Busy busy day

If you know of my situation I am in, you will probably get the reason I did this if you don't See this thread. Well anyways, I've taken a huge step today, I actually manned up and did it, I asked Zoey(GF) to marry me. This sis something I never thought I'd do... well... not any time soon not now even. I'm a wild buck as some would say, with lots of wild oats to sew, something I have done a lot of, and I figure I need to grow up a bit and settle down. So this is that first step.

Anyways, to get it out in the open I went to Jared... (in b4 "He went to Jared") Because I've bought stuff form them before for myself, watches, signet ring's, ect. special ordered a ring, how big and how much I paid for it need not be disclosed, but for what I paid it was worth it.

So on to the actual event's, Zoey has no idea that I'm going to do this no one but her father and possibly mother know(I'm a traditionalist ask for the hand yada yada yada). I had made these reservations for lunch at Keenland(horse park much like Churchill Downs(Kentucky Derby)) for a day at the races and lunch, a week or two before I had ordered the ring.

Anyways moving on, When I go to the race track I'm a bit of an oddball, white dress shirt, black vest and black slack's(close to a Victorian look something that has held over form my earlier years and employment). Any who lunch progresses, we are having fun sadly none of the bets I've made won though they were small bets of 5 bucks each nothing much. Just as a race is finishing, I take a deep breath, to calm my nerves as I'm nervous as shit, at this moment. I walk up behind her and put one arm around her waist and rest my head on her shoulder while maneuvering the box in front of her with my other arm. hold it there for a second before I say anything and all I say is "Will you Marry me?"

Long story short, she turns around and looks at me, for what seems like an eternity before saying anything. If a croaked yes counts as saying something. After that I actually won about 50 bucks(covered my loses) Watched a few more races and as the day began to dwindle, we end up packing it up, and going back to my place as she stayed here last night and then watched some movies and she left for home, just about two hours ago, leaving me here, by myself wondering if today really happened and a craving for a cigarette, something I haven't had in a few days because I've decided to give them up.

Getting laid is nice but then it's not all there is to what I've done, in my life, I'm not some nymphomaniac or sex addict.



Uh thanks? I'm just doing what I want to do, I like Zoey enough to actually pull my life out of the gutter and do this.

Yay~

You did it man!

So what are your thoughts on the future now? Have you figured out what you want to do for your married life?

I have no idea what I'm getting into I haven't lived with a woman for 7 years when I moved out of my parents house let alone a pregnant woman and that was when I was 4 when my mother was pregnant with my little brother(Nothing like me).

This is a prime example of why your only "girlfriend" will be your hand, which you will cheat on with your other hand.

posibly, I'm a swinger by nature, and Zoey is as well

Asking the girls father for her hand in marriage.