Am I a tsundere?

Nobody likes tsunderes in real life, because - honestly - nobody likes getting mixed signals from people. You have to be honest with yourself before you can be honest with others, so admit it! You have a big romantic hard-on for this guy! But if you keep treating him this way... He's gonna move on, and who could really blame him? Not you! If you want to keep yourself from saying something regrettable, then maybe you should "plan" conversations. Basically, think about what you should say/do in reaction to X, Y, Z... and then, you know, do it. But first off, apologize to this guy and explain yourself. Nobody deserves to tread in another person's shit.

Thank you, you are right. I really don't mean to but sometimes I feel like it's better to just be single. I really like him though...I just don't want to be trick all over again. Thank you so much for your honest opinion and I will try my best to plan out what I am going to say before I say it. Wish me luck. O.o

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>>humour aside, you're obviously very thoughtful and care a lot about this guy. Your "Tsun" comes from a lack of trust or an unwillingness to let yourself be hurt. You'll do fine if you learn to trust. Love this guy if you feel so inclined, if not him, then someone else. Put yourself at risk, and even if you get hurt, you'll learn and be happy for the experience later.

Aye, tsunderes make good materials for drama, but irl, no one wants drama in their love life.

take it from me, a real life tsundere. everyone hates it and or you.

Wait for their warm side, it will come over time.
It's worth it.

I hate myself LOL

First step in getting rid of that tsun attitude! Your dere moments are cute.





nonsense, people love a romantic conversation about poop.

You make it sound like being tsundere is a bad thing. We can't help it sometimes. We're just shy or something. Hmph!

... But I do see what you mean, so it's understandable... baka...

Like Mass Effect, just pick the first choice every time, and it will work itself out.

That is not true, I love tsundere.
My girl is tsundere and being tsundere is nothing bad. As a guy you even have to put more effort into being together with a tsundere girl and I like it!

Thank you everyone for replying. I told him how I feel and he replied by saying "I care about you." What does that even mean?! I wanted to yell but I didn't. :3 Can someone please tell me what he could possibly mean by that?

Yes! It seems like ever since I showed my soft side he's become...boring.

Is it so hard to just take his word for it and believe he honestly cares? I dunno what you think relationships are but... it irks me a little when you said he's boring once you become more loving.

I'm not sure if this makes sense, but try to look at it from his pov too.

On the topic of tsuns: I don't mind shyness, but lying or being abusive aren't the right way to show that shyness.