Do Feminists Ever Consider That They Might Be Wrong?

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>Do Feminists ever consider that they might be wrong?

I dunno, do Republicans/Democrats/Libertarians/Atheists/New Agers ever think they're wrong?

Scarcasm aside, there's a lot you're missing out here. Femisism isn't just some small movement led by vocal complainers. It's not just an opinion. It's a much larger movement with religious, psychological, economic, social, and even academic implications. (It's why I didn't involve it in my Thesis--I'd have been at it forever! XD)

It's not this thing you can "prove wrong", because so many things in society are geared towards an odd hierarchy where women (and anyone else not a straight, white man) end up underprivileged. A lot of that stuff is just hard-wired into us by virtue of nurture (as oppose to nature), which is why so many of it seems jarring.

Besides, it's hard to say that Feminists are "wrong" when the U.S. Congress decided that Hobby Lobby's religious beliefs as a corporation are more important than a woman's access to birth control (even though their medical plans cover Viagra, of all things). Heck, it's hard to argue that Feminists are "wrong" when we have politicians that try to enact laws affecting Women's reproductive rights when they--the politicians--don't even know how vaginas work.
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Cruz Dope Stone Lion
Vasvasra wrote...
>Do Feminists ever consider that they might be wrong?

I dunno, do Republicans/Democrats/Libertarians/Atheists/New Agers ever think they're wrong?

Scarcasm aside, there's a lot you're missing out here. Femisism isn't just some small movement led by vocal complainers. It's not just an opinion. It's a much larger movement with religious, psychological, economic, social, and even academic implications. (It's why I didn't involve it in my Thesis--I'd have been at it forever! XD)

It's not this thing you can "prove wrong", because so many things in society are geared towards an odd hierarchy where women (and anyone else not a straight, white man) end up underprivileged. A lot of that stuff is just hard-wired into us by virtue of nurture (as oppose to nature), which is why so many of it seems jarring.

Besides, it's hard to say that Feminists are "wrong" when the U.S. Congress decided that Hobby Lobby's religious beliefs as a corporation are more important than a woman's access to birth control (even though their medical plans cover Viagra, of all things). Heck, it's hard to argue that Feminists are "wrong" when we have politicians that try to enact laws affecting Women's reproductive rights when they--the politicians--don't even know how vaginas work.


>nurture not nature
I'd say evolutionary psychology disagrees with a lot of these claims. Even if our physical makeup is 99% similar we're still a sexually dimorphic species. Fortunately through the conveniences of modern medicine and technology, disparities affecting women, whether social, economic and physical, aren't as wide as let's say...100 years ago.

Hobby Lobby isn't preventing women from getting access to contraceptives, and you said, their complain was on religious principles (how does Viagra contradict that if they did cover it, which they don't), sterilizations are NOT life terminating which are covered. The Supreme Court and lower courts pointed out that the Affordable Care Act already exempts thousands of companies from providing contraceptives on other grounds, affecting a lot of people, females and males. The whole "war on women" narrative on the basis of this particular court decision is nonsense.

Also it's appropriate to point out that men don't have any reproductive rights, those who are "waging a war against women" are tackling it from what "life" is and when it begins, they can easily be defending a potential female life who could be aborted due to gender bias (sometimes racial, seriously, the industry surrounding abortions and contraceptives is well founded on eugenics). I don't agree with a lot of these Traditionalist/Religious fundamentalist that life begins at conception or that we should limit a person's autonomy for said potential life but it's nothing short of self imposed victimhood to only make this about one gender. My problem with them is the same as the one with feminist, they don't value female responsibility while embracing the double standard of male utility. Despite humans beings being sexually dimorphic species, I firmly believe women have cognitive faculties of higher reasoning as men so it's absolutely sexist to hold them to a lower standard of responsibility. (inb4 victim blaming)
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KageMinowara wrote...
I wanted to ask any feminists on this site whether they ever consider the possibility that they might be wrong regarding their feminist viewpoints about the world?

One of the things that a professor of mine always told me was that its important for an academic (well for anyone really) to always keep in mind Socrates' famous line "All I know is that I know nothing." Meaning that as fallible human being, no matter how much learn, how much wisdom and knowledge we gain, we can't know everything. We can never see all sides of an issue, and we always have to be open to the possibility that everything we think we know about world might be completely wrong.

