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Would You Have Casual Sex Another Man's Wife/Girlfriend?
Cuckold or not?
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If she was looked decent and I didn't know the husband personally or disliked him, I would. How about you?
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
No.
Scenario 1: The woman (dating/married) has sex with the "other man" without either parties knowing. The woman is an idiot or coward. This can hurt the significant other and can hurt the person they are cheating with if they don't know. To be honest though it is hard to keep a marriage or boyfriend a secret from another person you are cheating on (there are signs, you just have to be willing to look for them).
Scenario 2: The woman (dating/married) has sex with the "other man" who knows the woman is married or in a relationship. Both parties are idiotic in this case. If you know that the woman is already "taken" so to speak then you are willing to wreck the life of not only the spouse, but potentially any family and children involved? Either you end the relationship or she ends the one she is in. Another issue will also be trust, if she is sleeping with you and she stays with you, will she be faithful or do the same thing with someone else?
Scenario 3: Same scenario as 1 & 2, but husband knows. Either he is going to kill you and or her (or both), or a very very slight possibility he's cool with it. Karma's a bitch and on the one end, on the latter ummm... idk kinda weird if it did happen lol.
I've seen this happen before. I've seen where a married man have an affair with another woman and they ended up together married for many long years happily. I've also seen a good friend of mine have an affair with a college professor and break up a family along with scarring a 4 year old child (she knew he was married, didn't love him and honestly didn't care).
Your playing with fire if you knowingly/willingly mess with another man's woman. Taking time to learn about another person and open communication are needed to prevent such a thing from happening.
Scenario 1: The woman (dating/married) has sex with the "other man" without either parties knowing. The woman is an idiot or coward. This can hurt the significant other and can hurt the person they are cheating with if they don't know. To be honest though it is hard to keep a marriage or boyfriend a secret from another person you are cheating on (there are signs, you just have to be willing to look for them).
Scenario 2: The woman (dating/married) has sex with the "other man" who knows the woman is married or in a relationship. Both parties are idiotic in this case. If you know that the woman is already "taken" so to speak then you are willing to wreck the life of not only the spouse, but potentially any family and children involved? Either you end the relationship or she ends the one she is in. Another issue will also be trust, if she is sleeping with you and she stays with you, will she be faithful or do the same thing with someone else?
Scenario 3: Same scenario as 1 & 2, but husband knows. Either he is going to kill you and or her (or both), or a very very slight possibility he's cool with it. Karma's a bitch and on the one end, on the latter ummm... idk kinda weird if it did happen lol.
I've seen this happen before. I've seen where a married man have an affair with another woman and they ended up together married for many long years happily. I've also seen a good friend of mine have an affair with a college professor and break up a family along with scarring a 4 year old child (she knew he was married, didn't love him and honestly didn't care).
Your playing with fire if you knowingly/willingly mess with another man's woman. Taking time to learn about another person and open communication are needed to prevent such a thing from happening.
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Misaki_Chi wrote...
No.
Scenario 1: The woman (dating/married) has sex with the "other man" without either parties knowing. The woman is an idiot or coward. This can hurt the significant other and can hurt the person they are cheating with if they don't know. To be honest though it is hard to keep a marriage or boyfriend a secret from another person you are cheating on (there are signs, you just have to be willing to look for them).
Scenario 2: The woman (dating/married) has sex with the "other man" who knows the woman is married or in a relationship. Both parties are idiotic in this case. If you know that the woman is already "taken" so to speak then you are willing to wreck the life of not only the spouse, but potentially any family and children involved? Either you end the relationship or she ends the one she is in. Another issue will also be trust, if she is sleeping with you and she stays with you, will she be faithful or do the same thing with someone else?
Scenario 3: Same scenario as 1 & 2, but husband knows. Either he is going to kill you and or her (or both), or a very very slight possibility he's cool with it. Karma's a bitch and on the one end, on the latter ummm... idk kinda weird if it did happen lol.
I've seen this happen before. I've seen where a married man have an affair with another woman and they ended up together married for many long years happily. I've also seen a good friend of mine have an affair with a college professor and break up a family along with scarring a 4 year old child (she knew he was married, didn't love him and honestly didn't care).
Your playing with fire if you knowingly/willingly mess with another man's woman. Taking time to learn about another person and open communication are needed to prevent such a thing from happening.
