Dream girl/guy

Umm this current avatar?

Yes, I have dreamed of her more then once, and when I have to imagine a non specific person sitting/standing somewhere, she is the first thing that comes up.

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Musician
Loves books and art and music
Someone I can hold an actual conversation with
Someone who has dark eyes and an infectious smile
Ideally someone taller than me, I'm 5'10", but I wouldn't mind a bit shorter as long as he's not TOO much shorter.
Strong hands and arms
Clean cut, not too much facial hair, a little is ok as long as it's maintained.
Someone who wants to go places with me (like Poland)
Someone I can be with long-term. I don't do flings or one-night stands :)

What about the personality? If I could find you a girl like this but she was a murdering sadist pedophile who was into scat porn would you still want her?

Would she force the interest in scat porn upon others?

I'm well aware I'll never meet a dream girl, so I don't really think about the personality.

Yes she would surprise you with it in the morning, after having raped and murdered several small boys and girls, by shitting in your chest. Yes, IN your chest....because she's a murderer.

That's a bit of a deal killer. I'll pass on that.

Female
Age 20-31
Black Long hair
Brown eyes
Doesnt smoke or drink
Intelligent, cute, motherly type, can cook and clean, A sense of humor
Be willing to accept my interests
Financially Secure
Would be willing to wait to get married in my late 20's early 30's
Have 2-3 children

This is a pretty high bracket still though Im in no rush in finding my dream girl. Its going to be tough for the girl I do end up with though because this past 3 years in the Army has reduce my brain to sand. Im often forgetful, has a hard time sleeping, and I have emotional swings here and there Im often crying at nothing in particular or at the smallest things. If there was a women that could accept all of this then I would truly be happy.

Aesthetics:
Short hair
Skinny, but not famine

Personality:
Someone who just likes to be around me, they can accept my likes, dislikes, advantages, disadvantages, and can still stand being around me, I want someone who can be themselves around me just like I can around them.

My size, thin, not really neccesary to be that attractive but don't be so ugly also, honest, not very outgoing since i'm not also, very lovable and affectionate.

An otaku girl with a wacky mad scientist persona complete with big glasses and with "normal" breast size

or a tsundere class rep kind also with glasses

For me it will be enough with any person who is able to bear me.

My dream girl would be a girl who really likes me. What else should I really wish for? Assume she's super hot, intelligent, rich, shy, small and has long hair... What does it matter if she doesn't even love you anyway.

Dream guy

A megane
Intelligent
gentleman but, a little flirty wouldn't hurt
bad-ass!
very responsible (in terms of future security, girls like that a lot)
spontaneous.
fickle.
prefers Asian or European.

It's only a dream anyway

Interesting! Lets see...I suppose generally friendly/nice but with a bit of an assertive side to her/not being passive. I would like it if that hypothetical dream girl is fun to be around and I would be pushed out of my comfort zone a bit. For example, say I don't like to watch horror movies. But she does, so she drags me along for a fun and interesting experience lol.

Hm what else besides givens like "she likes me for who I am" and so on? Sometimes taking the lead kinda goes along with being assertive. Hmm maybe mature when she needs to be but also can be joking/fun/funny when times call for it. A personality that is cool probably fits in with the rest of this description but cute works too. The only physical characteristic I would have to put on necessary is not obese or fat. Although I may have a bit of a problem if she has loli like looks (but is legal), not sure on that yet as it depends on her personality. Probably not though.

Superficial things I can get over:

Straight hair, preferably black, brown, or blond.

Cute or cool voice (think either higher pitched/cute sounding or mature sounding.)

Curvy, lol I'll admit I'm not immune to this either although personality is way more important.

No glasses/uses contacts: I'm not a glasses guy, but obviously I can get over this.

preferences/things(case by case):

Older than me (but not more than 5 years older): For some reason I feel that older women are more mature and such. However I'm pretty sure there is a counterexample of a girl who is younger but mature.

Height: I don't care whether she is taller than me or shorter. Just not by too much since I prefer somebody similar in height to me.

Intelligence: has a decent education. Meaning college at minimum.

Job: Sorry, I believe dual income is best in the modern day unless somebody earns a lot of money by themselves. And I mean a lot. Type of job doesn't matter all that much.

Language: This is a big point for me, Speaking English fairly well is important for me cause I want to communicate. I could never understand those who marry somebody from another country and yet they don't have a good enough proficiency in either language to properly communicate.

Race: Doesn't matter all that much depending on personality since often relationships are more about the person than where their family came from. But if I had to set a preference; I'd prefer East asian, mostly Japanese but chinese/korean is fine too or European descent - read: white/American since not many people know from where in Europe they came from. For reference I am Asian-American.

DONE!!

And now I feel like a jerk because I think maybe I set my sights too high/there are lots of things I wrote or the things I like best are just not commonplace.

Derp, well I'm posting it.

Hey, I like it. You seem to know what you want. :)

Kind Native American girl or mixed black/white/native american etc girl who is curvy and somewhat agrresive and into the millitary.

Well this is easy for me Asian with long black hair green eyes she is shy likes to cosplay and dress up likes anime and video games. She is also smart, innocent, and also Gothic or emo that about sums it up for me.