However one of things I've noticed about feminists is that they extremely resistant to anyone questioning feminist ideas, very often becoming angry when someone does so. I personally have even lost friendships with women just because I told them I didn't believe in feminism, or when I questioned the validity of certain feminist ideas. Because of this tendency I'm rather suspicious of feminist and feminists as I firmly believe that any ideology which does not allow people to question or doubt it is dangerous. And similarly, while not always dangerous, anyone who becomes angry with people just because they don't believe the same things that you believe to be mentally immature.

But maybe this is just because the feminists I've interacted with are mostly 18 to 20 year old university students and generally at that age people are filled with a great deal of moral certantity and the belief that they know everything (particularly about the evils of the world and that they are going to right them ^^). So I was wondering if there are any feminists here who are okay with people questioning and doubting feminism and feminist ideas?


I as a feminist, can't speak for all of us, but would like to put in a few words.
I believe that the questioning of certain stands is very important because I've seen some "feminist" take things out of context, become power hungry of the rights of men and woman. There are many things in the community that we end up taking different sides, because of different beliefs.

There are many topics in the feminist ideology, some may come across as something most don't doubt, like "rape is bad". But there are others, that in general would be wrong for not only woman, but for men as well. There are feminist who are ignorant enough to believe feminism is a standing ONLY for women who deserve it.


There is many cultural standing to what is right and wrong(Different beliefs, different religions,etc) about feminism.

"Basic Feminist Ideas
Both females and males who identify themselves as feminists disagree on many things. That being said, most feminists agree on five basic principles:

Working to increase equality: Feminist thought links ideas to action, insisting we should push for change toward gender equality and not just talk about it.
Expanding human choice: Feminists believe that both men and women should have the freedom to develop their human interests and talents, even if those interests and talents conflict with the status quo. For example, if a woman wants to be a mechanic, she should have the right and opportunity to do so.
Eliminating gender stratification: Feminists oppose laws and cultural norms that limit income, educational and job opportunities for women.
Ending sexual violence and promoting sexual freedom: Feminists feel that women should have control over their sexuality and reproduction.
"


I would like to point out the last key factor, "Ending sexual violence and promotion sexual freedom" This could be proven as a wrong standing.

Having to take in the fact of EVERYONE, should have this right. All humans should have this right, not only the females.

I have my own beliefs, such as abortion should be decision to the woman, I believe that we should follow our hearts and our "gut feelings" more than the decisions we make with our brains that are pounded with propaganda and ideas that are not our own.

I may be wrong, but I just go off how something makes me feel, if I don't like it, I dismiss it and leave. There are many times I've taken the heat for others, I stand up for everyone, and if that's wrong, I'll make it better.

*just woke up and may be jumbled*
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I am all for the equality of the sexes. However I do not identify as a feminist. This is primarily because of a very vocal group of people who identify as feminist that I don't wish to be associated with. Regarding the OP's question I doubt the people I am thinking about ever seriously consider that they might be wrong. As to the more reasonable people who identify as feminists they probably don't consider it but are willing to listen to arguments against their positions.

Then again I'm not a feminist maybe I am completely wrong :P
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I've not read the entire thread, but I'd like to voice some opinions on the matter.

As a (white non-US middle-class hetero cis :P) male who identify as a feminist, I have a few perspectives that I try to hold myself to. Daeeveka summarized the broad strokes in her excellent post two steps up, so I won't repeat that here. These tenets are feminism for me, and they represent ideals I believe in. However, I also recognise that they are exactly ideals: goals that we should endlessly strive for, but can never achieve in complete form.

Why yes, I have encountered feminist theory mostly from an academic perspective, now did you notice. :3

Do I sometimes wonder if they are wrong? I mean, yes, but the result of that question is always negative. I find them to be so basic that negating them always leads to something unacceptable. I've yet to find a situation where this foundation of feminism in itself seems wrong. I acknowledge that this is based on my own culturally created sense of morality. I'm fine with that.

