Ninja4Hire wrote...
Off Topic:
Warning, this is longer than my actual post.
Honestly, I can say you are about half right. While they can be cold to foreigners, it's seldom because of a general dislike towards them. On many occasions, this dislike is really an example of their "shyness", or just an attempt to avoid confrontation (i.e. "I can't handle this situation").
I was living in Japan the past year, and just about everything I am about to say is from my experience.
At least in my experience, foreigners are rarely met with open arms in any country. Imagine walking down the street, and having an odd looking man, who does speak the native language, attempt to talk to you. They may be able to string together some words, but they are mainly speaking in a jumbled mess. Apply that thought to the Japanese (in this case), and imagine their reaction.
Now, there are some people who are very much welcoming to gaijin (Quick Lesson- Gaijin = Foreigner; Gaikokujin = Person from a different country... take from that what you will). For them, they may just wish to help/ be friendly/ practice the foreign language. And in other cases, interest in learning their language (speaking, and showing that you have at least a basic understanding), can lead to them talking with you. But certain norms should be observed before you try to start a conversation.
However, there are many occasions when foreigners ARE openly disliked. These instances are often (again, at least in my experience) caused by the foreigner, by way of ignoring social norms. This is what leads to cultural conflict, as you have two separate groups clashing over a simple set of values. The difference is, however, avoidable by acknowledging that you are not in your home country, and are a guest in theirs. As the saying goes, "When in Rome, do as the Romans do".
Quick note- Foreigners can be treated like second-class citizens because they are NOT citizens. They are foreigners... this is the same everywhere.
I've still heard of a great sum of people who are can speak Japanese fluently, have lived long enough in Japan to be legal citizens (and in doing so, passing various interviews by government workers to prove that they understand the culture), and adopt their cultural values, as well as being aware of and following traditional rules, and even start families there, who are
still persistently treated in such an ill manner due to them simply being someone who doesn't look Japanese. People who aren't allowed in various establishments, who aren't even considered for good jobs or promotions, and of them facing harassment due to their race. People who have lived there longer than they've lived in their native country and are still treated like complete invalids.
Again, I'm fully,
fully aware that it's likely not universal or as persisting as stories may lead one to believe, and I'm even aware of the reasons a lot of these kind of things happen, but to say that it's due to simply being a tourist is ignoring all of the non-natives who live there and are troubled by this matter.
Considering I presented my prior post a full week ago (and actually forgot about it entirely), and it not staying on the thread topic, I'm just going to drop the subject here; we can only present anecdotal or cherry picked evidence on the matter either way.
OT: Same thing I said before, but more guitars.
You know what, strike that: take out everything and and buy nothing
but guitars.