Coping With Rejection
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This is my first post so i'll do my best x.x
I was falling for a lovely lady in a game (PC) and never has happened for me so it was new and somewhat nice. We started developing feelings for one another then outta the blue she tell me she is in a relationship with another women (Don't have a problem with being gay or bi) But she told me she came to reason with her feelings and said she is sorry for what she is done and is sticking with the girl. I don't mean to bust my QQ's on the forum just giving an example.
Wanting to know what anyone does for coping with rejection, kinda sad =/
I was falling for a lovely lady in a game (PC) and never has happened for me so it was new and somewhat nice. We started developing feelings for one another then outta the blue she tell me she is in a relationship with another women (Don't have a problem with being gay or bi) But she told me she came to reason with her feelings and said she is sorry for what she is done and is sticking with the girl. I don't mean to bust my QQ's on the forum just giving an example.
Wanting to know what anyone does for coping with rejection, kinda sad =/
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Kraykn wrote...
This is my first post so i'll do my best x.xI was falling for a lovely lady in a game (PC)
so she wasn't really a person? You fell for a NPC, that then rejected you, for another NPC?
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just keep on looking maybe... ill admit ive had quite a lot of rejections... its complicated to explain in my case. its easy for me to bait them in but keeping em is a different matter. i dont know if thats rejection but to me i think it is... since they reject the rest of me and not jsut the freakin face and shape.
ill admit ive really no idea how i lasted with that much. maybe i just kept on thinking, what i say to others, just keep on going coz youll never know... your lucky break might be just a week, day, month or hour from now
ill admit ive really no idea how i lasted with that much. maybe i just kept on thinking, what i say to others, just keep on going coz youll never know... your lucky break might be just a week, day, month or hour from now
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I would suggest for you to go over this. If you were dating a girl for a while and this was the result, I can see why you would be like this right now. But you don't know each other personally, so you shouldn't be reacting like this. She wasn't doing it on purpose either, seeing how you stated that she apologized.
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You're still inexperienced. Look around more and you'll find a real relationship, then this will be nothing to ya.
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Move on and get out more, meet girls in person, you know the ones you can actually touch. And get over it stop wasting beautiful youth on moping.
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Lughost
the Lugoat
If it's really got you down just find something you like to do, preferably something that doesn't remind you of her, and immerse yourself in it.
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Ask her why.
Why did she lead you on/Why did she flirt with you and make you feel like she might be with you in a romantic way, if she was already with someone?
You have to hear the hard uncomfortable truths before you'll successfully get her off your mind for good. If any part of you thought you might actually be with her, then you deserve to have an official ending.
After that? It's all you, kid.
Why did she lead you on/Why did she flirt with you and make you feel like she might be with you in a romantic way, if she was already with someone?
You have to hear the hard uncomfortable truths before you'll successfully get her off your mind for good. If any part of you thought you might actually be with her, then you deserve to have an official ending.
After that? It's all you, kid.
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Not gonna lie, expecting anything more than occasional communication or flirty language from a net friend or PC game acquaintance is rather unrealistic, even if said person is very close to you.
