A friend needs my help
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Okay, so once upon a time on this very forum, I left a post saying what I should do about a girl that I liked who happened to be a very good friend, plus she was involved with another guy. Long story short, everyone said to get over her and in a way I did.
Well let's fast forward to the present. Not too long ago she broke up with her boyfriend, and while the thought to pursue her once more did cross my mind, I decided to leave it be for the sake of the friendship. But that's neither here nor there. She is seriously going around sleeping with a bunch of dudes, and as a friend I shouldn't let her do that. I confronted her about it and all that happened was a huge fight between us where she accused me of calling her a whore and other things that I won't say since I don't have the space.
So what I'm asking you guys is how should I confront her about this again? Because regardless of what you say, I'm going to do it because I really am concerned for her mental well being.
Well let's fast forward to the present. Not too long ago she broke up with her boyfriend, and while the thought to pursue her once more did cross my mind, I decided to leave it be for the sake of the friendship. But that's neither here nor there. She is seriously going around sleeping with a bunch of dudes, and as a friend I shouldn't let her do that. I confronted her about it and all that happened was a huge fight between us where she accused me of calling her a whore and other things that I won't say since I don't have the space.
So what I'm asking you guys is how should I confront her about this again? Because regardless of what you say, I'm going to do it because I really am concerned for her mental well being.
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if she does not hear you as a friend then you may score her.
what is your real intention to her actually by telling this? seems you already fall for her.
just be truth to yourself and accept the cosequences if things goes worst.
what is your real intention to her actually by telling this? seems you already fall for her.
just be truth to yourself and accept the cosequences if things goes worst.
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In this kind of situation, I think it is better for her to learn the hard way.
Who she sleeps with is her concern, and as a friend you should be there for her when the 'poop hits the fan'.
By the sounds of it, she has just broken up and wants to explore her sexual freedom for a bit. From what you've said, anything you say to her will only make her mad at you, and push her away from you.
And think of it this way, would you like it if she told you whom you should and shouldn't sleep with?
Who she sleeps with is her concern, and as a friend you should be there for her when the 'poop hits the fan'.
By the sounds of it, she has just broken up and wants to explore her sexual freedom for a bit. From what you've said, anything you say to her will only make her mad at you, and push her away from you.
And think of it this way, would you like it if she told you whom you should and shouldn't sleep with?
