Ugly people, why?
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Fireyrage wrote...
I see it all the time, you know those ugly people who have super high standards and won't date anyone under those super high standards, even though they are on the same level as far as appearance goes.Is that why you've never dated anyone in your life and the only person who you love and loves you back is your mom?
Grow up fgt
Successful troll is successful :D
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Brittany
Director of Production
A lot of that has to do with insecurity. It's easier to blame something on someone else than it is to take responsibility for yourself.
If you know you're not attractive, would you rather say "I don't need a relationship with anyone." or "They're not good enough for me" or would you say "I don't have enough qualifications for this person" or "People don't seem to click with me"
It's a self defense mechanism. However, people not so attractive deserve the same type of people of what a socially labeled attractive person would. It all comes down to levels of tastes and compatibility with each other.
If you know you're not attractive, would you rather say "I don't need a relationship with anyone." or "They're not good enough for me" or would you say "I don't have enough qualifications for this person" or "People don't seem to click with me"
It's a self defense mechanism. However, people not so attractive deserve the same type of people of what a socially labeled attractive person would. It all comes down to levels of tastes and compatibility with each other.
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Ziggy wrote...
A lot of that has to do with insecurity. It's easier to blame something on someone else than it is to take responsibility for yourself.If you know you're not attractive, would you rather say "I don't need a relationship with anyone." or "They're not good enough for me" or would you say "I don't have enough qualifications for this person" or "People don't seem to click with me"
It's a self defense mechanism. However, people not so attractive deserve the same type of people of what a socially labeled attractive person would. It all comes down to levels of tastes and compatibility with each other.
you stole the words right from my mouth ziggy! I yet again admire your wisdom :)
but yes, shooting other people down gives the illusion that you are superior even though you might not really be.
It's kind of like " oh I can't get anyone better than you so I'll just take you down with me." kind of
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What you said really angers me. It's very condescending, petty and arrogant. It's as if you consider them as "sub persons". I think even the fact that you say "ugly people" shows you have no respect.
Each of us are unique, I don't care how the person in front of me looks like. You judge people based on their looks, and even judge their tastes (which you don't actually know, because what you say is very general and not accurate in my opinion). According to your reasoning, only gorgeous guys have the right to choose cute girls. Stupid.
It shows you are jealous and you have complexes (not sure about the spelling here).
You should grow up and really stop posting things like that. It may be your opinion, but it's not a valid assertion, based on facts and logical arguments. Bleh. The ugly person is you.
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Nashrakh
Little White Butterflies Staff
Oho, Neya is angry <3 lol
I think Ziggy said all that needs to be said. Maybe dudes can't get any at all and blame it on the girls not being decent enough to make them date material to cover it up.
But that's not exclusive to 'ugly people' though...
I think Ziggy said all that needs to be said. Maybe dudes can't get any at all and blame it on the girls not being decent enough to make them date material to cover it up.
But that's not exclusive to 'ugly people' though...
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Tegumi
"im always cute"
People probably are picky at the same rate (statistically) regardless of their own attractiveness. I'd garner that you notice the ones you call "ugly" being picky more often is because you think they shouldn't have such high standards. As for what sort of mentality causes you to react so vehemently towards that situation, I wouldn't know.
But as you can tell from the replies, not a prejudice to be vocal about. Very bad for PR.
But as you can tell from the replies, not a prejudice to be vocal about. Very bad for PR.
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Tegumi wrote...
People probably are picky at the same rate (statistically) regardless of their own attractiveness. I'd garner that you notice the ones you call "ugly" being picky more often is because you think they shouldn't have such high standards. As for what sort of mentality causes you to react so vehemently towards that situation, I wouldn't know.But as you can tell from the replies, not a prejudice to be vocal about. Very bad for PR.
STOP POSTING SUCH REASONABLE THINGS! YOU'RE TEARING THE FUCKUP FABRIC OF FAKKU APART WITH YOUR LOGIC!
One of these days, we will have to roll you up into tiny pills, and then I'll package those pills, and carry them with me on my internet forays, whenever I need to alleviate the crushing migraine these threads give me.
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Doesn't everyone want to get the best of everything???
And I'd love to know where u live as where I live the attractive people only date other attractive people
Anyways wise words said from Ziggy
And I'd love to know where u live as where I live the attractive people only date other attractive people
Anyways wise words said from Ziggy
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You should ask one or a couple of the ugly people you know why there standards are so high and if you get the same response you get your answer.
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It could be...they just aren't interested?? That ever pop up?
It's not always about having high standards.
It's not always about having high standards.
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iast wrote...
It could be...they just aren't interested?? That ever pop up?It's not always about having high standards.
^What she said.
(Or is it a he?)
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kitten-in-heat wrote...
iast wrote...
It could be...they just aren't interested?? That ever pop up?It's not always about having high standards.
^What she said.
(Or is it a he?)
Oh I have you confused now~~!
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If an ugly person go's out with a hot person then it is assumed that they most be cool. Also it's just a peer thing it never has to do with liking the person.
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Maybe the ugly person doesn't think they are ugly and therefore see no reason to go out with another fellow ugly person. They could also not care about what others think of them - all the while their desire to be with an attractive person is not at all diminished.
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neko-chan wrote...
Maybe the ugly person doesn't think they are ugly and therefore see no reason to go out with another fellow ugly person. They could also not care about what others think of them - all the while their desire to be with an attractive person is not at all diminished.So true...
and duh...no one will 100% admit that they are ugly and be proud of it...and yeah...of course he/she wants someone with a high standard...who doesn't?
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Here's an idea:
The whole world treats these ugly people like crap, so they want someone who has really high standards, whom they can then rule over, similarly to how they experienced the "rule" of others over them.
That's only 1 possible reason.
I'll bet there are lots of other mindsets out there.
The whole world treats these ugly people like crap, so they want someone who has really high standards, whom they can then rule over, similarly to how they experienced the "rule" of others over them.
That's only 1 possible reason.
I'll bet there are lots of other mindsets out there.
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Anything logical that would have been said has already been said, so I'll risk my reputation by stating something illogical: Perhaps the "ugly" person was raised to have high standards from the people around him/her. Or maybe the "ugly" person is just a jerk? I wouldn't really know, but those are a couple guesses that haven't been said.
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Ugly is relative? Either way, people are people, so let them have their own set of values too.
But sometimes I agree, going out of one's proverbial "league" is almost impossible at times.
But sometimes I agree, going out of one's proverbial "league" is almost impossible at times.
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Lol, as long as you didn't get rejected by a fat guy, or ugly girl or w/e, you shouldn't worry about other people's standards. They hope that even if they are fat, or ugly, people that are skinny and better looking are willing to look behind that and love them. In some cases it'll happen, and in other cases the person will live life alone, or marry some freaking hot ass person, or end up realizing they have to lower their standards and be more open minded.
