Skywolfe wrote...
"No, I'm not mad at you."
... At the risk of sounding sexist against women (and therefore myself), is that just a female thing or does everybody do this?
I do on occasion. To avoid becoming passive-aggressive or visibly pissed off at them I try not to talk to them or completely disregard what they did and just carry on as normal, at least until I get time to myself.