Will you swallow? Can you?

Heh.. I just can't wrap myself around the idea of ejaculating in a woman's mouth and having her swallow or spit it, I've always thought of it as a degrading act even in dirty sex. Unless she actually asks me to cum in her mouth, I don't even think about doing it. My morals come before my own pleasure. To me, sex is just a way to let off all the while respecting the other person's preferences. Even though I'm the hard/dirty sex kind of person and don't like the concept of "making love", I don't force her into something she might not like just for my own pleasure.

Honestly most partners will probably not ask you to cum into their mouths (at least not right away), most will just attempt oral, the guy may or may not say they are going to cum and then the partner gets a shot of semen in their mouth. They will either attempt to swallow the load or just spit it out. Could also just pull out and cum on the person or in a tissue or something, though the tissue thing is kind of lame (I mean you can jerk off in a tissue any day of the week lol).

I would never let someone force me to do something I didn't already want. Both partners should be treated with respect regardless of what sort of relationship they have. And as I already said, if the person wants to swallow the semen they can do so. It isn't degrading to want to do something that could give pleasure to another person. I never really saw swallowing as degrading, what an ex of mine said about me not swallowing one time was degrading.

Also, when has any sexual act not been dirty? Lol

Dirty sex, I'm talking about hardcore, not softcore "love making". And I know most don't just ask you to cum in their mouth although I like to settle the other person's preferences beforehand, knowing what they like and what they don't. I won't just take the chance cumming in their mouth and gamble whether she's going to swallow it because she likes it or spit it because she hates it, because if she ates it, swallow or spit, she's already gotten the taste anyway.

Lol I can say this from past experience, it isn't like you know what you will want and not want to do with sex. It's more of a learning experience then anything. I know I've tried things I wasn't sure on and I either figured I like them or I don't like them. But everything has a beginning and usually you start out doing simple and traditional things. After that you just see if your partner is open about doing different things.

Everyone is gonna be different on this so expect the unexpected. If you have someone with less experience they won't know what they will or won't like so just have fun with things and do what you enjoy and explore what looks interesting safely lol.

No one is gonna blame you if they don't like doing something they wanted to try out. If they do it's on them for wanting to go along with it. Instead of setting everything in stone beforehand just talk about it as you go.

[size=10]Oh my fucking god I need to visit that bar if doing a shot of semen will get me free drinks.[/h]

It's not a shot of semen. It's a proper drink
50% butterscotch schnaps
50% baileys irish cream
Topped with whipped cream.

Not a personal favourite of mine :/

[size=10]I'm a huge fan of sweet drinks especially if it's to the point of sickly sweet.

I will gladly do ten shots of those for a meal.[/h]

At a recent anime convention I got to spend time with my lover and we spent lots of intimate time together and during that time I was able to swallow without any problem, but that's probably because I think he has retrograde ejaculation, since I never really felt anything going into my mouth, but it was clear that he had an orgasm.
Meanwhile on the other side, when I orgasm he would spit it out into a tissue and comment on the amount or thickness(which I enjoy hearing) and I was never upset that he did so. He's just cautious about the risks to his stomach so I don't mind.

He should see the doctors or take a a1c home test. He may have the beetus. Not jizzing is a gift and a curse.

There's also a chance he could have just been holding it all in, but I don't see how that would be possible, since we were together all night long so I am sure I'd notice some jizz in the bed, but maybe he just doesn't jizz much at all? I've never really asked "so, do you like nvr jizz or is there a reason you hold back?". He's visiting cousins right now, so when he returns I'll talk to him about it in depth, thanks for the input.

It happens sometimes although if it's too often he might have problems.

I don't know. I know I can swallow my own cum just fine but I don't know if if be able to swallow semen...I've never had sex with a man... If things go well I'll lose my virginity to my new girlfriend soon though.

For the few that have tasted both the cum of a boy and girl, is there any real difference in taste?

Yup

Girls fluids taste sweet with a little tang/sour/saltines thrown in (make sure she washes up that area first though... a whole new kind of stank if she doesn't lol). The sweet part comes from the arousal (basically the lubrication we make when we get turned on). The tang/sour/salty taste comes from everyday lubrication that keeps the vagina moist.
NOTE: If a girl doesn't make lubrication, doesn't mean she isn't turned on. Every girl is different so the girl may just not produce as much. In this circumstance always good to have alternative lube that works with condoms!

Men's fluids taste a little bitter with a iron taste. Best way I could describe it is as runny egg whites with a copper penny thrown in lol. I don't mind the taste personally, the only thing that can get annoying is when I already have a sensitive stomach for the day or when it's thick and sticks to the back of my throat.

Just experiment some with one another when you get to that stage. Sex fluids are like alcohol, can only understand it when you taste it lol.

I'll swallow most of the time, not a problem unless the taste is really strong on that day.
I gotta be careful with what I drink afterwards though (not sure if any girls experience this) , once I mixed coke and cum and it was one of the worst things I've done .

[size=12]My friend guy told me that eating citrus fruits will make his jizz a little bit sweeter.. I don't know if it's true though. But I guess I'll still swallow it whatever the tase it.. ((i haven't tried doing anything yet.. So it means that I don't really have an idea what would be the taste like)) but like what most of you said, I'll just swallow if I really want to.., not beause I was forced to.[/h]

I feel guilty for reading about women tasting cum and vaginal fluids...excuse me for my nonsensical herbivore antics but it feels like I'm spying on someone's personal life.

In any case I want to say thanks, I was really curious about what cum tasted like but as a man I felt like trying it would be too risque(so that's a no to the swallow question). Most responses have turned out negatively towards how cum tastes but is it possible that someone could naturally like the taste of cum?

I don't think ingesting anything from the man's side helps. Since to leave a taste you would have to urinate(since urine can still have residual "good" tasting chemicals from food), leave the urine in the urethral tract then cum so that the cum washes along with the residual chemicals...it's not hygienic and counter intuitive since you are drinking bitter urine. I'll stew my thoughts on what you could do for the women's side, since that's probably easier.

[size=12]You should let the girl wash her private part after peeing and before you taste her cum.[/h]

hey if a guy or girl is blowing me, I don't care if they spit or swallow, I got blown, life is pretty good!
I don't swallow, it tastes gross!

I'll assume you mean the guy...

Also counter-intuitive, the piss needs to stay there for the residual chemicals..you could use some sort wash that specifically targets the level of acidity of the waste parts in the piss but I'm certain that wash is going to harm your genitals and finding something that leaves only the desired chemicals is likely impossible considering it's bonding with the urine..setting the bar to make cum taste good might be too far. Numbing the taste might be a good place to start.

I think this post right here just answered almost all my questions about that topic. XD