knowledge on the matter.

I'd like to say that if you're of smaller size but you've got that upward curve, you've been just as blessed as someone with no curve and a larger size haha.

Good to know :D

Is it weird if mine points upward at a 45 degree angle when fully erect? Sometimes it feels uncomfortable if I try to push it downwards so that it sticks straight out. Also, when talking about curved ones, do you mean that the shaft is curved or if it points at an angle?