Blue balls

been awhile since I came back to Fakku... Anyway halp

Gf isn't ready for sex (she never had sexual experiences). Been getting handjobs from time to time.
I can't cum. Dunno if its because of lack of stimulation that i like, or because of me fapping too much (daily). Maybe its because of me wanting to cum (i really want to cum). I mean it feels great and all but i just cant cum.

Serious blue balls, trying to quit fapping for awhile. No fapping makes it worse.

Gimme some positions you guys like so I can spice things up abit. What do you like in a hj?

Get some toys and lube?

Prostate milking.

Likely because you're desensitized and someone else who has no idea what you like can't give you that same pleasure you give yourself. Hold her hand over your dick and "demonstrate" how you want your handjobs. Make sure she understands how firm she needs to hold it and the speed which you get off with.

In other words, speak to her. Problem solved.

This. Trust me, if you help her out, showing her how you like it, and or maybe what you like, a little dirty talking, maybe try and get her to give you head :O who knows. She'll appreciate the tips, because then she'll be more confident in know she can make you cum, and who knows might want to take it further.

Also, if she allows, maybe try stimulating her a bit too, it might help with the arousal.

Goodluck!

I agree with SkelliDrops.
If she is comfortable with it, try giving her a little attention (rubbing, sucking her sensitive areas, oral, etc.). Show her that you're eager to please her and, hopefully, she will feel the same way and be open to experimenting. Maybe ease her onto blowjobs...just be patient and make sure to communicate with her. Fellatio is exciting if all you've been getting are hand jobs, but blow jobs are difficult and take practice. Try seeing if she'll start with gentle mouth play, like licking, or what not.

If you know you're going to be meeting/hanging out with her a certain day, try to refrain from masturbating that day. :P Hope things turn around for you!

I came with a thunderous roar.

Thank you for all you help :)

So what did you do?

We were really horny that one night and she was determined to "return the favor" bscause im the one who always make her feel good. We were essentially foreplaying each other for 2 hours. I let her know what was good by moaning. Apparentlly that really turned her on and we just got even more horny. She figured out what i like and she made me cum explosively.

Man that felt good.

So moan. Dont try to b the tough guy and make no noise or grunt.

You can even be more direct with her by telling her if something feels good.

But yes, moans work well. Sex is more than just physical actions and many people forget that.

well im glad things worked out well for you, now if you excuses me... HONEY!...oh yeah i dont have a GF.......well im already on FAKKU!

Truth. It doesn't matter what sex you are, moaning is an instant turn on. Congrats!

Find a guy to have fun with. he will know exactly how to get you cumming like a geyser, due to being a guy himslef and knowing how to please one. And then tell your girl to repeat everything she saw the guy do.

lol