What Men find attractive in a woman

I'm not a man, so I guess I can't say what I like in women... but I do find this topic quite interesting. I just hope everyone remembers not to be too ridiculously picky. After all, even the most good looking woman ages - her hair gets shorter and turns white, she gets a little fat in places she use to be thin, etc. At the end of the day, the saying rings true: you can fix ugly, but you can't fix stupid. So, choose someone with a personality that doesn't sour (in your opinion) the moment that her looks do.

I like my woman confidant, not one that freaks out under alittle pressure. Strong willed, but not too stubborn. Isn't afraid to as me anything. I like long hair, big tits(last girlfriend was a G cup) nice shapely hips and thighs, a good healthy complexion, a good smile, someone I feel I can trust with my deepest secrets. Does this help?

No idea, woman are woman and they all have there beauty. But to me I guess it's more of who she is rather then what she looks like now

The female body is absolutely beautiful. Me personally, the number one thing i look at first on a lady is their face. That smile that makes them that much sexier. The innocent or mysterious eyes they curve your way. Long hair is always a plus but there is that 2% of the female population that can pull off the short hair look. Then yes just the obvious after that your either an ass or tits kinda guy. A Big Booty is great to have as well!


lol reading back and seeing all these personality posts. Personality is an automatic. I wouldnt allow myself to settle down with someone whom my personality had no connection with or little to none. GREAT sense of Humor is a must. Life is not worth stressin the little things :)

I don't know for sure about most guys, but whenever I hear it, it's always boobs and ass this and that. For me though I have always wanted to find a girl that has a cute face(something that would bring a smile to me every time I see her). I also have developed a thing for mid-length to short hair, not that I have a problem with long hair either, its just not my first choice. I wouldn't mind someone short, but not so much that I overwhelm her in height. Sitting at 6'3 a girl that is 5'7 or even a girl around my height would be great and I would have no problem with it. I would like her to not be obese/fat in anyway, but not the polar opposite like a twig either, healthy weight with moderate curves (A nice firm ass never hurt anyone). Breasts really don't matter to me too much, not saying C's or DD's don't turn me though. Small breasts can definitely be a plus on the right woman. Fair skin is another thing that I find extremely attractive, as for hair and eye color I have seen the good in all types, but if I chose a favorite it would be black hair with any rare eye color(as rare as it is, Heterochromia is an extreme plus for me).

Personality wise, someone who is understanding and caring, knows when to take things seriously and when not to, a great sense of humor, loves anime/manga as much as I do, she doesn't have to like video game as well, but it's always nice. If she had some sort of outstanding talent like being able to sing/draw/cook proficiently I would go crazy for that. I do like innocence and timidity in some cases, but I think I would really enjoy a girl who is confident, a little tomboy-ish on the outside but has a mischievous feminine inside when we are alone together.

It's a little embarrassing to describe this, but I can get over it.

What I find attractive in a woman?

Here are my lists :
- That warmth they give off when they are one with you
- Their smell
- their frail body
- That moment they feel weak because they finally entrusts you with their body
- Eyes
- Their soft hands when you touch them
- The way they exhale their breath when they are close to you


Many women are different on their looks and such, especially on their personalities .. however I am just pointing out the general stuff which all women have.

Are my things too cheesy?

What do you think ladies?

Sounds kinda like a serial killer, to be honest. "Their smell, their frail body?" It just... no. Being called 'frail' isn't a compliment. Also, other posts by you indicate that you're a virgin, so how would you even know what it is like to be one with someone? "They feel weak when they entrust you with their body..." Uh, I think you're reading too many doujins.

I definitely have experience .. it's just that I don't have experience with many different types of women. ( sorry on the frail part, just mentioning my ex )

I just like that skin to skin connection because it relaxes me and makes me feel like I belong.

