Court Jester wrote...
Please_don't_ban_me wrote...
Court Jester wrote...
Please_don't_ban_me wrote...
Court Jester wrote...
Little shorter than me
Long light brown hair'
Nice round breasts ( but not large, rather enough to grab my hands )
Light skin
Green eyes
Well educated
Mature
Fun and loving
Someone who wants to marry and have a few kids with me
Nice round butt, but not large
Loves anime and manga
Loves to cuddle with me and sit with me on the couch
"""Someone who can cook """"
Nice and fit ( not strongly athletic, but enough to keep her form )
Soft and gentle personality
someone who longs for me
...
Yeah ... my dream girl ... forever alone
You could always settle for something less and resent her and yourself for the remainder of your life. It's always an option.
It's only a girl of my dreams .... I am always open for many things.
I'm only saying to be cautious of the extremes. Those who are forever alone aren't happy, and those who take the compromise to the extreme are never happy either. I compromised, and despicably enough I'm still pretty good friends with the love of my life. I'm simply saying, being forever alone is bad, yes, but compromise will leave you hating yourself.
I know exactly what you mean .. and I learned that through personal experience .. that is why I learned that men like me cannot be too picky about women .. sometimes it is just the best to take one who loves you the most.
If that's what you extrapolated, no you don't know what I mean... The woman I'm with loves me... arguably too much... like yandere too much... but that's not the point. Point is, compromise to a good medium. Going for the girl of your dreams, that beautiful woman (or man) you love with every ounce of your soul, the one you smile from just thinking of, the person you truly want to spend the rest of your life with, that's an endeavor that can leave you heartbroken and ready to compromise when it fails. Then that compromise leads to another, then before you know it you're having sex with a schizophrenic, bipolar, woman you don't even love (no, that's actually not the one I'm with now, and no I didn't know she was
that crazy until later.) Moral of the story for everyone, dreams are nice but ultimately worse than they let on and compromise is worse.