Instead of asking about right and wrong, I think it's more fruitful to ask about relevance. As a student of literature, I believe it is always possible to analyse a text in context (which in this case can also mean a situation, event or similar) from every perspective. That it's possible is not always a guarantee for it being relevant. I don't believe a feminist analysis is always the most crucial lens to view everything through. That doesn't have to mean that the analysis is wrong, but just that other perspectives might be more relevant given the current context. In such cases, I shouldn't push a feminist reading just because I happen to be good at making those (which I'm not really claiming either :P).

That's my answer to the question in the title. I'd like to comment on a few things I've spotted as I flipped through the thread, directed at no one in particular (but if you feel hit, come at me bro).

There was a complaint that feminism isn't concerned with the different situations in other countries and, at best, tries to apply the same methods that worked in the US from afar. This is indeed a problem, and feminist theory since the 90s have been working to adopt that perspective as well. If you're interested, google "intersectionality" for an introductory glance.

The same can be said for the male perspective. Lately, there is more and more acknowledgement that males are, in fact, also trapped in gender roles that many (including myself) do not feel comfortable with. I am very happy that feminism has this place for me, that I can feel is relevant not only for my convictions but also for my actual self. There is much being done to expand the scope of the male gender.

This is why I think that one of the most damaging dichotomy that's being set up today is "if it's good for women, then it's bad for men". That might be true in individual cases (for given values of "good" and "bad"), but seen as categories, I don't think there is necessarily a very strong correlation. Something can be just good, for everyone, and that is what I want to work for.
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Haven't read much of the post but, as a Transgender person and Feminists, I can say this:Ones world view can be wrong but Dogmatism is always wrong. That is the biggest problem with most debates I see today. This isn't me saying that Feminists are wrong or bad, but the idea that anything outside of that view is automatically wrong and can't have any value is. I see this a lot on Tumblr. It's the reason that the American political systems are Fuck. Also there is a extreme lack of... acceptance in the far left that is pretty shocking. To be far, it mostly reactionary the more asshole-ish people that jump on anyone that to about "left leaning" views and I get it. That said it as became something I don't think the more scholarly minded ment for it to become and they become it's own worse enemy in some respects.
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Iron Siaka wrote...
I've yet to find a situation where this foundation of feminism in itself seems wrong.


Reproductive rights are not and cannot be perfectly equal, simply for the fact that nature made us different.
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Coconutt wrote...
Iron Siaka wrote...
I've yet to find a situation where this foundation of feminism in itself seems wrong.


Reproductive rights are not and cannot be perfectly equal, simply for the fact that nature made us different.
Well, I mean, what do you mean by "reproductive rights"?

It's true that only vagina-bearers can grow a baby (as of yet, technology marches on). There is a biological difference between people (not just between sexes), and while I think this difference is routinely blown way out of proportion, I also think they can't be denied. From the perspective of "equality" meaning "everyone can do the same thing", "reproductive rights" can't be "perfectly equal" because the woman always has to carry and deliver the baby.

However, as I said in my post, equality is an ideal, and ideals are by definition unattainable. This doesn't mean we can't try to get as close to that ideal as possible. The bearing and birthing of the child may unchangeably be a woman's plight, but there are many things surrounding it that can be changed. For example, choosing to be a mother or not, or being able to return to work after delivering the baby, and the distribution of caring for the baby between the parents are all influences on a woman's "reproductive rights".

Similarly, there is much work to be done on the male side. The opportunity of taking a bigger role in the raising of the child is often socially discouraged if it infringes on work or other social functions. I for one think that the freedom of a male to choose to be the "primary" parent without encountering social disapproval is a cause worthy of fighting for.

Summary: true, there are some things we cannot change. Instead of letting that discourage us, let's change the things we can, which are in the great majority anyway.
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Iron Siaka wrote...
What do you mean by "reproductive rights"?


Legal rights that concern motherhood, fatherhood, childbearing, child birth, etc...

Iron Siaka wrote...
Equality is an ideal, and ideals are by definition unattainable.


It totally depends on your ideals whether they are unattainable or not. Different sexes being equal under the law in as many areas as possible is an attainable ideal and is so in the western world. Different colored people being equal under the law is an attained ideal in the western world. So on and so forth...

Iron Siaka wrote...
For example, choosing to be a mother or not, or being able to return to work after delivering the baby, and the distribution of caring for the baby between the parents are all influences on a woman's "reproductive rights".

