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The secret to attracting women (the real deal)
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Before reading this, i will note that this is not a personal opinion of what works and what others should do. This is more of an awareness notery ment to show some subtle differences between humans who have alot of "mating options" and those who don't. mostly 80% of this information are external sources & the rest of the 20 percent are my experinces.
The thing that really interested me.
Is how a man who is naturally successful with women sees the world around them differently.
When a natural alpha sits infront of a tv, they are aware of the relationship between them and the tv. They will notice the actors, the makeup, how the dialogue sometimes seems give incorrect pro-action & reaction between the actors.
And when people who are engrained in the forced reallity watches the tv. they get stuck in the relationship between them & the tv.
If that didn't open a window. This will.
If i am in a social group and everyone thinks im cool(high status). that can help.
Though if i am in a social group and noone sees me as cool and i have no influence whatso ever in that social group.
I will still be cool just because i am aware of the relationship around me in that social group. and i can choose not to get involved with a relationship where i hold no influence.
I just avoided getting my life experince deteriorated.(I don't say anything, i don't complain, i just don't get involved with their energy when i see it for what it is).
So the secret to attracting women and keeping a good life experince.
Is to be aware of the relationships & interactions that happens around you.
To take authority over the external influences coming into your life.
The thing that really interested me.
Is how a man who is naturally successful with women sees the world around them differently.
When a natural alpha sits infront of a tv, they are aware of the relationship between them and the tv. They will notice the actors, the makeup, how the dialogue sometimes seems give incorrect pro-action & reaction between the actors.
And when people who are engrained in the forced reallity watches the tv. they get stuck in the relationship between them & the tv.
If that didn't open a window. This will.
If i am in a social group and everyone thinks im cool(high status). that can help.
Though if i am in a social group and noone sees me as cool and i have no influence whatso ever in that social group.
I will still be cool just because i am aware of the relationship around me in that social group. and i can choose not to get involved with a relationship where i hold no influence.
I just avoided getting my life experince deteriorated.(I don't say anything, i don't complain, i just don't get involved with their energy when i see it for what it is).
So the secret to attracting women and keeping a good life experince.
Is to be aware of the relationships & interactions that happens around you.
To take authority over the external influences coming into your life.
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This doesn't make any sense, the grammar is bad, and everything you said is pretty hypothetical, it might work i guess, but to say it will work or that it is "the real deal", bullshit!
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
Coconutt wrote...
This doesn't make any sense, the grammar is bad, and everything you said is pretty hypothetical, it might work i guess, but to say it will work or that it is "the real deal", bullshit!Basically he's saying to keep open ears and eyes within your surroundings. It's good general life advice, but I don't know about it being the key to attracting women.
An example that comes to mind is when you are dating someone and your friends bash your girlfriend for whatever reason. You shouldn't be closed minded and dump her because of your friends. You should look at things from every angle, give it some thought, talk to some people if you feel it will give you a better perspective about the situation, then come to your own conclusion.
I know I am not the best at doing such things since my mouth opens before I have a chance to think lol. I can also suck at social interactions and reading the situation, but even so I am who I am and I found a good guy just by doing that alone.
To attract women you basically just need to be yourself, be the best you yourself can be, and don't loose hope.
A lot of women just want a guy who can be happy, is nice (opens doors, isn't afraid to show they care, can be thoughtful, put the toilet seat down, etc), takes care of himself, and has ambition (this doesn't have to be big mind you, just wanting to make a living is good enough). We also want to see guys who can be themselves, because when you try to fake who you are for someone then it probably won't turn out that great. Lastly you just have to have a little faith that you will eventually meet someone who you can care for and vise versa. This doesn't come along in a day, a month, or can even take years, but you have to keep trying to get anywhere. When you give up, that's when your chances of getting with someone drops significantly. Nothing is 100% set in stone.
To add to the OP's advice, please be careful with how you use this social tactic. If you make it obvious that you are surveying your surroundings and are open about how aware you are of the things going on you just look cocky.
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I always thought the secret to attracting women was um... being myself? As in honesty/no shady secrets.
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I think enough self confidence and equal treatment is the best way to go about it. The most important thing about a relationship to me is finding a girl that's not just willing to be your girlfriend, but your best friend as well. It keeps the feelings alive and active with each other.
So self confidence and don't try to impress anybody, just work your way into conversations, just don't get overshadowed. Throw hints that you're interested in starting relationships and see if anyone catches the bait. That's about it for now. May revisit this post later when I've got something in my belly.
So self confidence and don't try to impress anybody, just work your way into conversations, just don't get overshadowed. Throw hints that you're interested in starting relationships and see if anyone catches the bait. That's about it for now. May revisit this post later when I've got something in my belly.
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from my past experience with women and learning from my friends' experiences as well, I can tell you as a married man over 30 years old: There is no secret to attract women. there are no rules or tips that would guarantee you that at least one girl will be interested in you. In reality it is pretty much a hit and miss situation and is more of a really bumpy road with some guys that have better luck than others getting girls easily but they can lose them as easily as they get them.
I was a matchmaker and love consultant to many guys in school and college. I was never a ladies man as I had very bad experiences with girls so it was ironic that my advice was helping many but not me. It took me years until I found the one and I am happily married man. I can tell you from life and what I have seen and heard that there is no magic.
However if you have an interest in a girl (one girl), then there are strategies that may give you a chance. Be yourself but willing to change is the best advice I can give and it's still a shot in the dark
I was a matchmaker and love consultant to many guys in school and college. I was never a ladies man as I had very bad experiences with girls so it was ironic that my advice was helping many but not me. It took me years until I found the one and I am happily married man. I can tell you from life and what I have seen and heard that there is no magic.
However if you have an interest in a girl (one girl), then there are strategies that may give you a chance. Be yourself but willing to change is the best advice I can give and it's still a shot in the dark
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I wouldn't know whether this is true or not, but assuming that it is true, wouldn't this also work the other way around? As in, wouldn't this be the secret to attracting men as well?