Putting it in perceptive, the relationship is kinda of already wrecked considering the fact that she is willing to cheat. Even if a woman attempts to cheat and her partner founds out, it's most likely over. So it's rather that she is the one wrecking it instead of the guy.
I wouldn't be worried about getting killed too much, only 5% of women get caught. Just have to play your cards right. I wouldn't start a significant relationship with someone like that though and I'm talking about about causal sex(I'll add that in the title).
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
Count Alucard wrote...
Putting it in perceptive, the relationship is kinda of already wrecked considering the fact that she is willing to cheat. Even if a woman attempts to cheat and her partner founds out, it's most likely over. So it's rather that she is the one wrecking it instead of the guy.I wouldn't be worried about getting killed too much, only 5% of women get caught. Just have to play your cards right. I wouldn't start a significant relationship with someone like that though and I'm talking about about causal sex(I'll add that in the title).
The woman will be held accountable and you're right, the relationship is pretty shitty if it comes to this point, but what is the point of putting yourself into the mess of it all?
You think that because you're given the title of "the other guy" means you're innocent in all of this? I don't think that men should be hanged for doing this, but it's pretty low to take advantage of a situation just for some cheap sex. It's selfish and a bit narcissistic to not consider others and their problems only to satisfy your own desires.
The article that you linked is not a very reliable source of information, it can be found almost anywhere with various results. The whole killing thing was extreme, but it does happen my friend. Either that or having your ass kicked.
It is just as easy to find a girl at a bar who wants to have a good time. The problem is that there is more damage to be done, feigning ignorance to the whole situation is an excuse on the "other persons" part so they can justify their actions in this.
I understand the appeal of having an affair and the excitement of possibly getting caught is what is considered the turn on. I don't agree with it, (I want better for myself then just an easy lay) but that's just my opinion. I don't judge those who do it since there's no point (too much energy wasted in that lol).
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
Generally, no, because if I know the girl, chances are I probably know and am friends with the guy too (this seems to be the more common case for me). However, given the right, and very specific circumstances, yes I'd partake.
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Gravity cat
the adequately amused
Hypothetically, I was single and she was someone I was attracted to I would consider it.
Anyone who instantly says they wouldn't initially consider it - even if for a brief moment - is lying.
Anyone who instantly says they wouldn't initially consider it - even if for a brief moment - is lying.
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Flaser
OCD Hentai Collector
Yes, as long as they're *both* aware and OK with it. (Some guys actually get a real kick out of being cuckolded).
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Misaki_Chi wrote...
The woman will be held accountable and you're right, the relationship is pretty shitty if it comes to this point, but what is the point of putting yourself into the mess of it all?
You think that because you're given the title of "the other guy" means you're innocent in all of this? I don't think that men should be hanged for doing this, but it's pretty low to take advantage of a situation just for some cheap sex. It's selfish and a bit narcissistic to not consider others and their problems only to satisfy your own desires.
The article that you linked is not a very reliable source of information, it can be found almost anywhere with various results. The whole killing thing was extreme, but it does happen my friend. Either that or having your ass kicked.
It is just as easy to find a girl at a bar who wants to have a good time. The problem is that there is more damage to be done, feigning ignorance to the whole situation is an excuse on the "other persons" part so they can justify their actions in this.
I understand the appeal of having an affair and the excitement of possibly getting caught is what is considered the turn on. I don't agree with it, (I want better for myself then just an easy lay) but that's just my opinion. I don't judge those who do it since there's no point (too much energy wasted in that lol).
Wouldn't actively seek out taken women but if one came up to me offering sex, looked good, and I could mostly get away with it...then fuck the other guy! I know its cliche line, but it's dog eat dog world. Yeah, I'm pretty of egocentric but that is the truth.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
I'd say no. Cheating is pretty high in my no go books. If I found out she had a husband/ boyfriend, I'd drop that shit like a sack of potatoes faster than I could scrub the dirt and shit off them (lel potatoes) because seriously, It's seriously against my morals to cheat. I wouldn't allow myself to be the guy that went and fucked with another guys emotions.
If they wanted it?/ it was all for the mean sex later? I still doubt I'd do it... I'm just not the kind of person for that. I tend to not have sex with anyone unless I'm in a relationship with them. No idea why. More morals probably. I'm a bit weird with those kinds of things.