Serial killer?
I gotta laugh .... not reading too many doujins, rather I am more of a romantic type with females.

everything everybody has said is a good point but i wouldnt say frail but maybe soft/delicate or if the had sort of a baby belly and if i had the chance id probably purr like a cat as im a bit of a NEET(i do have a job but i rarely leave my house)the thought of female company in that capacity is rather a delicious/drool inducing/interesting thought and when it comes to legs and feet mine i feel are a bit cold so if its the opposite for her that would be a plus. =)I too am a bit of a romantic even if i rarely show it id say im a bit of a tsukomi/tsundere

Bit harsh don't you think Dia? I mean sure, I don't really agree with most/all of what he said since weak/frail body = I don't understand at all. Maybe it is just me but I don't know any girls who are weak/frail seeing as we live in the 21st century.

But still, attacking him with the whole "you are a virgin therefore you are < whatever" is a bit low I think because you actually seem to have searched for it to accuse him of such.

As for him, well...the descriptions you lay out are weird since they really don't say what you find attractive in the sense that those traits are what make them unique and that is why you like them. Its more of what you like in women in general in your opinion. I suppose asking the ladies what they think also makes it a kinda odd post but to each his own.

And on topic. What could I possibly add that I haven't said? I believe I didn't mention maturity in terms of how they act.

I don't really think it is harsh. He asked for a woman's opinion, so I gave it to him. I didn't really search out his status (that'd be weird), since I was obviously wrong in my assumption. I don't really see how it is an attack. Perhaps if he had been a virgin, it would be "calling (him) out", but it was more curiosity on my part. Plus, it does sound creepy when someone continually reinforces your weakness as a component of their sexual attraction to you.

Also, another tip to the other user in regards to what little I have seen of him thus far - stop saying "women, women, women" all the time. As a general rule, every time someone says "_(insert group of people here)_ are, do, think, etc..." then it is usually a blatant generalization and typically wrong.

[color=#006FFF]Pretty much this.

But so I'm not being lazy...
I don't find her appearance is nearly as important as her personality and overall character. I do have my preferences when it comes to looks, but that doesn't mean I only want certain things--I've noticed that I'm actually quite open to certain traits or the lack thereof (ie. freckles, moles, etc.).

So putting appearances aside, I think that one of the most attractive things in a woman would be the acceptance of other views that aren't her own. I probably love this because I've grown up mostly around people who are too stubborn to accept another's opinion on things, whether it's something as controversial as religious matters or as trivial as letting others like video games you don't. So kind of a slight "live and let live" sort of mindset is ideal but still firm in her own opinions.

This is almost as much as being something that I like as it is just something that I feel I can't be in a relationship without: She has to be at least a little nerdy/geeky and/or silly. I am a very avid gamer and nerd in many fashions, and because of this I can't really see any relationship happening without her being at least a little interested in games, or anime/manga, or something else. That'd be a big topic we could discuss at any time too, so that' be a plus.

And then the obvious personality traits; generally nice/not an entitled ass, healthy, intelligent, etc. etc.

I tend to fall for women who are jerks. Which is kind of the stereotype for WOMEN (that they fall for asshole guys), so lol. I don't know, when someone acts like a tool all of the time, it makes me want to be extra nice to offset their unpleasantness. I try to figure out the source of why they're unhappy, and make it better. I guess I just like "fixing" people. ^^;;

that was funny.

Anyway me:

I am attracted in women so whatever...

I dont care about boobs at all. to me slightly below average looks to amazing would be my acceptable range. looks can only go so far and im the type who WOULD ditch someone even if you look like a model if I cant even have a decent conversation with you, and that applies to guys as well and I have.

When it comes to the non physical though thats when I get finicky and this applies to men too or whatever gender there may be.

