Some kind of curiosity.

Hi all! I have girlfriend and I live with her since 5 months. I love her over all the things and I want to stay with her forever, have kids and all that stuff.

BUT...

I like sex veeeery much. In the past I did threesomes with a ex-girlfriend and others girls. The thing is I would like to do threesomes with guys, girls... Everything (I'm heterosexual). So I want to do a kind of things but I don't want to cheat my girl and hurt her.

What do you think I should do? I need advice! Thanks!

I'm really bad at giving advices and I'm not sure I should but I will anyway haha. I think, before to ask her if she into that, you should try to deduce and/or talk about it, not about the fact you want to but about threesome in general. Then, if she seems to be turn off by this idea, try to speak with her, say that you really wanna try once with her because it's HER, nobody else, and reassure her, say that she is beautiful and told her you want to be with her forever (since it's true).
Also, tell her it's a try and if she doesn't like it after having a threesome then you won't insist.
As a girl I think it's how I would like my boyfriend to act but again I don't know her she is maybe more confident and "kinky" than me.
Ps: Really sorry for my english, I'm learning by myself.

Thanks for your advice! The thing is I know that she doesn't like the threesome / groupal sex stuff. BUT I want to try with girls, guys everyone mixed... Etc. I have very good quality sex various times in a week, but I need more. This issue is in my head often these days. Also I like the idea of look porn with friends or read hentai by Skype with someone random.

I don't know if I should do it without tell her. It's only for fun.

I'm Spanish so sorry for my bad English! I understood you very good.

Thanks!

It never hints to drop the idea to see her interest...

BUT
If you love this girl then you will understand that threesomes are a thing of the past. Finding someone you truly love isn't easy and if you found her then you just need to be responsible. The fact that you even mention cheating on her makes me worried about your alleged dedication to her. Learn to keep it in your pants if you love her or learn how to move on.

You can try to suggest a threesome with your girlfriend, but honestly if you know she is against it, I think you need to re-evaluate your relationship and what it means to you. If there is something lacking within the physical side of your relationship that can be fixed by other methods (toys, more foreplay, etc) then I would talk these things out with your partner. I know I have a high sex drive and could go through a mountain of men, but I love my boyfriend devotedly so we work on that together.

If you find that you are needing the comfort of other partners then you need to think to yourself what is this relationship lacking, because if your partner isn't into adding more people to the mix you must respect there wishes.

Basically you need to decide for yourself what is important to you. Once you figure that out, talk with your partner about your thoughts and see where things go from there. If you cannot compromise (a good relationship is about compromise and some sacrifices) then you'll have to re-evaluate what this relationship means to you and what do you want to do from there?

Don't take the easy way out by sexting with other's, role playing, or video chatting. I know to some this doesn't seem like cheating since there is no physical contact, but if you are masturbating and personally connecting with another person and you don't tell your partner since you know they may be pissed, then yes it is a form of cheating. Also shows that you are lacking something from your current relationship. I know I don't care if my guy jacks off to porn, but if he can personally communicate with another person while he's having sex and they can see/hear what he's saying/doing I would have issues with it.

tl;dr - think about things before you talk and give it some good deep thought, then talk with your partner about what you came up with and your thoughts while respecting hers, then come to an conclusion after talking about things. Lastly be respectful of her wishes and thoughts.

Edit: okay I'm also going to give this advice after reading that one dick pic post you made. You may care for this girl, but obviously not enough if you're willing to flash your junk to random people. I'd say give her more respect and if you can't keep your dick in your pants/only to her, then end the relationship. Your partner deserves more respect then this.

Espera, lo repetiré en español por las dudas.

Cielos, no debería ser el centro de tu vida el complacer a tu salchicha, calma con eso. Si estás en una relación seria, entonces deberías aprender a ser feliz con lo que tu novia puede darte y dejarlo en eso (que entre nos, tener sexo varias veces a la semana ya es una vida sexual bastante intensa). Ahora, si hablan los dos más abiertamente acerca de sus fetiches y eso, tal vez podrían mejorar más la calidad del sexo (pero nunca fuerces ni presiones por ningún fetiche), pero no esperes que sea algo mágico, como que a ella también le gustaría probar un trío o qué se yo ya que lo más probable es que no sea el caso.

Aprende a lidiar con ello, y en el caso que no puedas, déjala, dado que si ese fuese el caso, eres incapaz en este momento de darle a ella todo lo que merece.

Thanks girls!

Gracias chicas!

Your comments really get me thinking. I think that sex/threesomes it's not more important than my girl. So I'll try to keep o in my pants because I really love her.

And... Sorry for the dick post. I was very hot in that moment and I don't go by forums posting my dick to everyone.