Similarly, there is much work to be done on the male side. The opportunity of taking a bigger role in the raising of the child is often socially discouraged if it infringes on work or other social functions. I for one think that the freedom of a male to choose to be the "primary" parent without encountering social disapproval is a cause worthy of fighting for.


Most of those examples are what you call "unattainable ideals", because they are more about social justice than equality in my view. What i am concerned about is when the state/law is not equal and there fore unjust and i give more attention to that than to what some seem as socially unjust, because a lot of the times that seems to be just hammering down peoples double standards anyway.
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Cruz Dope Stone Lion
http://www.truthrevolt.org/news/radical-feminist-activist-denounces-feminism-apologizes-christians



“For the feminist sect women are not the inspiration, they are prime matter in the worst sense of the term. They are convenient objects useful for the purpose of inflaming hatred against the Christian religion, hatred against men, hatred against the beauty of women, hatred against the equilibrium of families. That’s what feminism is, and I can guarantee it is like that because I was on the inside!”

“I saw the feminist movement cover up for PEDOPHILES. I saw the feminist movement PERSECUTE WOMEN... I am a witness to the fact that today in the feminist movement women are not of any importance but serve as fuel for the fires of hatred that the feminist sect cannot allow to die.”


FEMEN leader in Brazil denounces FEMEN and modern feminist for a reason. Besides the men bashing and ignoring of their problems and attributing to disparity to social differences and convenient titles like privilege, this is my main problem. Their willingness to defend pedophiles.
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I thinks feminists are ignorant and arrogant, pardon the harsh speak but that is what i believe. A lot of my past experience with feminists has usually led to an argument, and a lot of them are saying that women are superior and they should be given more privileges. Feminist and misogynists are the same in the aspect that they both reside on the extremes of either spectrum. Everyone deserves equal respect and love, pushing the idea that one group should have less rights and privileges based off of their genders is a ludicrous thing. You'll produce more conflict in the end once you start going to the extreme of your ideas, to such an extreme that you disregard other ideas instead of utilizing them to help you become more knowledgeable.

To achieve "balance" in a social aspect don't lean so far in either direction of the spectrum and find the point of equilibrium so that both sides' ideas become clear and solutions can be made.

Hate breeds more hate, don't contribute to the negative help it spread.

-Law
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Since anger is always relative to cunts and dick heads. It's gonna be a long time until people can tolerate and adjust themselves to a scale where they want to think and shut up. I personally don't want to care about it.

In a perspective of what is fair, it's rarely the case when irritated feminist feel like receiving truth and like putting up accusations. And when they want the truth. It's like throwing wordily shit at their pride and right towards their emo.

If people want to act like they don't feel, it's inevitable someone has an all good speech about failures of feminist. Otherwise, beliefs are whatever subjective or truth if you want it in words. And if people want to achieve truth, they easily fail to push forward the goal of the manifesto because the bad part is what strikes the most views.
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Reaperzwei wrote...
...I've seen other stupid stuff too like recently someone(cant remember who) said that women should learn to defend themselves against things like rape. The reaction to this was that women shouldn't have to defend themselves that men should just not rape. While this is of course true rape still does happen even though its against the law and we tell our kids growing up to treat women well and don't ever think of doing such a thing to women.


I agree, but there is a certain point of view you should look at it like this, when a Female rapes a Male the Male should also have had some sort of self-protecting training in the past (not from rape specifically because as you say it shouldn't happen anyway) but because EVERYONE should have self protecting training. We have to admit that this world isn't exactly peace and unicorns, shit happens and everyone should be able to 'hold their own' as it were.
Thats just my two cents.
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dogbreth Swerval Punk
mdarkanima wrote...

I am for overall equality and fair-treatment of EVERYONE, man, woman, trans-gender, gay, straight, anything.

That basically decribes intersectional feminism in a nutshell ^.^
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Cruz Dope Stone Lion
dogbreth wrote...
mdarkanima wrote...

I am for overall equality and fair-treatment of EVERYONE, man, woman, trans-gender, gay, straight, anything.

That basically decribes intersectional feminism in a nutshell ^.^


I've seen more than enough "intersectional" feminist not act in accordance to those sentiments.

Of all the people with "Male tears", "white tears", "kill white cis men" tee-shirts, mugs, etc. are all intersectional feminist.
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Romana FAKKU Letterer
cruz737 wrote...

