steminterest wrote...
Maybe because all the girls I know don't seem like the types to, but I would be pretty shot in the heart out of confusion on whether to be happy or not. Since there's a bunch of stuff on this site, for all I know the person I like who reads on this site, could also be on other sites with the weirdest fetishes ever. Also the only way I'd ever find out is if they showed me themselves, I would never know otherwise. I like a lot of girls but even if it was the one I liked the most, I'd never know if the feeling is mutual, for both knowing they read on here and if they like me back.
One word > communication
Not everything a woman reads is something she wants to do. I know I enjoy gangbang, NTR, loli, etc but I don't want to do everything I read. There is the stereotype/joke that women love yaoi so that's a big indicator that we enjoy fantasizing for the most part. Just talk this out if you find a girl that likes hentai, it's not too hard.
Also just imagine that it's hard on the girl to come out of the closet with some things like this. I've had guys with either poor or positive reactions. The poor ones hurt to say the least. My current bf is really accepting of my hentai interests even if he himself isn't into it. Also has no problem with me fantasizing about fictional men with emphasis on the fictional lol.