Do your best to make connections. If you're someone who doesn't like to deal with people you're not familiar with, learn to do it anyway. It's very beneficial to be on good terms with lots of different people. You never know who might save your ass when you really need it. Along the same lines, don't be afraid to ask people for help and be happy to accept help whenever it's offered. Even if you're someone who wants to do everything on their own, accepting help is a perfectly good thing sometimes.
One of these days if you're free, grab yourself a piece of paper and write down a few questions to ask yourself. Then lay down for a few hours and try to tackle them. For example:
- What's my dream career? It can be anything, even if it sounds ridiculous.
- What kind of work is realistic for me right now? When I'm out of college?
- Do I want to have children? A large family? What's my plan for supporting them?
Do you have a major in mind for your post-secondary studies? If so is it something you really love or just something you thought would work for you? You should try to get into something you really, really appreciate on many different levels. And if you don't have a major in mind, look for something! Try stuff! Talk to people who are doing these things. There are dozens and dozens of sites online where you can ask people about their studies and get an idea of what they're doing. This is your time to get your hands and feet dirty so try not to be afraid of these things.
There's a lot to think about and lots of decisions to consider. It might be overwhelming now but that's okay as long as you find your way through it. Feel free to shoot me a PM about it.