I've seen more than enough "intersectional" feminist not act in accordance to those sentiments.

Of all the people with "Male tears", "white tears", "kill white cis men" tee-shirts, mugs, etc. are all intersectional feminist.


That's called Misandry, not Feminism.
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Cruz Dope Stone Lion
Romana wrote...
cruz737 wrote...

I've seen more than enough "intersectional" feminist not act in accordance to those sentiments.

Of all the people with "Male tears", "white tears", "kill white cis men" tee-shirts, mugs, etc. are all intersectional feminist.


That's called Misandry, not Feminism.


Pretty sure I said Feminist. Not -ism, BUT if you want me to criticize/analyze the ideology, then I and many others already have. Misandry isn't mutually exclusive with Feminism. It is still possible to hate/dislike/be fearful of men/"male-ness" while preaching about how we need "equality". In all honesty if you believe in patriarchy/Kyriarchy then it is almost impossible to believe in equality with your supposed oppressors/tormentors/slave masters. Especially when fighting/resisting institutionalized subordination.

Nice attempt at trying to use a static definition for something that by it's nature doesn't have one though.
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dogbreth Swerval Punk
cruz737 wrote...
dogbreth wrote...
mdarkanima wrote...

I am for overall equality and fair-treatment of EVERYONE, man, woman, trans-gender, gay, straight, anything.

That basically decribes intersectional feminism in a nutshell ^.^


I've seen more than enough "intersectional" feminist not act in accordance to those sentiments.

Of all the people with "Male tears", "white tears", "kill white cis men" tee-shirts, mugs, etc. are all intersectional feminist.
i wont argue that shitty people are bieng shitty under a banner they support. That happens reguardless. Shitty hateful spiteful people are everywhere, in every group, belief system, religion, political party, and group with a shared identity. Its unavoidable.
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Cruz Dope Stone Lion
dogbreth wrote...
cruz737 wrote...
dogbreth wrote...
mdarkanima wrote...

I am for overall equality and fair-treatment of EVERYONE, man, woman, trans-gender, gay, straight, anything.

That basically decribes intersectional feminism in a nutshell ^.^


I've seen more than enough "intersectional" feminist not act in accordance to those sentiments.

Of all the people with "Male tears", "white tears", "kill white cis men" tee-shirts, mugs, etc. are all intersectional feminist.
i wont argue that shitty people are bieng shitty under a banner they support. That happens reguardless. Shitty hateful spiteful people are everywhere, in every group, belief system, religion, political party, and group with a shared identity. Its unavoidable.


You are one of the few people whom I've interacted that didn't go in full damage control or tried to justify their spitefulness.

Despite that I still feel like at it's core, the ideology has a lot of holes to poke at and criticize.
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Likhos01 Monster Girl Lover
cruz737 wrote...
dogbreth wrote...
cruz737 wrote...
dogbreth wrote...
mdarkanima wrote...

I am for overall equality and fair-treatment of EVERYONE, man, woman, trans-gender, gay, straight, anything.

That basically decribes intersectional feminism in a nutshell ^.^


I've seen more than enough "intersectional" feminist not act in accordance to those sentiments.

Of all the people with "Male tears", "white tears", "kill white cis men" tee-shirts, mugs, etc. are all intersectional feminist.
i wont argue that shitty people are bieng shitty under a banner they support. That happens reguardless. Shitty hateful spiteful people are everywhere, in every group, belief system, religion, political party, and group with a shared identity. Its unavoidable.


You are one of the few people whom I've interacted that didn't go in full damage control or tried to justify their spitefulness.

Despite that I still feel like at it's core, the ideology has a lot of holes to poke at and criticize.


You forgot the reaction some of them have that revolves simply around blocking you.
Got blocked by two of those so called "feminists" (can't seriously call them feminists, they are an insult to feminists in every era and places in the world that have achieved something good)
One was calling peoples nazis for outing a pedophile (hello Sarah Nyberg, hope you burn) To which I kindly responded that I'd rather be a nazi than defending a child fucker.
The other was calling Milo Yannopoulos a homophobe, this is self explanatory.

No answers from them, simply a block.
It's just like Sarkeesian, no debate, only a wall.

I can't be the only one who hates assholes who do that.