I HATE:
- wants too much alone time
- has debilitating social anxiety where you cant take this person out without drama
- addiction of any sort
- mental illness that causes social problems
- money chasers
- STD
- desires or plans
- NO COMMON SENSE
- lies and deception
- does not know what s/he wants in life relationship wise
- drama over bullshit things
- has no shame and would be scandalous in public
- pointless arrogance based nonsense that leads to bigger issues
- cannot listen to others opinion
- cannot admit to ones own faults and shortcomings
- racist, sexist, homophobic, and any manner of social phobia I guess
- religious moralist/fanatic/judgemental sob coz a damn book said so
- has ridiculous demands(like this one girl, she wont go anywhere unless it has mexican people in it! shes afraid of china town or any other place literally... this is NOT A CHILD ok nor a new immigrant)
- too much focus on their 'perfect' public persona
- delusions of grandeur
- too loud (I can hear you from a building away)
- people who cower into their shell when the heat is on and turns into a useless statue
- unreliable
- too extravagant
- depends on material posessions to establish their value
- has no real personality
- is in the relationship not for the partner but 'other' things
- too many strings attached
- robots who are incapable of empathy(if I wanted that, I would have just programmed my own lover)
- same as too emotional where rationality gets completely thrown off the window. I like a balanced mix of the two
- self centered and extremely selfish
- physically or verbally abusive
- judges a persons values merely by their appearance
- hoarders(I saw it on TV ok)
- I dont mind pets, but when you cant take care of it and...
- leashed to something/someone outside of the relationship

I LIKE:
- Flexibility/versatility in everything
- has a balance between calm relax life and party fun life/ alone time and couple time / work time and breather time
- adventurous
- humble
- likes sex and is open minded with things about it
- team player (very important esp on the big issues)
- accepting/comfortable with themselves
- messy
- extroverted
- guts/courage
- someone I can feel safe to give myself to
- family oriented, I like that. theres nothing wrong with work oriented , i just prefer it more thats all
- cool and calm under pressure

thats a few

READ MY MIND.
Exactly what I wanted to say :)

Seconding all of this, especially after spying a lot of ridiculously picky responses.

i think the most important thing about a girl is her smile. of course boobs and nice curves attract attention but i wouldn't fall in love because of that...its the smile i always fall in love with and the personality
greetings
Cho

Physically: Boobs are always a plus but I'm not entirely picky. I LOVE a girl with a nice ass. I like'em nice and soft to my grip and makes me wanna use her as a pillow in a way lol. I can't stand skinny girls and my definition of skinny is different from most since I'm a big guy.

Personality: I tend to like genuinely nice girls and an overall good person but still has that pervy/freaky side to her. Has to have that. Otherwise things would be difficult? I guess I could say.I don't like girls that don't want to try anything new either.

I didn't know where to put this but i like to be completely comfortable around her and vise verse. I tend to like a give and take type of thing when it comes to pleasure and general happiness.

Ho dear let's bust out the list.

1. smile- I won't dislike you for not having perfect teeth. As long as your teeth aren't yellow.

2. Similarities- I want someone to have similar interests of mine. I'd want someone I can share experiences with that we both find enjoyable. It would suck to have a beautiful girl but neither of you have anything in common with each other or enjoy the company of each other because you guys find very different things enjoyable. So for me it would be someone who likes hentai, video games, or outdoors expeditions such as rock climbing.

3. Intelligence- someone who isn't a complete airhead. They don't have to be Einstein.

4. Body- I'd like someone who stays in shape. Not to be mean, overweight woman are just not a turn on.

5. Breasts- I personally adore large breasts. I will not turn down a woman for having smaller breasts, I am not that shallow. It's just a plus for me. Like getting extra credit on your homework when you were a kid.

6. Buttocks- I like them rounded. I'm not taking big ghetto booty big. Just the shape, round. Once again, it's only a plus.

7. Personality- Someone who is on the more caring side. I generally like nice girls. Simple. Also no divas please.

8. Sex- No STD's please. Or someone who has had many sexual partners. I'd prefer as little sexual partners or possibly a virgin with the woman of my interest.

9. Voice- "The only sin is an ungodly racket". If you don't have an indoor voice and you're one of the people that yell right next to the person you're talking to, fuck you. No being nice here.

I can't think of anything else for now. If I do I'll an edit.