What do you like? Shy or Confident Guys

Thanks for calling us awesome! It's a good idea in theory, but my Girlfriend is opposed to the idea.

In my personal experience I like them to have a dose of both. I don't like overly confident egotistical personalities where they feel the need to establish dominance, and I also don't like overly shy types that I find myself struggling to make a comfortable conversation with.

My personality tends to be really shy when you first meet me, and I gradually warm up as I get to know someone. For me a guy who has enough confidence to initiate conversation and state first interest is easier for me to connect with because that level of confidence helps me boost my own confidence. Plus if he's also shy at times he can relate better to when I have a hard time, for example, talking on the phone. A lot of people think that's strange, unless they're a bit shy themselves, then there's more understanding and acceptance.

So yeah, a bit of both is good
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They can be shy in public, as long as they're not shy in bed! -w-

My gf loves how shy I am... it's all down to personal preference, really.

Lol i wouldnt go around calling myself names now would i ;3

Its just pretty hard for shy guys to show they are not shy in bed if they are shy in public.

Yes and no. Some guys are just a submissive type and if you don't control the relationship when it gets private then that shyness will hinder your bedroom activities especially if the girl is submissive or shy as well (to much laughing or spending to much time kissing instead of moving onto next activity). Now there are some guys that shy in public, but once you get them in bed they are beasts lol. Give you one chance to guess on which guy I would rather have lol.

The shy submissive one ?...

I give you one chance to guess wich guy i am ;)!

I kinda meant my original comment to be like a "half joke", so what i meant by it was, if you are a shy person in public, it can be hard for the guy to ever meet the other person to even have the chance to get into the bedroom activities.

A mix of both is the best! The confidence has to make sure not to stray into arrogance and if they're shy they have to at least be able to hold a conversation. I-It's really hard to bond to someone who only answers with "yes" or "no."

Clever or witty guys are good too 'cause they make me go

definitely confident guys.. I'm not good with shy guys.. but more than shy or confident I prefer guys who can make me laugh~

I prefer a nice mix of both. A guy who can be confident about himself, but also a bit shy here and there in certain situations is nice. (>w<)

I guess I'm a bit of both myself. I'm usually really shy at first, but once I get to know someone and I feel that I can trust them, I usually feel more confident on revealing more of my own personality and such.

When it comes to friends or relationships, I always seem to worry about doing something wrong, but I don't think it all stems from being shy. I just hate seeing people hurt, regardless of how it happens.

I guess being really kind is one of my faults and makes me seem more feminine than most guys but when push comes to shove, I can be forceful if I have to...

I hope that wasn't too off-topic...

Sorta like confident about themselves as in their personality, but shy about more personal things? like being physical?

[size=10]Shy gets boring sometimes. Confidence makes me feel like I'm not some emotional necessity or crutch. [/h]

Heh, I find Bi/Lesbian women couples to be pretty fucking hot. And to add to what king said, having sex with a bisexual couple constitued of two women seems pretty damn interesting.

Arrogance is the best, women can say they want confident and nice but that is a lie. Women are very much into the egotistical man, and if they say otherwise they're lying.

sempai. I love you. have my babies.

Things I've learned on this matter: It's socially acceptable for girls to dwell on their insecurities and be shy, but guys better not do the same.

I wonder if people realize that men have feelings and emotions, too, and sometimes they aren't in the best place in life...

Sometimes knowing that someone desires you and accepts you for all your faults and perks is just what one needs in order to feel confident. Girls understand this about themselves, but they don't seem to understand that the same applies to men as well. Girls say they like when guys are sensitive and in touch with their feelings, but when they're actually confronted with such a guy, it's a real turn off.

We don't care if a guy is a little emotional, my boyfriend isn't a robot and has cried in front of me before. We just don't like when a guy is bitching and whining every moment of every day. I've had some guy friends and exes that were hardly ever happy and would do nothing but whine about every little thing; you can help cheer them up to an extent, but after awhile this will stop working. Some guys that are overly emotional and depressed can even come to take this out on their partner. It's kind of hard to try to be there for anyone who is lashing out at you when you were just trying to help.

Also, I look at both genders who get overly emotional this way; this doesn't just apply to guys. I can't stand girls who are overly sensitive and emotional over every little thing and cause nothing but catty drama. It's understandable to have things happen in your life to make you upset, but you have to have a little respect for those in your life trying to help or who are not apart of the situation. It can almost be seen as a selfish thing to take your troubles out on others, because at the end of the day you have to figure them out yourself; people can only help you so much.