AS for the 5% of females getting caught, I imagine that's the whole walking in and getting caught in the act part of it. I imagine the percentage of females, or people whose partners know, or have a feeling would be fairly high. It's pretty obvious when it's happening. Well, not obvious... but small things give it away, which lead you to wonder at first, then you start second guessing yourself, then thinking you're a horrible person for even thinking that could be the case. Then later, it ruins your trust of people. Obviously depending on the person. Some obviously wouldn't get as messed up as some others. But yeah.
If they wanted it?/ it was all for the mean sex later? I still doubt I'd do it... I'm just not the kind of person for that. I tend to not have sex with anyone unless I'm in a relationship with them. No idea why. More morals probably. I'm a bit weird with those kinds of things.
AS for the 5% of females getting caught, I imagine that's the whole walking in and getting caught in the act part of it. I imagine the percentage of females, or people whose partners know, or have a feeling would be fairly high. It's pretty obvious when it's happening. Well, not obvious... but small things give it away, which lead you to wonder at first, then you start second guessing yourself, then thinking you're a horrible person for even thinking that could be the case. Then later, it ruins your trust of people. Obviously depending on the person. Some obviously wouldn't get as messed up as some others. But yeah.
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Yes I would consider it, and so would everyone else if given the chance.
You can say "No I wouldn't it's not right" all you like but our biology expects us to breed with as many partners as possible. It's in our genes. You can't deny instinct giving you the temptation, although whether or not you act upon it is up to you.
You can say "No I wouldn't it's not right" all you like but our biology expects us to breed with as many partners as possible. It's in our genes. You can't deny instinct giving you the temptation, although whether or not you act upon it is up to you.
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I have. it was not a pleasant situation afterwards. Originally they were trying for an open relationship. That did not stick and it was entirely awkward afterward and now I'm not friends with them anymore.
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I would really want to because for some reason I find it to be a real turn on. Although, after seeing what cheating does to the person being cheated on, I would want nothing to do with it. I've seen my friends completely heartbroken with their entire mindset distorted after going through an intense ordeal like that. I mean I got very upset when my recent ex broke up with me months ago and I was out for a while. But if she cheated on me? I literally wouldn't know what to do with myself. I would never want to put someone through that, so either friend or stranger, I will respect their relationship with their significant other.
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I've gone through enough heartache to say I'd never (in the nearest future) willingly be in a sexual relationship with a woman that is "taken". The psychological trauma from my previous relationships (that ended in me being cheated on) have made their toll for both my level of trust towards other people and changed what I value in women.
I accept the fact that the thought would run through my mind but I'd struggle to many means just to keep it as a thought.
I've been told that in a way I'm partly responsible for it for being too... well, let's just say I'm the guy that likes to be close but I've yet to find a person that has the same feelings as I do for that long.
In short: it hurts...really much. And I wouldn't want to do that to another human being.
I accept the fact that the thought would run through my mind but I'd struggle to many means just to keep it as a thought.
I've been told that in a way I'm partly responsible for it for being too... well, let's just say I'm the guy that likes to be close but I've yet to find a person that has the same feelings as I do for that long.
In short: it hurts...really much. And I wouldn't want to do that to another human being.
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Absolutely not. I wouldn't be happy with someone sleeping with my man, so I wouldn't sleep with someone elses man. (In the case of being a female instead of male), but even then if I was a man, I still wouldn't do it, because again I wouldn't want my woman sleeping with another man.
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In my normal, uninfluenced state of mind, I would choose no. Since cheating is evil. Traitors have always been deemed the most evil of all. And I grew up in a place where there are families around broken by cheating. I don't want to be a part of that again.
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Outside of a poly/open/swinging take situation,probably not. It just doesn't seem right to me.
Although also if i really,really hate the guy i might do it. But there's like only 2 guys i've ever met that have pushed to that point,so that is a rare feeling for me
Although also if i really,really hate the guy i might do it. But there's like only 2 guys i've ever met that have pushed to that point,so that is a rare feeling for me
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Gravity cat wrote...
Hypothetically, I was single and she was someone I was attracted to I would consider it. Anyone who instantly says they wouldn't initially consider it - even if for a brief moment - is lying.
I'm not lying with my comment. I honestly believe that I love my wife enough that if I found out someone besides me f**ked her during our marriage or relationship I would've been likely to break some bones. I believe a partner is an individual who has your entire heart and should be valued as such.